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Original poster

To be completely turned off new bloke

206 replies

Blossombirdy · 29/07/2014 23:37

Started seeing a very nice bloke. Perfect and romantic in every way... except I don't want to have sex with him.

He has hairy balls which are a complete turn off. And on our last date, no 3 btw, he stank so much of BO I had to turn the air con on.

Aibu ti think I should give him the boot or have a gentle word about scrotal etiquette?

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JennyOnTheBlocks · 29/07/2014 23:39

Really?

Emmablue · 29/07/2014 23:42

Shave his balls for him as forplay?!ConfusedGrinShock

If you don't want to have sex with him you obviously don't like him that much. Get rid.

Greenwayslide · 29/07/2014 23:45

Reverse?

JackShit · 29/07/2014 23:45

Erm...newsflash - blokes have hairy balls!

How odd.

Whilewildeisonmine · 29/07/2014 23:47

YABU.

HauntedNoddyCar · 29/07/2014 23:54

Hairy bollocks?

upupupandaway · 29/07/2014 23:55

Do some men have smooth balls? News to me!
BO a def turn off.
Any port in a storm?

Happydaysatlastforthebody · 29/07/2014 23:57

Hairy balls and smelly fandangos.

It's all on here tonight.

FirstlyANameChange · 29/07/2014 23:57

The hairy scrotum is fine by me, but the BO is a passion killer (If you mean stale, nasty sweat, not hot-man-in-hot-car fresh sweat). YABU for the natural hair though, if this was a man posting about women's waxing...

Original poster
Blossombirdy · 29/07/2014 23:59

Yes most guys these days shave. Obv I don't want to dump the guy as he has a great personality n is generally lovely. But... how should i deal with it. Any helpful suggestions?

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Original poster
Blossombirdy · 30/07/2014 00:00

Oh Jeez I just can't deal with hair. It's gross.

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LuluJakey1 · 30/07/2014 00:01

If you mean BO as in unwashed, stinking oniony smell- yanbu
Hairy balls- I thought that was normal to some extent, although not if he is like a werewolf hairy.

lucidlady · 30/07/2014 00:01

Shaved balls? Wouldn't that be itchy?

Original poster
Blossombirdy · 30/07/2014 00:03

I don't see wot the problem is. A clean shaven guy equals better sex life. Come on get with it.

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BadLad · 30/07/2014 00:04

Yes most guys these days shave.

Rubbish.

fawltydoge · 30/07/2014 00:06

Confused OP have you honestly never been with a guy who doesn't shave his balls? I'd be more surprised to find a man who does. the BO is grim though

SinglePringle · 30/07/2014 00:07

I can't bare a man who shaves his chest, balls, the generic genital area. An enormous turn off. I want a man in the sack.

Body odour would be more problematic.

maras2 · 30/07/2014 00:07

Body odour is a no no, but what's wrong with hairy balls?

SinglePringle · 30/07/2014 00:08

Argh bear obviously!

Greenwayslide · 30/07/2014 00:08

If you want men without hair you need to date men under 30 extremely common for young men to shave now.

MaidOfStars · 30/07/2014 00:08

How - how? - does a clean shaven guy equal a better sex life? Are you tricked into thinking his cock is bigger? Is your tongue action so undeveloped that you can't account for hair?

Original poster
Blossombirdy · 30/07/2014 00:08

Well trimmers are popular now so maybe I should nip to argos tomorrow. Look most guys shave. So do most women. Im just looking for a way to broach the subject.

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Original poster
Blossombirdy · 30/07/2014 00:10

Maid of Hairs you've git the gist yes.

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SinglePringle · 30/07/2014 00:10

In my experience (and there's been a few - been single a while!) don't shave. In fact, never met a man who does.

stagsden · 30/07/2014 00:12

Actually clean shaven guy = worse sex life. Proper man = much better sex life.

DH actually suggested him shaving the area - i was horrified and told him it was grounds for divorce!

Oh and i dont need to "get with the times" - im only 23