Omg I shagged the vicar

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BC for this one!!

last summer I moved to a new village with my 2 teen DC’s following my divorce. I’ve made a real effort to integrate into village life and joined a cycling group which I love.

a couple of new members joined a few months ago, one of whom is the vicar from a nearby parish. He’s 39 single. I’m 43.

on Friday we all met for drinks snd I ended Ho inviting a group back to my house. Kids are away with their dad. We all had a few more drinks at my house before people started heading home. There’s been a little bit of flirtation between me and the vicar and it ended up just me and him- we had some more wine and he was being very complimentary and was clearly trying it on. We ended up kissing and I’m afraid that I ended up shagging him on my kitchen sofa. Very out of character for me.

im now mortified that I have to see him at cycle meet this week. My friends think it’s hilarious but im worried he’ll think I’m loose and common. 😲

Made me think of Grantchester too. Many shagging vicars in that.

Are you living in Granchester?

That's very sad for religious people 😕

He showed you the way... in more ways than one!

I also want to know was he collared up or was he casual!

Is this common practice for him to go around taking a shine aka looking for a good bible bashing with parishoners?

He's a bit weird OP. I'd be careful about doodooing on your own doorstep. By all means shag vicars, but do it in different villages...

Where does it go from here, do you see yourself as the vicar's wife or love interest?!

Well you’ve definitely integrated yourself into the local parish. 😅

Construction and Design Management, perhaps...

Someone who is much more up on these things than I am managed to locate three references to sex In the New Testament and those are more in passing but it's full of money debt and wealth

I hope not for OPs sake.

I don’t really understand why she’d be so embarrassed to have sex if she’s a grown adult.

There’s definitely something very childish about it.

Most societies condemn sexual immorality but you don’t need religion for that. What Christ was concerned about was belief

I always find this a really strange argument. Beliefs that exist unconnected from actions are what we commonly call hypocrisy. What is the point of a belief that does not lead to behaviour? Jesus was a Jew, and Judaism is very much based in actions and practice and Jesus was part of that that tradition. When he prevented the woman condemned for sexual
immorality from being stoned, he turned and told her to sin no more. He was clear her actions were sinful. Actions have always been central to Christianity. And linking actions and belief is central to any coherent belief system whether secular or spiritual.

Agree with this.

What a load of old shite 😆

@MalcolmTent the story or the pearl clutching!

Funniest thread on Mumsnet today.

I hope he or you had a condom at the ready because if he's been dipping himself rather drunkenly into too many fonts, it doesn't bode well.

The vicar of a church local to me had a sex change in the 70s. My friend told me, I told my mum. My mum didnt believe me......until the News of the world got wind of it😉

Funny though it is, the last thing I’d do is tell anyone. If his superiors get to hear of it he’ll be in trouble.

Why would he? Hes allowed a private life

Both?

im now mortified that I have to see him at cycle meet this week. My friends think it’s hilarious but im worried he’ll think I’m loose and common. 😲

He'll surely be concerned about what it will do for his standing within the parish community should this get out.

like this

Its still a thing that women are judged on being slags, not saying its right but its definitely not gone away as a social stigma.

Look at bonnie blue...

im now mortified that I have to see him at cycle meet this week. My friends think it’s hilarious but im worried he’ll think I’m loose and common

This reads like a letter to an agony act circa 1968.

C'mon OP- admit this is a bank hols bit of fun and it never really happened.

My former C of E vicar was hysterical with the jokes.
Clergy have many a story to tell. They have an excellent education and they see such things.
You have to have some black humour.

I don't think he'll be 'confessing'.
Fwiw the bible teaches us the purpose of life is love. It takes many forms but everything we do is about receiving love even the tosspots overseas destroying our world.

It least OP you don't need a Claire's law enquiry or DBs as he will already have one.

I would have boffed all the Grantchester lot if I was single!

I have basically come to regard MN threads in the same way I regard a bookclub.

It may well be fiction but the themes and characters are still so entertaining to discuss and debate. 😁

I would say Bonnie Blue waa at the extreme end of the spectrum tbh

Sounds like a Fiona Walker type novel to me. Needs to have an eccentric older neighbour, a stalwart best friend with whom the heroine has lots of wine and heart to hearts at the pine kitchen table, a part time job at the village GP surgery or local Arts Centre and a competing love interest in the shape of a hunky landscape gardener.