Omg I shagged the vicar

[Lapdog78]

BC for this one!!

last summer I moved to a new village with my 2 teen DC’s following my divorce. I’ve made a real effort to integrate into village life and joined a cycling group which I love.

a couple of new members joined a few months ago, one of whom is the vicar from a nearby parish. He’s 39 single. I’m 43.

on Friday we all met for drinks snd I ended Ho inviting a group back to my house. Kids are away with their dad. We all had a few more drinks at my house before people started heading home. There’s been a little bit of flirtation between me and the vicar and it ended up just me and him- we had some more wine and he was being very complimentary and was clearly trying it on. We ended up kissing and I’m afraid that I ended up shagging him on my kitchen sofa. Very out of character for me.

im now mortified that I have to see him at cycle meet this week. My friends think it’s hilarious but im worried he’ll think I’m loose and common. 😲

If your vicar looks like our vicar I am soooooo jealous!

Well the OP certainly was!

OP why did you tell anyone?

Church of England? Doesn't count.

😂😂

".but I didn't shag his deputy"

Never mind. Vicars don't take a vow of chastity or even celibacy. If you're worried pretend it never happened.

That made me laugh!

😂

I'm not sure I believe this.

It seems very childish for a woman in her 40s so come onto social media saying this.

Vicars are just well, men or women. They have girlfriends (or boyfriends), marry, and all the usual stuff.

Too much watching of Grantchester, methinks @Lapdog78 😂

😉

Yeah, you need to aim for the RC clergy.

Omds, brilliant well done, i'm a 43yr old single mum too. Was he good? Did you enjoy yourself? Xx

Amen!

Haha brilliant - you’re both single so don’t worry 🤣

I am honestly quite taken aback that so many posters genuinely think that casual sex is perfectly compatible with the vocation and vows of a minister in Protestant ( presumably Anglican) churches.

Wonder if OP would have told us if it had been the GP!

Are they not ok with that?

Is there anything in the bible that says sex between consenting adults isn't allowed?

No they are not!

Some maybe ok with sex in a long term commited relationship (usually discreetly though), but they will be preaching that the proper place for sex is within marriage.

However, vicars are humans too, and often as prone to hypocrisy as the rest of society. History is littered with dodgy vicar's, corrupt priests etc, and those are only the ones we know about. So yes, it's possible that he shags around on the sly. But it won't be something he says is acceptable either. So either he'll be guilty wracken or is a through and through hypocrite.

Yes

I'm imagining a big kitchen with a conservatory/extension built onto it, so that her 'kitchen sofa' is visible, through the trees at the bottom of the garden, to her little old lady neighbours, who are both scandalised and gossipy. I bet the whole of the WI knew before he'd even pulled his trousers up...

Did he keep his dog collar on😆

A straight male vicar? Rare.

Couldn't agree more.