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Original poster

To think nobody in their right mind would find this funny?

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Bluemonkeyspots · 14/07/2013 16:26

Just been torn to shreds on cousins Facebook by her lovely friends who think I should not have pulled her up on the fact that her status update was totally disgusting!

"Love my little people, dd1 has made dinner, dd2 has done the cleaning just need dd3 to learn how to give head and I will have a easy life haha lol pmsl"

Dd3 is 3yo!

Not only is it a terrible thing to put about any child this is a child i see every week and love to bits and it turns my stomach her own mum wrote this.

Seemingly it's ok though as she put "lol" at the end Shock

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WestieMamma · 14/07/2013 16:28
Shock
TimeofChange · 14/07/2013 16:30

People are really wierd. That is disgusting.

Delete the cousin.

ShadowStorm · 14/07/2013 16:30
Shock

YANBU. Totally agree with you.

mynameisslimshady · 14/07/2013 16:30

That is disgusting. I would defriend that person asap.

poorbuthappy · 14/07/2013 16:30

Jesus wept.

Hawkmoth · 14/07/2013 16:31

You always want a better life for your kids...

Spero · 14/07/2013 16:31

Euuurrrrrhg.

It might have been ok if she had quipped that she needed her husband to learn to suck his own willy, but to create such a mental image of a 3 year old in such a situation pretty gross. I don't think I would want such a person in my life or near my child. She doesn't sound like she has got healthy boundaries.

misspoirot · 14/07/2013 16:31

Shocking and disgusting. Delete

YouTheCat · 14/07/2013 16:32

What a vile individual.

TooTabooToBoo · 14/07/2013 16:33

WTF????

She needs to take a long, hard look at herself.

Bearandcub · 14/07/2013 16:33

Surely this isn't real?

FieryChipotle · 14/07/2013 16:33

I can't believe that anyone would find that acceptable. Disgusting.

ImNotBloody14 · 14/07/2013 16:33

Is it in any way possible she meant give head massages and just left out the massages by accident?

How did her friends defend it? What did they say?

Original poster
Bluemonkeyspots · 14/07/2013 16:34

Well I won't get the chance to delete her as during the argument that followed with her friends she deleted me! I got a personal message telling me its because I made a big deal out of a obvious joke and how upset she is that I took it the wrong way.

I'm still sat with my mouth open in shock and don't even care this may out me.

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Spero · 14/07/2013 16:34

Yes, would be interested to know how friends defended this.

Hopefully not by saying your bubba, your rules.

5madthings · 14/07/2013 16:34

That is fucking sick, so not funny on any level whatsoever!

themaltesecat · 14/07/2013 16:35

Disgusting.

No idea how anyone could have such a thought, let alone type it out.

YouTheCat · 14/07/2013 16:35

Blue, even though she has deleted you, make sure you block her.

coldwater1 · 14/07/2013 16:35

How odd for a mother to write that about her child.

FamiliesShareGerms · 14/07/2013 16:35

In no way is this funny (or appropriate)

Spero · 14/07/2013 16:36

What is the 'right' way to take a joke about sexual abuse of your own 3 year old?

anonpost · 14/07/2013 16:36

Disgusting individuals.

Alisvolatpropiis · 14/07/2013 16:36

That's vile.

Shock

How could you think let alone say that about a child?

Original poster
Bluemonkeyspots · 14/07/2013 16:36

I was the first to comment saying I thought it was a disgusting comment to make and can't believe anyone would write that about their own dc then all her friends piled in to defend the "obvious joke"

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MissStrawberry · 14/07/2013 16:37

I just can not understand this as it can't possibly be the way it reads. Can it?

BTW I doubt she is upset. Just blocking you for sure with her similarly stupid friends.