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Why is Taylor Swift ‘leading’ tributes to Dolly Parton?

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HereBeFuckery · 26/08/2026 07:57

It’s irritating the ever living shit out of me. Fuck off Taylor, go and think up another publicity stunt. A woman with actual talent has died, this isn’t a bandwagon for you to jump your plastic ass on. Have you read her torrent of drivel - she manages to shoehorn herself into the spotlight throughout. It reads as if she views Parton as laying the groundwork for her own career - monumental fuckwittery.

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the80sweregreat · 26/08/2026 08:37

Yep, Dolly was shrewd. She certainly wasn’t dumb and knew it was a business and how to play their game. Clever lady! Very talented lady.

BitterTits · 26/08/2026 08:37

Here you go OP. Get your critical thinking gear around these.

Why is Taylor Swift ‘leading’ tributes to Dolly Parton?
Visiblyabove25 · 26/08/2026 08:37

HereBeFuckery · 26/08/2026 07:57

It’s irritating the ever living shit out of me. Fuck off Taylor, go and think up another publicity stunt. A woman with actual talent has died, this isn’t a bandwagon for you to jump your plastic ass on. Have you read her torrent of drivel - she manages to shoehorn herself into the spotlight throughout. It reads as if she views Parton as laying the groundwork for her own career - monumental fuckwittery.

Firstly, you’re clearly no Dolly Parton fan. She would be appalled at you tearing another woman down like that, and especially at your implying Taylor Swift was talentless. Dolly gave numerous interviews talking about what a great songwriter and impressive business woman Taylor Swift is.

Secondly, as others have pointed out “leads tributes” is just how the headlines have phrased it - Taylor Swift isn’t claiming to be leading anything, she’s just expressing her grief about a woman she loved and admired, and because she’s a public figure, she’s doing it publicly.

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TheCabbageMerchant · 26/08/2026 08:38

I don't think she is 'leading' tributes, you've fallen for Daily Mail headlines OP. Maybe wise up a bit.

the80sweregreat · 26/08/2026 08:39

I doubt that TS wants to lead anything. It’s just her opinion on someone passing away who was a great influence and she knew her. They probably feel sad today and I hope they give her a big old fantastic send off! She deserves it.

keepcounsel · 26/08/2026 08:41

the80sweregreat · 26/08/2026 08:37

Yep, Dolly was shrewd. She certainly wasn’t dumb and knew it was a business and how to play their game. Clever lady! Very talented lady.

So great - and she said she admired Taylor Swift's financial decisions as well as her closeness to her family and musical talent. Although TS is from a wealthier background, there are a fair few similarities in that TS who also moved to Nashville at a young age, regained control of her back catalogue and treats the people who work for her extremely well.
The OP's bile about Swift's 'plastic ass' is pretty funny in relation to Dolly Parton who said "If something is bagging, sagging or dragging, I'll tuck it, suck it or pluck it."

Lexy2345 · 26/08/2026 08:41

Taylor Swift is a huge, global popstar. She started her career singing country music. She has rightly paid tribute to the wonderful Dolly Parton. No need for this angry reaction.

Malasana · 26/08/2026 08:46

What an unpleasant description of a talented and, by all appearances, perfectly pleasant woman. And “plastic ass”? How horrible.
TS can pay tribute to whoever she likes in what ever way she likes. Have you thought perhaps that it’s the media that create the headlines and not TS or are you that filled with hatred for a woman you don’t know that you can’t think straight?
This sort of thinking won’t be benefitting you.

Screamingabdabz · 26/08/2026 08:50

What a vile post that does nothing to edify Dolly’s memory. She supported Taylor Swift’s success and talent. Lots of country fans loved and nurtured TS.

Shameful op.

EmeraldRoulette · 26/08/2026 08:51

@HereBeFuckery Blimey

what would Dolly say about your comment I wonder

It’s not Taylor’s fault that whatever website you’re looking at has listed it this way. And of course, Dolly was a very big influence on lots of singers but a country singer, logically, even more so.

Did you complain about Dolly’s video message for Taylor’s donation? Or the articles Dolly wrote about her?

or Sabrina Carpenter’s tribute yesterday? No? Thought not.

I get that you’re upset. The world is a much sadder place. Don’t make it worse.

ChakaKan · 26/08/2026 08:51

HereBeFuckery · 26/08/2026 07:57

It’s irritating the ever living shit out of me. Fuck off Taylor, go and think up another publicity stunt. A woman with actual talent has died, this isn’t a bandwagon for you to jump your plastic ass on. Have you read her torrent of drivel - she manages to shoehorn herself into the spotlight throughout. It reads as if she views Parton as laying the groundwork for her own career - monumental fuckwittery.

To be fair, Dolly probably had more of a ‘plastic ass’ than Taylor

I’m no Taylor Swift fan but I wouldn’t deny she’s talented.
She also won’t have declared herself to be ‘leading the tributes’ it’s just a wanky media phrase reporters use.
It’s common for artists to explain how the deceased influenced or inspired their own career when paying a tribute.

Livelovelaughfuckoff · 26/08/2026 08:53

Dolly Parton was a huge women’s advocate and I think she would be shake her head and be disappointed by such a bitter diatribe against another successful woman in the same industry as her. Why do nasty OP? Chanel your inner Dolly!

PleaseDontTreadOnTheDaisies · 26/08/2026 08:54

I'm probably the wrong generation to be a superfan of Taylor Swift, but from what I gather she's a pretty good role model for young girls, she's a talented songwriter and businesswoman. My DD likes her.
Dolly Parton said only nice things about her too.

EmeraldRoulette · 26/08/2026 08:56

And also what’s weird about this post

Dolly Parton DID lay the groundwork for a lot of careers!

RedToothBrush · 26/08/2026 08:58

Why is Taylor Swift getting the blame for a editorial line used for clickbait she has no control over?

This says a hell of a lot more about the OPs attitude to TS and their lack of understanding of how the media is written than anything TS has actually done in regards to Dolly Parton.

TS has written a tribute. That's it.

Some media outlet has described this as 'leading' because she is one of the most famous and relevant contemporary artists not because she's decided that she has the starring role and has her pr team edging out the competition!

Seriously get a grip!

RedToothBrush · 26/08/2026 09:01

One of those other phrases that the media trot out constantly ATM that really annoys me as it's total media made up drivel is

"X has broken their silence"

As if they've gone out of their way to avoid conversation rather than just not spoken publicly about a subject which is often a private matter.

Meaningless drama driven clickbait which is about the audience not the artist.

BunkBedsArePeopleShelves · 26/08/2026 09:11

HereBeFuckery · 26/08/2026 07:57

It’s irritating the ever living shit out of me. Fuck off Taylor, go and think up another publicity stunt. A woman with actual talent has died, this isn’t a bandwagon for you to jump your plastic ass on. Have you read her torrent of drivel - she manages to shoehorn herself into the spotlight throughout. It reads as if she views Parton as laying the groundwork for her own career - monumental fuckwittery.

Dolly would be disgusted by you

Blackberrybayleaf · 26/08/2026 09:13

I went to read Taylor’s tribute to see what could provoke such ire, and I honestly can't see anything that anyone could take issue with in this statement:

“A world without Dolly doesn’t feel possible, real, or right,” Swift began in her remembrance. “But because of the eternally generous way she spent her time on this earth and the countless lives she changed for the better, her legacy will be an everlasting one.”

She continued, “She was truly the gift that kept on giving. Dolly gave us someone to look up to while encouraging us to be who we are as individuals. Somehow she was able to give us her lessons about the world gently and honestly, simultaneously, and oftentimes hilariously. She managed to give the world the ultimate mystery and fantasy in some corners of her life, but to give full transparency in the ways that counted. Somehow she was true grace and true grit, all in one dazzling person. She possessed the softest heart when it came to the struggles of others, and a backbone of steel to defend her own self worth as an artist.” Swift added: “Along with her other fans, I am so grateful for all of it.”

Swift also paid tribute to Parton’s prolific and breathtaking body of work and her philanthropic efforts across the globe. She wrote that she was thankful for “the melodies and lyrics she wrote that thawed even the coldest hearts. For the millions of books she provided children all over the world so that they might fall in love with stories the way she did. For the tightropes she walked so that young girls like me could grow up dreaming of joining the circus too.”

Truly, what's the problem here?

MissChanandlerBonng · 26/08/2026 09:14

You seem nice 🙄

TallulahBetty · 26/08/2026 09:15

Taylor Swift started as a country artist - she was inspired by Dolly growing up.

Also, are you also this vicious and nasty to other women in your work? Your friends? Your family? Or is it on celebrities that are fair game?

SmugglersHaunt · 26/08/2026 09:23

I was more perturbed by Paloma Faith weighing in first on the BBC. Why would anyone care what she thinks? Why not go the whole way and ask the dancers from Tight Fit for their thoughts

Hobnobswantshernameback · 26/08/2026 09:27

Try being a bit more Dolly OP

HereBeFuckery · 26/08/2026 09:27

Blackberrybayleaf · 26/08/2026 09:13

I went to read Taylor’s tribute to see what could provoke such ire, and I honestly can't see anything that anyone could take issue with in this statement:

“A world without Dolly doesn’t feel possible, real, or right,” Swift began in her remembrance. “But because of the eternally generous way she spent her time on this earth and the countless lives she changed for the better, her legacy will be an everlasting one.”

She continued, “She was truly the gift that kept on giving. Dolly gave us someone to look up to while encouraging us to be who we are as individuals. Somehow she was able to give us her lessons about the world gently and honestly, simultaneously, and oftentimes hilariously. She managed to give the world the ultimate mystery and fantasy in some corners of her life, but to give full transparency in the ways that counted. Somehow she was true grace and true grit, all in one dazzling person. She possessed the softest heart when it came to the struggles of others, and a backbone of steel to defend her own self worth as an artist.” Swift added: “Along with her other fans, I am so grateful for all of it.”

Swift also paid tribute to Parton’s prolific and breathtaking body of work and her philanthropic efforts across the globe. She wrote that she was thankful for “the melodies and lyrics she wrote that thawed even the coldest hearts. For the millions of books she provided children all over the world so that they might fall in love with stories the way she did. For the tightropes she walked so that young girls like me could grow up dreaming of joining the circus too.”

Truly, what's the problem here?

You don’t see the constant references to ‘me’, ‘us’, ‘girls like me’ as shameless self promotion?

Parton praised PoTayTayTo for her business acumen more than once. I guess she saw this coming!

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BitterTits · 26/08/2026 09:28

HereBeFuckery · 26/08/2026 09:27

You don’t see the constant references to ‘me’, ‘us’, ‘girls like me’ as shameless self promotion?

Parton praised PoTayTayTo for her business acumen more than once. I guess she saw this coming!

No. Read the room op.

keepcounsel · 26/08/2026 09:33

HereBeFuckery · 26/08/2026 09:27

You don’t see the constant references to ‘me’, ‘us’, ‘girls like me’ as shameless self promotion?

Parton praised PoTayTayTo for her business acumen more than once. I guess she saw this coming!

Stop looking for negativity - the impact someone had on others is their true legacy. For example, would you like to be remembered as someone who spread bitterness and bile?