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Why is Taylor Swift ‘leading’ tributes to Dolly Parton?

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HereBeFuckery · 26/08/2026 07:57

It’s irritating the ever living shit out of me. Fuck off Taylor, go and think up another publicity stunt. A woman with actual talent has died, this isn’t a bandwagon for you to jump your plastic ass on. Have you read her torrent of drivel - she manages to shoehorn herself into the spotlight throughout. It reads as if she views Parton as laying the groundwork for her own career - monumental fuckwittery.

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HereBeFuckery · 26/08/2026 08:20

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Haven’t posted in MN in over a year. But sure.

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RhubarbandCustardYummyYummy · 26/08/2026 08:01

It’s just wording for a news headline. Chill

Absolutely this, it’s just media phrase.

Like how they say someone has ‘broken their silence’ just because they’d not talked about a particular thing before, it’s not that deep.

Nailapp · 26/08/2026 08:21

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LindorDoubleChoc · 26/08/2026 08:22

Gasp0deTheW0nderD0g · 26/08/2026 08:01

It's just what happens when someone dies these days. The media immediately trawl social media for statements or off the cuff tweets, posts etc from anybody with a recognisable name, or their representatives, and the person they consider the most famous and/or relevant to the deceased is described as 'leading' the tributes.

Yes, and stunning that there's anyone with two brain cells to rub together that doesn't understand this!

HereBeFuckery · 26/08/2026 08:22

Purplemoors · 26/08/2026 08:15

It's just a barely thought through news headline.

I don't understand why you would be so unhinged with rage by it?

I said I was irritated.
You’ve decided to make this ‘unhinged with rage’.
And I’m the one overreacting. Mmkay.

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ReleaseTheDucksOfWar · 26/08/2026 08:22

HereBeFuckery · 26/08/2026 08:20

Haven’t posted in MN in over a year. But sure.

Might have been better off following Dolly's tendency to build other women up rather than tear them down as a PP said, if this is really the first time you've posted in a year.

PollyannaWhittier · 26/08/2026 08:22

I thought that was a bit odd this morning - last night the BBC headline said Elton John, Paul McCartney and Oprah were leading tributes; but now Taylor Swift is ? I like Taylor, but I don't see how she is leading anything if the others did it first ?

BitterTits · 26/08/2026 08:23

HereBeFuckery · 26/08/2026 08:20

Haven’t posted in MN in over a year. But sure.

Which makes your need to jump on and make such a vindictive post all the more unhinged. Ask yourself - What Would Dolly Do? Not this.

the80sweregreat · 26/08/2026 08:24

It’s just the media isn’t it. They have acres of news to fill in and like to use such language for effect. It’s really nothing, it’s just that they want to pay respects and a lot of them actually knew her.

saraclara · 26/08/2026 08:24

I've been listening to tributes on the radio for the last twenty minutes. I haven't heard anything from Taylor Swift. Only that newspaper that you read decided to use the word 'leading'. I'm pretty sure that Taylor Swift didn't promote herself to that position, and nor does she have it. It's a figure of speech that the journalist chose to use.

HereBeFuckery · 26/08/2026 08:25

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Oh sorry. I posted on someone else’s thread in Feb this year. Before that, not in years. Now I remember why. It’s genuinely weird that you are stalking my post history like this and I have reported. Have a super day.

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BitterTits · 26/08/2026 08:25

HereBeFuckery · 26/08/2026 08:22

I said I was irritated.
You’ve decided to make this ‘unhinged with rage’.
And I’m the one overreacting. Mmkay.

Re-read your OP. Unhinged with rage succinctly describes it. Awful.

Purplemoors · 26/08/2026 08:25

PollyannaWhittier · 26/08/2026 08:22

I thought that was a bit odd this morning - last night the BBC headline said Elton John, Paul McCartney and Oprah were leading tributes; but now Taylor Swift is ? I like Taylor, but I don't see how she is leading anything if the others did it first ?

It's just a half baked headline. Noone is "leading" the tributes. They are all just posting their own tributes.
They might as well say "Susan from Slough" leading the tributes. But they choose the most famous tributes they can find.

HereBeFuckery · 26/08/2026 08:25

saraclara · 26/08/2026 08:24

I've been listening to tributes on the radio for the last twenty minutes. I haven't heard anything from Taylor Swift. Only that newspaper that you read decided to use the word 'leading'. I'm pretty sure that Taylor Swift didn't promote herself to that position, and nor does she have it. It's a figure of speech that the journalist chose to use.

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VieuxFort · 26/08/2026 08:26

Global superstar issues tribute to Dolly Parton. I’m pretty sure Dolly publicly praised Taylor too.

Of course it’s going to garner attention.

Not sure why you’re offended, OP. 🥴

Mooselander · 26/08/2026 08:26

Taylor Swift started out as a country singer, so Dolly did pave the way for Taylor’s career and it is a fitting time to talk about that.

Dolly was all about building people up, yet you’re angry because someone you apparently don’t like for no reason is paying tribute to her Confused How ironic.

Nailapp · 26/08/2026 08:28

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keepcounsel · 26/08/2026 08:29

HereBeFuckery · 26/08/2026 07:57

It’s irritating the ever living shit out of me. Fuck off Taylor, go and think up another publicity stunt. A woman with actual talent has died, this isn’t a bandwagon for you to jump your plastic ass on. Have you read her torrent of drivel - she manages to shoehorn herself into the spotlight throughout. It reads as if she views Parton as laying the groundwork for her own career - monumental fuckwittery.

Why are you so filled with hate and vitriol? Your rant is completely in contrast with Dolly Parton's values. It's completely typical to invite people working in the same field to comment on someone's death and Swift is the best selling female artist of all time and a gifted songwriter who Dolly admired. She did not focus on herself in the statement https://www.aol.com/articles/taylor-swift-pays-heartfelt-tribute-061358000.html
How awful to be so bitter and spiteful.

Taylor Swift Pays Heartfelt Tribute to Dolly Parton: ‘Her Legacy Will Be an Everlasting One’ - AOL

Taylor Swift shared a heartfelt tribute to Dolly Parton after the country music icon’s death at age 80. “A world without Dolly doesn’t feel possible, real, or right. But because of the eternally generous way she spent her time on this earth and the cou...

https://www.aol.com/articles/taylor-swift-pays-heartfelt-tribute-061358000.html

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Karmaisaqueen · 26/08/2026 08:31

I’ve just seen the headline Beyoncé and Sabrina Carpenter are leading the tributes. Are you going to be as nasty about them too?

the80sweregreat · 26/08/2026 08:31

Maybe Dolly’s no nonsense approach to the music business paved the way for TS to also take control of her own destiny and re record her albums. She was a tough cookie and a positive role model for many as she soon realized how easy it was to be bullied by the men in suits and wasn’t going to be!

AbacusCat · 26/08/2026 08:32

It's the press who have decided Taylor Swift is 'leading tributes', not Swift herself. It's just the wording they use for 'the biggest and most relevant name' who has left a tribute. Swift is a female singer with a country background (relevant) and an undisputed A-lister (big).

The press always pick someone who is 'leading tributes' - often a Prime Minister or monarch for public figures, or for celebrities, another celebrity in the same field as the deceased. It doesn't mean the person has said "I'm putting out the first tribute - follow me, everyone!". It's just a trite headline.

Wipeywipey · 26/08/2026 08:34

They were very complimentary about each other when Dolly was alive - she said she admired how Taylor manages her business, personal life and inspires young people. I don't think OP knows much about either woman or she would know they have similar music and aspirations and charitable backgrounds.

NeverLookInTheMirror · 26/08/2026 08:35

Why is it that someone always has to start a vicious bitchy vitriolic thread when something like this happens?

grow up!!!!!

Castolaya · 26/08/2026 08:35

the80sweregreat · 26/08/2026 08:31

Maybe Dolly’s no nonsense approach to the music business paved the way for TS to also take control of her own destiny and re record her albums. She was a tough cookie and a positive role model for many as she soon realized how easy it was to be bullied by the men in suits and wasn’t going to be!

Loved how Dolly beat them at their own game by playing on their stereotypes while running rings around it all.

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