Misandry and Mumsnet

[estrogone]

Is it acceptable to hate on men openly without apology? Would it be ok of it were the other way round.

As a woman and mother of sons, the attitudes and comments on MN border on hate speech and I think Mumsnet HQ should do something about it.

Is this really how we want to balance the scales?

E: spelling

I do think that is a bit of a myth, to be honest.

Men who can't control their temper can be very dangerous. The fact that the behaviour stems from a mental health problem makes their partners and children no safer. If a woman is abused by a man for whatever reason, the responsible advice is to get herself and her children to a safe space. She can continue to support from there if she wants to.
Women who post on here about their own anger issues are actually given a very hard time in many cases. I have seen women branded 'abusers' for single instances of loss of temper and roundly shamed, told their partners should leave them, even when there is no risk to the man. Because as usual women are held to a very high standard of behaviour.
Yes advice can be women centred, but what would you expect on a site where predominantly women are seeking advice from other women and in the context of a world where men pose a vastly greater risk to us than we do to them?
I don't believe people with your view point are men. I think you are women who aren't differentiating between discussions of patterns in male behaviour and a personal attack on the men you love.
Ime decent men don't come onto MN to scold women for 'misandry' they've usually seen enough bad male behaviour themselves to agree. There's a handful of MRA on here but they're usually easy to spot.