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Does anyone else feel the UK is heading towards a crisis?

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whatnextt · 23/08/2026 00:25

Price rises not coming down, cost of living gone mad, car crashes, heatwave after heat wave, wild fires.
NHS is falling, NHS dentist is like winning the loto, threats from russia.
Bills cost more than anything.
Benefit bill is out of control.
People getting attacked.

I may have missed a few things, but it feels like the UK is just building up to something big gonna kick off.
Im sure it won't but life is just crap right now.
Not to mention we are gonna get a hell of a winter with this EL nion predicted.

I feel like saying lets have a full war and end this crap then re start again( figure of speech), not living just surviving.
And the cost of being a parent now is unreal.

Rant over.

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Applepieandcustard555 · 23/08/2026 08:16

Lemonfrost · 23/08/2026 08:11

If there was an Oscar category for most dramatic post, you would ace it.

You are seriously living in cloud cuckoo land,

Octavia64 · 23/08/2026 08:17

We’ve had a crisis

this is the aftermath

HesterLeggatt · 23/08/2026 08:19

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Oh absolutely. It’s the absolutely tiny number of asylum seekers that are DEFINITELY the problem. They’re living in hotels being paid for by us whilst somehow also simultaneously taking all the council houses. They’re lazy and claiming all the benefits so they don’t have to work whilst somehow also “coming over here, taking all our jobs”. They’re committing all the rapes, whilst simultaneously kindly allowing the white british men who commit the vast majority of rapes and sexual assaults in the UK to have a go as well. They’re forcing us all to be Muslim and implementing Sharia law, despite less than 7% of the UK being Muslim and the vast majority of those being British born.

That’s definitely the issue, not the billionaires and huge corporations evading their taxes whilst benefiting from the system. Asylum seekers are definitely the issue, not people like Farage who want you to hate brown people and focus your anger on the fact you don’t have what he has on immigrants, who don’t have what he has either, not on him and his pals for profiteering mercilessly and taking more than their share.

Well done, you for figuring it out….. Hmm

Lemonfrost · 23/08/2026 08:22

Applepieandcustard555 · 23/08/2026 08:16

You are seriously living in cloud cuckoo land,

That's a bold statement, given you know nothing of my life and circumtances.

ViciousCurrentBun · 23/08/2026 08:22

There is one issue with all anecdotal evidence.

No one one I know spends on rubbish while their kids go without and never have. But the demographic of people I hang out with isn’t hard up in the least. But I know it happens.

There are people that spend on rubbish while their kids go wIthout and they do. not care, it’s neglect. I think on MN the idea is so awful and so far removed from how people parent it seems unbelievable. I am not a social worker but have known and interviewed some, it’s eye opening.

Lemonfrost · 23/08/2026 08:23

Applepieandcustard555 · 23/08/2026 08:15

Oh it's good is it, to have literally thousands (and rising) illegal immigrants coming to this Country?
You do realise that they are coming from Countries where you're strongly advised to never ever go to yourself, for fear of what may happen to you?

Our cultures don't gel with people illegally entering Britain, maybe you'll understand it and when your life is affected by them.

And you do realise that not every issue and challenge is related to immigration?

Crissy81 · 23/08/2026 08:23

I was on mumsnet (2019) I actually tried to warn of a huge elephant in the room and that things were about to get very bumpy….I was mocked and and thread was closed….The last post I made of my previous username was in Jan 2020 when Covid had just kicked off in China, I tried to warn about this virus that it is going to be a huge problem and was called a hypochondriac and the thread was closed.

Some of us are in occupations that give us info that put us ahead and some of that info can forge an opinion thats rooted in data. However, such opinions can often go against the comfort, opinions and even lives of others and because of that, the opinion is rubbished.

This country is in a rough way but so is almost every country on the planet. Many of this countrys problems can be fixed internally but nobody has fixed them for 26 years at least. Now if nobody has fixed the internal problems and many of the problems have just got worse, what does that tell you?

Fiftyandme · 23/08/2026 08:24

Heading?

Peedoffdoesntcutit · 23/08/2026 08:26

Yes absolutely agree. It’s unnerving. Always felt it hasn’t felt the same since pre Covid. There is no proper punishment if people do things wrong stealing etc, low sentencing for murder rape. Peoples moral compass has gone. It’s from rising prices, increased stress, job market uncertainty, social media, newspapers, everything is feeding in to this. I feel like the country has lost control and it’s way and we need a strong PM and government to bring it back round.

SunmerWater · 23/08/2026 08:27

poolshoes · 23/08/2026 08:16

And yet

“ Under-30s must pay nearly double (84% more) than over-65s to afford the same minimum standard of essentials.
Households under 30 years of age on average spend 70% of their total budget on essentials, while over-65s spend just 56% of their total budget on essentials. For 30−49 year-olds this figure is 64% and 50−64 year-olds this figure is 59%.
Perhaps most alarming is the fact that the poorest fifth of young households are currently dedicating 77% of their expenditure to essentials alone. This is 21% more of their budget compared to twenty years ago.”

Life is more expensive now for the young mainly due to housing costs.

Sorry I’m in my 50s and see younger generations spending far more on luxuries let alone essentials than I did in my 20s to 30s and far more than I am now!You are supposed to spend more on essentials when you’re younger because you’re building a life! !!!Since when have generations walked out of home at 18 to the same finances as those in retirement or below? The sense of entitlement now is insane. We’ve all struggled in our early years. It’s called life .

poolshoes · 23/08/2026 08:29

We had years of little investment by government & business and this was when interest rates were low. The can was kicked down the road & we ran out of road

Crissy81 · 23/08/2026 08:29

Lemonfrost · 23/08/2026 08:23

And you do realise that not every issue and challenge is related to immigration?

Immigration may not be related to every challenge and issue, but try living in a high density heavily immigrant populated area and tell me how easy it is for those people? When you have 10 spaces at a GP surgery, you can get away with it if there are 20 people after a space….See what happens when you all of a sudden add 1000 more people. Now apply this to schools, hospitals, housing, social care, jobs….Then what makes it even worse is when announcements are made scaling back help to “poverty and ethnic minorities only”….But somehow poor British still cant get assistance…Do you understand how all of a sudden immigration becomes a HUGE issue but not necessarily the cause? Live in an area like this first!

poolshoes · 23/08/2026 08:31

@Crissy81 where do you live that it’s just immigration putting pressure on local infrastructure & not an ageing population? Schools are closing in many parts of the country because there aren’t the kids to fill them.

iamnotalemon · 23/08/2026 08:33

I’m from the UK but currently living elsewhere as I have a better quality of life - earn more, better healthcare etc.

heartsinvisiblefury · 23/08/2026 08:34

Getting a drs appointment is like winning the lottery, feels like the surgery is run by chatbots. Feel like the whole bloody country is AI, self serve and chat bots. It's the human touch which is missing.

Purpl · 23/08/2026 08:35

Greenseacat · 23/08/2026 08:13

The benefit bill is not 'out of control' by the way.

That's just what the right wing media and some politicians want you to think.

And who on earth are you referring to with 'people are getting attacked'?

The UK is as safe country.

The cost of living is a real issue but you seem to want to catastrophize everything and shit stir...

The benefits bill is out of control a friend works in recruitment has able bodied men turning down jobs and hours because openly admit affects benefits so wont work that week. Thats out of control if benefits worth more than working.
pre pandemic could walk around most of London with phone out safely that simply isnt the case now. There are more violent attacks against women and weirdos on tubes harrassing people than 10 years ago have literally seen and heard first account. Know of plenty girls spiked. Yes its still a safe country but it is not as safe

NeatPinkFinch · 23/08/2026 08:35

Crissy81 · 23/08/2026 08:29

Immigration may not be related to every challenge and issue, but try living in a high density heavily immigrant populated area and tell me how easy it is for those people? When you have 10 spaces at a GP surgery, you can get away with it if there are 20 people after a space….See what happens when you all of a sudden add 1000 more people. Now apply this to schools, hospitals, housing, social care, jobs….Then what makes it even worse is when announcements are made scaling back help to “poverty and ethnic minorities only”….But somehow poor British still cant get assistance…Do you understand how all of a sudden immigration becomes a HUGE issue but not necessarily the cause? Live in an area like this first!

This is so true. There are so many uk towns that are now unrecognisable. Boston Lincolnshire is one example. Try living there for a bit and then give me your opinion!

Lemonfrost · 23/08/2026 08:38

Crissy81 · 23/08/2026 08:29

Immigration may not be related to every challenge and issue, but try living in a high density heavily immigrant populated area and tell me how easy it is for those people? When you have 10 spaces at a GP surgery, you can get away with it if there are 20 people after a space….See what happens when you all of a sudden add 1000 more people. Now apply this to schools, hospitals, housing, social care, jobs….Then what makes it even worse is when announcements are made scaling back help to “poverty and ethnic minorities only”….But somehow poor British still cant get assistance…Do you understand how all of a sudden immigration becomes a HUGE issue but not necessarily the cause? Live in an area like this first!

Please re-read my post and then reflect on your reply.

emuloc · 23/08/2026 08:38

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It really is not. Stop talking rot.

Peedoffdoesntcutit · 23/08/2026 08:38

NeatPinkFinch · 23/08/2026 08:35

This is so true. There are so many uk towns that are now unrecognisable. Boston Lincolnshire is one example. Try living there for a bit and then give me your opinion!

We left from there! Used to be a lovely market town - influx of European workers came in and the gangs were obscene. Our house we were renting out to a family became a 50 people plus house sleeping on the floors and then vans coming to pick them up every day. We stopped going into Boston due to the violence- woodhall became our local town!

YourCoralCritic · 23/08/2026 08:42

Lemonfrost · 23/08/2026 01:02

Absolutely untrue.

Absolutely TRUE!

Applepieandcustard555 · 23/08/2026 08:43

Lemonfrost · 23/08/2026 08:22

That's a bold statement, given you know nothing of my life and circumtances.

Well, just going by your posts on this thread, I think it's easy to work out you've literally got no idea of the scale of the huge illegal immigration problem affecting this Country.

emuloc · 23/08/2026 08:44

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You forgot to mention the free driving lessons, and the free cars that they are supposed to be getting as well.🥱

YourCoralCritic · 23/08/2026 08:46

HeddaGarbled · 23/08/2026 01:31

The country is scary and unsafe at the moment for everyone

No, it isn’t.

It most DEFINITELY is! 🤷🏼‍♀️

emuloc · 23/08/2026 08:47

YourCoralCritic · 23/08/2026 08:46

It most DEFINITELY is! 🤷🏼‍♀️

No it is not. I am disabled, so quite vulnerable, and I am not scared to live my life, and yes that means even going out, and about in London!

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