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Very Puzzled..AIBU

200 replies

GingerWrath · 17/09/2011 21:11

Acquittance has a baby that is 5 weeks on Monday. She has left her baby 1 hour and 40 min away at her Mum's, because 'she cries at night', now I am not the most maternal person but there is no way I would have left DD at 5 weeks, DM helped get her into a routine at 11 wks but I was there. AIBU to think this isn't on?

OP posts:
AnyFucker · 17/09/2011 22:25
Grin
Crosshair · 17/09/2011 22:26

yabu to judge someone you hardly know.

Doodlez · 17/09/2011 22:27

What's wrong with letting your mother look after a new baby for the night? I can see why it wouldn't work with a breast fed baby but a bottle fed baby is going to be fine...unless you think the Grandmother might eat the child?

Blimey, I would have LOVED a night off every now and then, knowing the baby was being totally loved and looked after in the best possible hands I can think of!

AnyFucker · 17/09/2011 22:32

This reply has been deleted

Message deleted by Mumsnet.

Thingumy · 17/09/2011 22:33

Your dh has done 22 yrs in the forces?

I'll let you off OP....

Arf.That.is.all.

bubbles4 · 17/09/2011 22:33

Loved Mnhq reason for deleting it look here

pigletmania · 17/09/2011 22:35

awww like a good bunfight, yes MNHQ is getting very trigger happy

AnyFucker · 17/09/2011 22:35

great isnt it bubbles ? Grin

SuePurblybilt · 17/09/2011 22:36

Goodness me, they're quick with the Big Red Button tonight.

AnyFucker · 17/09/2011 22:36

aww, that was quick

just for mentioning a thread about a thread that was deleted Grin

AnyFucker · 17/09/2011 22:36

< delete >

LilRedWG · 17/09/2011 22:36

I think OP has given up anyway.

bubbles4 · 17/09/2011 22:37

Makes a change to "oops we cant find that thread" Grin

SayCuntyNowSayChops · 17/09/2011 22:37

Aw I always get sucked in...

FannyFifer · 17/09/2011 22:37

I can still post on deleted thread. Smile

SayCuntyNowSayChops · 17/09/2011 22:38

Loved the MNHQ message though - deleted because, let's face it, it turned into a bit of a bunfight

:o

SuePurblybilt · 17/09/2011 22:38

ooo, Fanny, the responsibility. What will you say?

FannyFifer · 17/09/2011 22:40

No one else can see or post on it though so not much fun

I did post lots of smiley faces and it's still on my active convo's. Grin

MJHASLEFTTHEBUILDING · 17/09/2011 22:41

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AnyFucker · 17/09/2011 22:41

Fanny, have you special powers ?

hiccymapops · 17/09/2011 22:42

I've got them too Grin

SuePurblybilt · 17/09/2011 22:42

It's an open channel between you and MNHQ. A wormhole to the Mothership.

You must say something profound.

FannyFifer · 17/09/2011 22:42

Can no one else see it in active convo's?

AnyFucker · 17/09/2011 22:43

how

how ??

how much did it cost ya ?

AnyFucker · 17/09/2011 22:44

it's like a Black Hole

a rip in the Time Space Continuum

or summat