See, I get po about a few things (disablism, drugs, teenagers, things I really care about). So I don't post about those things in aibu or chat or where there are others who don't care about those things.
If I want to chat about something that matters to me I put it in the right place, and have a serious discussion.
I think a lot of this argument is that people post aibu about (insert something they mind about) and then are upset if people think they are being unreasonable. And it all goes downhill from there.
But I'll repeat what I said on the other thread. I do try to intervene if an op is being ganged up on and I generally try to be nice (trolls and goaders excepted, though, and the problem is that some extra naive nice people don't realise they are trolls and goaders).
And I really hope that if someone sees me being deliberately horrible, or bullying, or piling in, that they will call me on it.
And I think there are a lot of "regulars" who feel like that.
[gavel]
couldn't resist the gavel