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Idiot Husband

130 replies

coffecoffe · 05/02/2012 19:43

Just caught my husband watching porn in the living room infront of me and my 3 year old. I'm raving but he told me to get a grip.

what do you guys think????

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tanfastic · 05/02/2012 19:43

Erm, let me think about that one Hmm

Fisharefriendsnotfood · 05/02/2012 19:44

Your three year old was in the room while he was watching porn? I'd kill him. Slowly.

bagelmonkey · 05/02/2012 19:45

Did he already have a grip himself?

Alliwantisaroomsomewhere · 05/02/2012 19:46

That's just fucking disgusting.

AThingInYourLife · 05/02/2012 19:46
Shock

Jesus, that is appalling.

Watching porn with children in the room is verging on child abuse.

That is so fucked up.

battherat · 05/02/2012 19:47

Ffs. Awful.

AlistairSim · 05/02/2012 19:47

Subjecting children to pornographic images is abuse.

AprilSkies · 05/02/2012 19:48

Was he actually watching oirn or just clicked on a link someone sent him?

tanfastic · 05/02/2012 19:48

Im guessing this is a wind up.

StrandedBear · 05/02/2012 19:49

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JustHecate · 05/02/2012 19:49

I think it's highly inappropriate to be getting your rocks off with your child in the room.

OffMeTrolley · 05/02/2012 19:49

what do you mean you "caught" him, yet he was right there watching it

JustHecate · 05/02/2012 19:50

Mentally, I mean. I am not suggesting he was doing anything physically.

Proudnscary · 05/02/2012 19:50

Umm he's not an 'idiot husband', he is a 'cunt husband' and a 'possibly abusive, even dangerous husband'.

Get off Mumsnet and start making moves to sort this out.

(And poss report your post to ask for it to be moved to Relationships?)

MidnightWorry · 05/02/2012 19:51

not acceptable

coffecoffe · 05/02/2012 19:51

it wasnt on telly on the laptop, he couldnt see it but i could watched a bit before shouting at him, he just told me to get a grip.

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TheGrimSweeper · 05/02/2012 19:52

I'm guessing op's dh watching on the lap top. Not any better Hmm but I imagine 3 yo not able to see images

TheGrimSweeper · 05/02/2012 19:52

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KittyFane · 05/02/2012 19:53

Was he have a err little look on his phone/laptop or did he put a DVD on? Hmm
Either way YANBU.
He needs to sort himself out.

KittyFane · 05/02/2012 19:53

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happydotcom · 05/02/2012 19:54

That's terrible.

SparkleSoiree · 05/02/2012 19:54

I can't believe you are actually asking an internet forum what they think about that instead of sorting out your child's welfare, pronto.

gordyslovesheep · 05/02/2012 19:55

he COULDN'T SEE IT - how was he watching it then?

Hassled · 05/02/2012 19:55

That's beyond grim. I think calling him an idiot is a bit too polite - he passed the idiot stage a while back.

AThingInYourLife · 05/02/2012 19:56

Get a grip?

Because watching porn around a small child is totally normal? Hmm