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To think nobody in their right mind would find this funny?

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Bluemonkeyspots · 14/07/2013 16:26

Just been torn to shreds on cousins Facebook by her lovely friends who think I should not have pulled her up on the fact that her status update was totally disgusting!

"Love my little people, dd1 has made dinner, dd2 has done the cleaning just need dd3 to learn how to give head and I will have a easy life haha lol pmsl"

Dd3 is 3yo!

Not only is it a terrible thing to put about any child this is a child i see every week and love to bits and it turns my stomach her own mum wrote this.

Seemingly it's ok though as she put "lol" at the end Shock

OP posts:
RoooneyMara · 14/07/2013 18:19

I am so glad that you said something before she deleted you. I bet half her friends were thinking the same but too scared to stand up to her.

Now she will look very bad to them - there will be a bit of an uncomfortable silence.

Well done.

whatshallwedo · 14/07/2013 18:20

How does that sentence even enter someone's head let alone be able to write it on fb?? I actually think I would report her for being so vile in the hope that a chat with an hv or sw work make her realise how wrong this is.

whatshallwedo · 14/07/2013 18:21

How does that sentence even enter someone's head let alone be able to write it on fb?? I actually think I would report her for being so vile in the hope that a chat with an hv or sw work make her realise how wrong this is.

CorrieDale · 14/07/2013 18:24

Taking it the wrong way? The right way being???

DeathByTray · 14/07/2013 18:26

That is wrong on so many levels. Shock

I can ignore most stuff posted on FB but I couldn't ignore that.

Well done OP for challenging your cousin.

NeoMaxiZoomDweebie · 14/07/2013 18:27

I would report her. That is such a frigging warped thing to say that she's obviously not right in her mind. I would definitely report her to SS.

OnTheNingNangNong · 14/07/2013 18:29

Fucking hell. Why?! It's vile.

BatwingsAndButterflies · 14/07/2013 18:30

Sick, I would want to do something about it, not sure what though...

LondonNinja · 14/07/2013 18:30

What a disgusting idiot. Report her. She's a numbskull and so are her pathetic friends.

trikken · 14/07/2013 18:32

I agree with the 'yuck'. Its not funny at all.

SharonBodfish · 14/07/2013 18:32

I think a call to social services might be in order? She doesn't sound like a fit parent. what a lot of vile scum there are on this earth.

MammaTJ · 14/07/2013 18:33

I would have taken a screen shot and reported to SS tbh.

ElizabethHornswoggle · 14/07/2013 18:45

Ewwwww! I'm usually the first to shout "politically correct nonsense" but even I say that is seriously vile and not in the least bit funny!
Who in their right mind would even make a joke about something like that? That's seriously sick. Good on you for pulling her up on it.

Purple2012 · 14/07/2013 18:47

Yanbu. Vile woman.

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Bluemonkeyspots · 14/07/2013 18:59

I never even thought to take a screen shot, maybe should have done as according to her dh she had only written "..... now what can I find for dd3 to do" and it was one of her friends who had put the comment up about giving head. So even though she is making me out to be a lier to our family at least she must now know she was in the wrong that she is not admitting to it.

I don't suppose any of her friends would back me up and say what was said and I'm not sure who else would have reviewed it before it was deleted.

Then again i do have the private mail she sent me in which she admits it was a joke so obvious it was written by her.

Can see this causing a massive argument now in the family though, I never once thought she was being serious I do thing it was a totally inappropriate thing to say but not actually something she meant iykwim.

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Mia4 · 14/07/2013 19:19

Wow she's an idiot. Shame you didn't get the chance to screencap that's a golden comment to send to stfu_parents.

Whothefuckfarted · 14/07/2013 19:24

Wishful

I don't know the person who was wearing it, I'm guessing it was made by a company who you can get to 'make to order' tops with 'a slogan of your choice'

If it was my company I would have point blank refused the order. shameful

AmyFarrahFowlerCooper · 14/07/2013 19:27

That's fucking disgusting. Well done you for saying something! I don't often feel horrified by jokes and can ignore plenty but that made my stomach go because it is so wrong :(

phantomnamechanger · 14/07/2013 19:27

words fail me, they really do.

Do people have NO boundaries at what they will say for a cheap laugh thesedays?

well done you for calling her on it, whether it makes a family scene or not, you know and she knows and that's what matters

Tiredemma · 14/07/2013 19:30

what a fucking freak.

phantomnamechanger · 14/07/2013 19:32

so her dh is defending her now and says it was a comment by her friend. Would he not be absolutely repulsed by such a sick comment from a "friend" and want the friend deleted at once? I am 100% sure my dh would. not that he would need to insist as I would feel the same way.

TotallyBursar · 14/07/2013 19:32

They can try and cause an argument but you really don't have to engage.

'I know what you wrote, I saw it. You know my feelings about it ans there is nothing more to discuss.' She can't have an argument with you if you don't rise to it and you can give the same answer to any others age wants to get involved.
What a shame her partner is ok with him being embroiled in something so disgusting. Stupid mare should never have let that thought out of her head.

TotallyBursar · 14/07/2013 19:34

and she not age. Auto cucmber as typing quickly before dog walk.

staffie99 · 14/07/2013 19:34

Check your internet history, maybe you can still get the page back to get a screenshot...

Spero · 14/07/2013 19:40

Even if a friend wrote it, she should have deleted it and had words with the friend.

This sounds but a short step away from stuff like her not caring if the children see her having sex or allowing them access to pornography - and that would be a child protection issue.

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