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AIBU?

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communication

210 replies

AIBUmememememe · 02/11/2011 16:27

we live a ten minute walk from school. there are few busy roads on way. also some drug addicts/drinkers hanging on corners etc. do u think a husband and wife should talk about whether or not their young (both under 10) kids should be walked or driven to school? or should one parent make the decision and not offer the other one any consultation reasons and behind it?

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Maryz · 02/11/2011 17:33

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TheVermiciousKnid · 02/11/2011 17:35

Bizarre. Confused

IneedAbetterNickname · 02/11/2011 17:35

We are thinking logically, and LOGICALLY it is up to the parent doing the journey!

pozzled yes you should discuss every minute detail of what you plan to do with your DH! Grin

pozzled · 02/11/2011 17:36

Oh, I get it! It's really one of those lateral thinking puzzles, so we're supposed to use our best logical reasoning skills. Is the answer that the couple doesn't really have any children?

wannabesybil · 02/11/2011 17:38

I don't understand why the OP is upset. If they are doing the journey is their other half insisting that they do it another way. Or are they not doing the journey and insisting that their other half should do it the way that the OP thinks they should.

Actually, I'd rather talk teabags - they're supposed to be very good in compost

IneedAbetterNickname · 02/11/2011 17:40

lol at pozzled! I think the answer is that actually they are the drug addicts stood on the corner, and are, obviously, angry that they can't harm the children, as the parents are there! Hmm not sure that makes sense, but then neither does much of this thread Grin

Maryz · 02/11/2011 17:42

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andthisisme · 02/11/2011 17:42

Well, I've been mostly lurking here for a while now and I think this is the most bizarre thread I've ever read.

Is some kind of prize in order? like the ability to be reasonable perhaps

wannabesybil · 02/11/2011 17:42

Would you want to park your car where there are loads of drug addicts hanging round?

WhereYouLeftIt · 02/11/2011 17:47

Oh good, OP is offski - I can swear again! Grin

Was there ever a point when anyone answered in a way that was not logical but was instead "ruled by emotions" "RULED BY EMOTIONS"?

The capitals weren't nearly random enough, but for a moment there I could almost believe dear Gabby was back ...

ObiWan · 02/11/2011 17:51

Grin I thought of Gabby too!

Whatmeworry · 02/11/2011 17:54

I felt the Hand of Mooooo there....

MenopausalHaze · 02/11/2011 17:57

Such weirdness - and not for the first time today! Is there some kind of solar flare going on? I know it's not a full moon so there must be some other explanation.

squeakytoy · 02/11/2011 17:58

I have read this thread in order, backwards, and in random sections.. it still makes no frigging sense.

Therefore YABU.

It is nearly a full moon MH, and it has been halloween too.... Wink

squeakytoy · 02/11/2011 17:59

oh, and it has to have the most ironic thread title ever...

"communication".... Confused

AIBUmememememe · 02/11/2011 18:01

en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Critical_thinking

just to show there is no hard feelings. please take a look at this. If you get time in between drinking tea.

You may begin to understand where I am coming from

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eurochick · 02/11/2011 18:03

Gosh....

CheeseandGherkins · 02/11/2011 18:05

I think the op is the dp who doesn't want the mother walking the children to school. Just my opinion though. Clearly we're all too "emtional", what with being women...

CheeseandGherkins · 02/11/2011 18:06

That would be "emotional" ahem

CheeseandGherkins · 02/11/2011 18:06

If Obi was still drinking the same cup of tea from May I'd be most surprised op Wink

LadyBeagleEyes · 02/11/2011 18:07

I understood fuck all of that.
Glad it wasn't just me being thick as no one else understood either.

TheVermiciousKnid · 02/11/2011 18:07

I think you're right, CheeseandGherkins. But why bother posting on AIBU if you already know what the answer should be?

CheeseandGherkins · 02/11/2011 18:09

So the op can tell us all how wrong and emotional we are? Obviously not using critical thinking skills either to make the massive decision on how to take the children to school.

Whatmeworry · 02/11/2011 18:12

^en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Critical_thinking^

From the above:

"On the other hand, one's thinking might be criticized as being the result of a sub-optimal disposition. The dispositional dimension of critical thinking is characterological. Its focus is in learning and developing the habitual intention to be truth-seeking, open-minded, systematic, analytical, inquisitive, confident in reasoning, and prudent in making judgments"

1,2,3 Hoist......

Maryz · 02/11/2011 18:14

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