To be completely turned off new bloke

[Blossombirdy]

Started seeing a very nice bloke. Perfect and romantic in every way... except I don't want to have sex with him.

He has hairy balls which are a complete turn off. And on our last date, no 3 btw, he stank so much of BO I had to turn the air con on.

Aibu ti think I should give him the boot or have a gentle word about scrotal etiquette?

Really?

Shave his balls for him as forplay?!

If you don't want to have sex with him you obviously don't like him that much. Get rid.

Reverse?

Erm...newsflash - blokes have hairy balls!

How odd.

YABU.

Hairy bollocks?

Do some men have smooth balls? News to me!
BO a def turn off.
Any port in a storm?

Hairy balls and smelly fandangos.

It's all on here tonight.

The hairy scrotum is fine by me, but the BO is a passion killer (If you mean stale, nasty sweat, not hot-man-in-hot-car fresh sweat). YABU for the natural hair though, if this was a man posting about women's waxing...

Yes most guys these days shave. Obv I don't want to dump the guy as he has a great personality n is generally lovely. But... how should i deal with it. Any helpful suggestions?

Oh Jeez I just can't deal with hair. It's gross.

If you mean BO as in unwashed, stinking oniony smell- yanbu
Hairy balls- I thought that was normal to some extent, although not if he is like a werewolf hairy.

Shaved balls? Wouldn't that be itchy?

I don't see wot the problem is. A clean shaven guy equals better sex life. Come on get with it.

Yes most guys these days shave.

Rubbish.

OP have you honestly never been with a guy who doesn't shave his balls? I'd be more surprised to find a man who does. the BO is grim though

I can't bare a man who shaves his chest, balls, the generic genital area. An enormous turn off. I want a man in the sack.

Body odour would be more problematic.

Body odour is a no no, but what's wrong with hairy balls?

Argh bear obviously!

If you want men without hair you need to date men under 30 extremely common for young men to shave now.

How - how? - does a clean shaven guy equal a better sex life? Are you tricked into thinking his cock is bigger? Is your tongue action so undeveloped that you can't account for hair?

Well trimmers are popular now so maybe I should nip to argos tomorrow. Look most guys shave. So do most women. Im just looking for a way to broach the subject.

Maid of Hairs you've git the gist yes.

In my experience (and there's been a few - been single a while!) don't shave. In fact, never met a man who does.

Actually clean shaven guy = worse sex life. Proper man = much better sex life.

DH actually suggested him shaving the area - i was horrified and told him it was grounds for divorce!

Oh and i dont need to "get with the times" - im only 23