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EasternStandard · Today 21:02

I’m so sorry to hear this and so sorry for his family, including his grandad Flowers

RobertaFirmino · Today 21:05

I really do think that reins need to be reconsidered. I know they are old-fashioned and restrictive but I'd much rather see a child 'on a lead', as I have heard it described than one on a stretcher.

WallyHilloughby · Today 21:06

hotmumshit · Today 20:27

God I'm so sad about this. His poor mum. I know I wouldn't cope. My best to their family, and to sweet Noah.

I get the sentiment behind what you’re saying but it’s so unhelpful. Bereaved parents have to cope. They don’t want to they are in living hell. They certainly aren’t ‘brave’ or ‘strong’ and all these other platitudes people say, they are just forced into a situation they have no choice but to live through

Kirbert2 · Today 21:10

RobertaFirmino · Today 21:05

I really do think that reins need to be reconsidered. I know they are old-fashioned and restrictive but I'd much rather see a child 'on a lead', as I have heard it described than one on a stretcher.

This little boy was in a playground though so it wouldn't have prevented anything since reins typically aren't used when a child is playing at the park.

Generally though, I agree and will never understand why people are against them.

hotmumshit · Today 21:10

WallyHilloughby · Today 21:06

I get the sentiment behind what you’re saying but it’s so unhelpful. Bereaved parents have to cope. They don’t want to they are in living hell. They certainly aren’t ‘brave’ or ‘strong’ and all these other platitudes people say, they are just forced into a situation they have no choice but to live through

okay. apologies.

ThreadGuardDog · Today 21:12

There’s something I don’t understand here. The boy’s grandfather tried to run after him and fell. Several people caught that fall on their phones. Why would they stand around and film that instead of making sure the child was OK ? Apologies if I’ve misunderstood but why would you watch a potential tragedy unfold like this ?

Mirsine · Today 21:15

ThreadGuardDog · Today 21:12

There’s something I don’t understand here. The boy’s grandfather tried to run after him and fell. Several people caught that fall on their phones. Why would they stand around and film that instead of making sure the child was OK ? Apologies if I’ve misunderstood but why would you watch a potential tragedy unfold like this ?

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Fuck knows 😞 They were either too young or naive to care.

Bystander effect maybe.

Also I think most people who see a child running through a park won’t immediately think that the child will end up missing and dead, so they just mind their own business.

StiffAsAVicar · Today 21:17

ThreadGuardDog · Today 21:12

There’s something I don’t understand here. The boy’s grandfather tried to run after him and fell. Several people caught that fall on their phones. Why would they stand around and film that instead of making sure the child was OK ? Apologies if I’ve misunderstood but why would you watch a potential tragedy unfold like this ?

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where did u see that?

Papyrophile · Today 21:22

So very very sad for little Noah and his family. Condolences, and deepest sympathy.

Dexternight · Today 21:23

Dangers of water.
RIP little one.

dustabsorber · Today 21:24

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YouDoIDo · Today 21:26

HedgerowD · Today 18:02

Decoy ponds are man made, they were made to trap wildfowl. The one in question in 5 acres in size. That is over 20,000 metres squared. It's not the little duck ponds in the local park that some are imagining.

Thank you for this info, I have seen a few people saying how was he not found last night. But obviously if that’s the scale they had to search it’s understandable.

Absolutely heartbreaking 😢 May his beautiful soul rest in peace 🩵

FuzzySlippers · Today 21:41

Oh no. That poor poor little boy and his family.

WimbyAce · Today 21:44

Absolutely tragic. An awful reminder of how life can change in an instant.

Advocodo · Today 21:47

So so sad. Little children are so fascinated with water. Don’t understand why someone didn’t run after him even if the grandad couldn’t. What a tragedy.

Fartughtyred · Today 21:50

Beyond devastating. My heart goes out to Noah's parents, grandparents and family and praying for the Lords peace, strength and comfort to carry them through the days and weeks ahead. RIP beautiful boy, you've touched the hearts of so many.

Dexternight · Today 21:54

👶 💐

Papyrophile · Today 22:03

Duplicated message.

CrazyMidget · Today 22:15

ChopSueyCharcuterieBoard · Today 19:42

Of course its because of the family.

My son died before the Internet was what it is now. I overheard two women discussing my sons death in a shop and blaming me for it. They just made shit up and bolstered each other on. This was 28 years ago and barely a week goes by when I dont think of that. I cant even imagine what thats like when the gossips are all over the world and hundreds of them.

Also MN is where a lot of bereaved parents come for support, its not out of the realms of possibility that the parents may come here for support. They may already be on MN.

Maybe people should type things they wouldn't want the bereaved parents to see rather than assume they wont see it.

I am SO sorry about your son. ☹️💐 That's so terrible.

And also about you overhearing that awful rubbish.

You're right. I'll be much more careful what I post on such threads in future.

PrettyLittleRose · Today 22:21

Advocodo · Today 21:47

So so sad. Little children are so fascinated with water. Don’t understand why someone didn’t run after him even if the grandad couldn’t. What a tragedy.

I also can't fathom how no-one stopped the little boy if he ran off and it was in a public area, but I don't know enough about what happened.

As has been said though, what a horrible tragedy, and very sad indeed. My thoughts go out to the family, particularly the parents, and the grandparents ...
Condolences to all. Sad

And R.I.P. little Noah. Flowers

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