Omg I shagged the vicar

[Lapdog78]

BC for this one!!

last summer I moved to a new village with my 2 teen DC’s following my divorce. I’ve made a real effort to integrate into village life and joined a cycling group which I love.

a couple of new members joined a few months ago, one of whom is the vicar from a nearby parish. He’s 39 single. I’m 43.

on Friday we all met for drinks snd I ended Ho inviting a group back to my house. Kids are away with their dad. We all had a few more drinks at my house before people started heading home. There’s been a little bit of flirtation between me and the vicar and it ended up just me and him- we had some more wine and he was being very complimentary and was clearly trying it on. We ended up kissing and I’m afraid that I ended up shagging him on my kitchen sofa. Very out of character for me.

im now mortified that I have to see him at cycle meet this week. My friends think it’s hilarious but im worried he’ll think I’m loose and common. 😲

Was he late to the clergy? Previous job something different ( I don't need to out him, just curious).

39, steady job, free house, crap wages but plenty of Sunday lunches you don't have to cook. The neighbours are usually quiet!

My husband was going to be a vicar. He didn't but my God he would come under dishy vicar if he had.

Thank goodness. This would be so much worse if it was lousy.
sounds like this vicar is blessed in more ways than one.

Hmmm the vicar in my village is in his late 30s or early 40s 🤔

😆

Did you know it was a grubby kitchen?

Not using protection does seem incredibly reckless, particularly under the circumstances of him being a vicar. 🫪

I'd start wearing a tea dress and a straw hat.

Fake it until you make OP.

Definitely a "more tea vicar" moment 😂

Have you got the MAP?

You never know he might want a rematch!!!

Pretty sure it’s the vicar that needs to say sorry to the baby Jesus!

Or a second coming.

Blimey.

Especially this one!

He was clearly up for it. Not sure why anyone would be shocked or surprised, except about the lack of contraception.

It must be a bloody big kitchen to have a sofa in it!

Go for it, girl!

no contraception. wow. please go and get checked.

Go for it OP, you only live once. You are both single and clearly he was up for it too!

Is this likely to become 'a thing'?

Sounds exciting.

Did he ask you out on a date? Or does he have form for shagging parishioners.

I actually find that a bit worrying. Not sure vicars are supposed to shag around the parish. Are they not supposed to wait for marriage?
Might he be a risk to vulnerable women?
No reflection in you OP obviously.
I'd take this thread down. Too many identifiable details. He could get into trouble. Maybe he should 🤔
I'm not religious, so might be completey wrong.

You both enjoyed it, that's all that matters, just put it down to experience on life's diverse journey.....🙂

We don't know.

Presumably he doesn't either, which is sort of the point.

This is a funny story because OP is finding it funny - if she was sitting at home cringing and full of regret, feeling like he'd taken advantage of her being pissed, it wouldn't be funny at all. He's in a position of responsibility and he should act like it.

Personally I think the vicar may judge himself for sinning more than you considering this act is against his very faith. As is getting drunk tbf. I don’t think he will judge you… the whole point of his faith is forgiveness and embracing sinners.