I am a scratch cook, I’d say 80% of our meals are from scratch, cooked fresh and served immediately. DH might have leftovers for his lunch the next day but I don’t cook in bulk, because we like the variety. The other 20% might be pizza, M&S ready meals or kievs if we are knackered, takeaways etc.
i don’t tend to take short cuts with ingredients because I am into flavour and texture. So for example I wouldn’t use pre grated cheese in macaroni cheese because the starch coating on the pre grated cheese would turn the whole thing into a claggy nightmare. I like my cheese sauce to be smooth and glossy, so I always grate it myself - my wrists despise me for it.
Instead of taking short cuts with the actual ingredients I have gadgets that make prep easier. A simple garlic rocker is one of the best inventions I use. Shits all over garlic presses. I have a mandolin that I use to finely slice onions, carrots, spuds etc. I can adjust the thickness. I treat it like a live bomb when I’m using it because the blade is so sharp! I whizz things up in my nutri bullet, sauces, soups, dressings etc.
I cannot get on with pre chopped veg, but I do use frozen soffrito for spag bol, shepherds pie, casseroles etc. Twenty five years of chopping and peeling have made me pretty adept at both, I don’t even think about what I’m doing when I’m engaged in either activity. I also cannot get on with the idea of bunging everything in one pot at the same time and leaving it. The result is always sloppy, brown and flavourless. I brown off ingredients - as a chef would. My slow cooker is reserved for Christmas ham alone.
I’m not talking spending hours slaving away in the kitchen. I can whizz up flatbreads with Greek salad and grilled chicken in around 15 mins. I am roast some veg and grill a steak pretty fast. Takes me about 20 mins to fully prep, brown and season something like spag bol, which I then cook slowly on the hob.
I just feel like I deserve fresh, well made food, and that I have the skills to do it so why not? I’m talking home cooking not restaurant level food. The pressure of a restaurant would finish me off! But I do understand that other people have different priorities and preferences in life. It’s just that, for me, food is a privilege and a pleasure that I don’t take for granted.