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To think nobody in their right mind would find this funny?

162 replies

Bluemonkeyspots · 14/07/2013 16:26

Just been torn to shreds on cousins Facebook by her lovely friends who think I should not have pulled her up on the fact that her status update was totally disgusting!

"Love my little people, dd1 has made dinner, dd2 has done the cleaning just need dd3 to learn how to give head and I will have a easy life haha lol pmsl"

Dd3 is 3yo!

Not only is it a terrible thing to put about any child this is a child i see every week and love to bits and it turns my stomach her own mum wrote this.

Seemingly it's ok though as she put "lol" at the end Shock

OP posts:
Buzzardbird · 14/07/2013 19:46

I would just simply let her know that it is in the hands of the child protection agency now and let her sweat. The stupid bad mother.

ArgyMargy · 14/07/2013 19:50

I'm thinking if a man wrote an equivalent post he could be on the sex offenders register within days...

ZingWidge · 14/07/2013 19:51

no idea what give head means

Tiredemma · 14/07/2013 19:51

zing- - Blow job

staffie99 · 14/07/2013 19:52

Well don't google it.

Tiredemma · 14/07/2013 19:53

ArgyMargy is right-

I think if a man wrote anything like that on FB even this with 'sense of humours' would pull him up on it.

its disgusting- if she thinks its 'ok' why has she not left it up there?

vile dog.

Tiredemma · 14/07/2013 19:53

even *those

EugenesAxe · 14/07/2013 19:54

Shock x lots

Of course it's an obvious joke... but how could any sane person EVER joke about something so completely sick? I cannot believe it - I'd just tell your DM/DF if you aren't close enough to your aunt to spill the beans; hopefully they would be.

Ipp3 · 14/07/2013 19:58

Maybe you could send her a link to all these comments so that she can see how other people view her 'joke'.
Words fail me. They really do. A mother joking about incestuous sexual abuse of her own child. Jesus wept.

quoteunquote · 14/07/2013 20:01

personally I would report to the police and social services,

Because that to me shows a complete lack of perspective on what is and is not acceptable.

And because I would rather look a grown child in the eye and say," I reported what I knew",

than say, "I knew they were strange, so I had nothing to do with them."

and if they are just making a "joke" then the police and social services will be perfectly happy to join in laughing.

I hope they get the help they need, either way poor children.

louisianablue2000 · 14/07/2013 20:01

I actually gasped when I saw that. Yes it's a joke but a terrible one that I can't imagine ever making and if i did have the brain flip required to make it DH would definitely call me on it. Has she deleted it? At least that suggests she's realised it was completely inappropriate. But OMG!

verytellytubby · 14/07/2013 20:03

That's grim. Fucking weirdo.

HaveIGotPoosForYou · 14/07/2013 21:25

What a vile woman.

I have friends who have said some jokes that make me really reconsider our friendship but that's just.

I am sorry but even if it is a joke it's worrying that she could find that 'funny' to be honest.

ZingWidge · 14/07/2013 22:23

tiredemma
thank you, but now I wish I didn't know.

What a sick thing to say about a child, it is not funny at all!
disgusting. vile.

DoctorAnge · 14/07/2013 22:32

Oh no! Not funny at all

cosydressinggown · 14/07/2013 22:43

Seriously grim, and worthy of a call to someone in the child protection area.

QueenofWhispers · 14/07/2013 22:55

I never pray....but I pray to never ever run into this type of woman/person ever in my life. YUCK...where do people like this come from?

McNewPants2013 · 14/07/2013 22:59

first 2 about cooking and cleaning is funny, but not the sexual 3rd one.

scarlettsmummy2 · 14/07/2013 23:04

So so awful. She sounds not wise.

Nombrechanger · 14/07/2013 23:06

What the fuck!!?!???!!

rabbitlady · 14/07/2013 23:09

police and social services, definitely.

SisterMonicaJoan · 14/07/2013 23:13

Vile excuse of a mother.

Have you told your parents? Maybe they could speak to her mum? Although she may have bought the line fed to her DH...

Empress77 · 14/07/2013 23:16

crikey that is unbelievable. Horrible.

MarmaladeTwatkins · 14/07/2013 23:17

What the actual fucking fuck?!

HOW did her friends defend this? How?!

Jesus.

ImABadGirl · 14/07/2013 23:22

I think her friends are as bad as she is for defending her, what a sick, vile thing to put on fb, no wonder kids are growing up like they are if they have parents like this...

well done for calling her on it op