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Does anyone else feel the UK is heading towards a crisis?

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whatnextt · 23/08/2026 00:25

Price rises not coming down, cost of living gone mad, car crashes, heatwave after heat wave, wild fires.
NHS is falling, NHS dentist is like winning the loto, threats from russia.
Bills cost more than anything.
Benefit bill is out of control.
People getting attacked.

I may have missed a few things, but it feels like the UK is just building up to something big gonna kick off.
Im sure it won't but life is just crap right now.
Not to mention we are gonna get a hell of a winter with this EL nion predicted.

I feel like saying lets have a full war and end this crap then re start again( figure of speech), not living just surviving.
And the cost of being a parent now is unreal.

Rant over.

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prampushingdownthehighst · 23/08/2026 05:30

I am frightened that having an nhs dentist is now seen as extremely good luck, I have one myself, but god, what a scary indicator of what this country has become
The national debt is out of control and to not admit otherwise is truly astounding
Also, mass immigration, will have a destabilising effect if it is not kept in check,
And this all plays in to Farage's hands

Wendyswonderpants · 23/08/2026 06:45

Lemonfrost · 23/08/2026 01:03

What a selective post. There are plenty of good things happening everyday. I love my life and am extremely grateful for it.

whats it like this morning in your pink fluffy cloud?

Wendyswonderpants · 23/08/2026 06:59

As a woman or a parent with daughters it is just to be concerned about the ideologies this country is allowing to infiltrate its land. Wake up and watch such changes - think how this might look in the future? I am particularly worried about this and hope we have the strength to do something in time to stop it. This is not happening with such a weak government and monarchy as we have now.

Applepieandcustard555 · 23/08/2026 07:04

echt · 23/08/2026 01:39

@avilsdedvocate Omg... stop...
Please look at some actual statistics or better go chat to some people

@Applepieandcustard555 Please take your head out the sand.

https://www.gov.uk/government/statistics/immigration-system-statistics-year-ending-march-2026/how-many-people-claim-asylum-in-the-uk

There you go, @Applepieandcustard555

No need to try and prove a point with your statistics thanks.

It doesn't matter if the figures are slightly down on last year, the thing you need to look at is the absolute fact that illegal immigrants are continuing to come to our Country. They're not going to stop, and our so called Government aren't doing anything about it.
How many of these illegal immigrants are being deported? I'll answer for you, hardly any.
Does it not seriously concern you that the people continuosly coming to our shores are men? IF they are really genuinely seeking asylum, and fleeing from war torn Countries, why aren't they bringing their wives and children with them?

What kind of man leaves his family fearing for their lives alone?

Does it not concern you that even the Government are admitting that these men don't have any morals? They've even published a leaflet telling them that it's wrong to rape women and children! FFS, if you're not worried about this, and just think 'oh well the numbers are down a bit on last year's, you honestly need to wake up to the fact society in this Country is becoming more and more dangerous by the day,in part, thanks to the influx of men who have no regard for the people here, our culture or our way of life.
They've no wish to integrate with us, they are here simply for the free hand outs, and to eradicate the way we live.

AndyKitten · 23/08/2026 07:10

Pumpkinswirls · 23/08/2026 00:33

Maybe that’s why Meghan and Harry are coming home

It’s part of the collapse.

Dorisbonson · 23/08/2026 07:48

Lemonfrost · 23/08/2026 01:02

Absolutely untrue.

Maybe not asylum seekers but fewer than 20% of school age children in London are white British. It's less than 40% in Birmingham and other major cities. 48% of London's social housing is occupied by people born outside of the UK.

Diversity/Multi-cultural bias has led to a situation where working class white boys achieve the worst educational results of any ethnicity (by the way these boys are a minority now in parts of the UK).

Police guidelines now tell policemen to give greater weight to the evidence provided by someone from a minority background than a white background in order to equaliser judicial outcomes. Basically the police are told to treat people differently based on ethnicity and prioritize non white people. Google this, it's absolutely insane but happening now.

In the 1990s, we had a surplus of council housing in parts of the country, too many schools. We have added 30m to the population due to immigration and don't have the housing or infrastructure capacity cope.

Training our own people to work in the NHS totally removes any argument for vast numbers of foreign NHS workers.

The current government actually seem to have a grip on immigration for the first time since 1997.

Dorisbonson · 23/08/2026 07:48

Though they need to do more about the boat crossings

poolshoes · 23/08/2026 07:48

HeddaGarbled · 23/08/2026 01:36

No one is prepared to look at the debts and only spend what the country can actually afford

All governments are absolutely prepared to “look at the debts”. They have whole departments whose job it is to do this.

And then they have to reconcile balancing the budget with voters who won’t vote for them if they raise taxes or cut costs.

Your post is ridiculously simplistic.

This, the public are also responsible for the mess we are in

SunmerWater · 23/08/2026 07:51

No because I don’t read the Daily Mail

poolshoes · 23/08/2026 07:52

blueshoes · 23/08/2026 02:55

Yes. Same as it ever was.

The big difference now which is also a new issue is the changing demographics which cannot support the NHS & state pension model.

Badbadbunny · 23/08/2026 07:53

HeddaGarbled · 23/08/2026 01:36

No one is prepared to look at the debts and only spend what the country can actually afford

All governments are absolutely prepared to “look at the debts”. They have whole departments whose job it is to do this.

And then they have to reconcile balancing the budget with voters who won’t vote for them if they raise taxes or cut costs.

Your post is ridiculously simplistic.

Yet they spend money we don’t have on things that most people don’t want, like HS2, increasing foreign aid, etc.

SunmerWater · 23/08/2026 07:56

Theunamedcat · 23/08/2026 01:50

This pathetic trope about people going on holidays and having the latest console is ridiculous no-one i know drinks or smokes anymore the younger generation isn't drinking half as much as the older ones no-one can afford holidays unless they get into debt and seriously no-one wants more debt

They are absolutely going in debt to go on holiday, engaging in shopping hauls, having expensive tech,coffees, takeaways, eating out etc. Oh and our local pub was so rammed people were outside when I walked past it yesterday . All things previous generations didn’t do, yet they want a decent NHS, pensions and social care for an aging population without a rise in taxes. Can’t have it all and people are coming to their senses and realising this, like they did with Brexit.

SunmerWater · 23/08/2026 07:57

poolshoes · 23/08/2026 07:52

The big difference now which is also a new issue is the changing demographics which cannot support the NHS & state pension model.

Oh it can but the far right want to create a myth it can’t .

Purpl · 23/08/2026 08:00

Lifesd · 23/08/2026 03:03

Strongly agree with this - if you live in a middle class bubble you can escape the reality of it.

Agreed. And we would fit this bubble compared to a lot of people but are luckily bit older. You only need to have a look around the car parks at the nice restaurants and m&s food hall & think no col here. Id caveat that it has affected middle classes too. Appreciate how lucky we are before flamed down & also having to work very long hours in pressured jobs seriously affecting health now, but gym membership gone from luxury to council, waitrose to lidl, Netflix cancelled, only eat out birthdays and think very hard before buy a coffee & holiday to much cheaper destination and 1 week not 2 has been seriously budgeted for. Could never afford a bit of cleaning help anymore etc Again lucky still have all we got just trying to point out that whilst can still live ok the middle classes have had a serious cut in lifestyle too and the direct effect is job losses in hospitality and retail industries because we cant buy the products, charity donations etc. I literally feel so sad for my younger colleagues who can only live in small flat and have 1 child with both working full time long hours in good jobs to have that quality of life. This is why there is so much backlash against benefit claimants with 3 kids in an atcual house with garden its like working hard is really not paying, 25 years ago these same colleagues would have a small house 2 kids and 1 parent working part time & a holiday, there will slways be uber rich thats not comparable. Our kids will not have what we managed to enjoy ever again.
As for the nail bars this is lipstick effect they are still going as cheap pick me up rather than holiday night out cinema etc.

Lemonfrost · 23/08/2026 08:07

covilha · 23/08/2026 01:07

A list that long and it’s selective?
Don’t think so.
Loving your life doesn’t mean things haven’t gone downhill. I love my life - and my garden- but I agree with the sentiments on here

Of course it's selective, evidenced by the total lack of balance.

poolshoes · 23/08/2026 08:08

@SunmerWater it can’t because the vast majority don’t pay enough tax vs what they take out which is fine when we have a pyramid structure.

Look at the dependency ratios and hiw they have changed. It’s staggering that there are more over 60s than under 15s

Lemonfrost · 23/08/2026 08:09

Applepieandcustard555 · 23/08/2026 01:20

Surely you can see what's going on around you?

Yes, I can and there is as much good as bad.

Lemonfrost · 23/08/2026 08:11

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If there was an Oscar category for most dramatic post, you would ace it.

poolshoes · 23/08/2026 08:11

Our kids will not have what we managed to enjoy ever again

I think this is a really important point, housing is the big issue

Lemonfrost · 23/08/2026 08:12

Wendyswonderpants · 23/08/2026 06:45

whats it like this morning in your pink fluffy cloud?

No need to be patronising, it weakens your already baseless point.

AndyKitten · 23/08/2026 08:12

What I see around me is mountains of rubbish everywhere, stained pavements and blaring music.

Just cleaning the place will make things much brighter.

But no, no fucker of a Mayor cares.

notanothernamesurely · 23/08/2026 08:13

I think a lot of it is exactly what you say @Purpl the quality of most people’s lives have changed for the worse. We work as hard if not harder and the things we used to have are no longer obtainable- the foreign holidays, the new cars, the meals out, the weekends away.

There was also a perception that people who were not working could only afford a basic lifestyle but now those working can’t afford luxuries it sticks in their throats seeing people not working and having a better lifestyle.

And nowhere near enough has been done about climate change so we’ve got that to contend with too. Couple all that with the media telling us about immigrants, threats of war etc and it results in a very scary feeling.

Greenseacat · 23/08/2026 08:13

The benefit bill is not 'out of control' by the way.

That's just what the right wing media and some politicians want you to think.

And who on earth are you referring to with 'people are getting attacked'?

The UK is as safe country.

The cost of living is a real issue but you seem to want to catastrophize everything and shit stir...

Applepieandcustard555 · 23/08/2026 08:15

Lemonfrost · 23/08/2026 08:09

Yes, I can and there is as much good as bad.

Oh it's good is it, to have literally thousands (and rising) illegal immigrants coming to this Country?
You do realise that they are coming from Countries where you're strongly advised to never ever go to yourself, for fear of what may happen to you?

Our cultures don't gel with people illegally entering Britain, maybe you'll understand it and when your life is affected by them.

poolshoes · 23/08/2026 08:16

SunmerWater · 23/08/2026 07:56

They are absolutely going in debt to go on holiday, engaging in shopping hauls, having expensive tech,coffees, takeaways, eating out etc. Oh and our local pub was so rammed people were outside when I walked past it yesterday . All things previous generations didn’t do, yet they want a decent NHS, pensions and social care for an aging population without a rise in taxes. Can’t have it all and people are coming to their senses and realising this, like they did with Brexit.

And yet

“ Under-30s must pay nearly double (84% more) than over-65s to afford the same minimum standard of essentials.
Households under 30 years of age on average spend 70% of their total budget on essentials, while over-65s spend just 56% of their total budget on essentials. For 30−49 year-olds this figure is 64% and 50−64 year-olds this figure is 59%.
Perhaps most alarming is the fact that the poorest fifth of young households are currently dedicating 77% of their expenditure to essentials alone. This is 21% more of their budget compared to twenty years ago.”

Life is more expensive now for the young mainly due to housing costs.

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