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Nothing like a teenage daughter to keep you humbled…

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JamieOliverPetrolStation · 19/07/2026 20:45

I leaned into the culottes and polka dot trend this season and was delighted with this bargain in Sainsburys last week. I thought I looked great. Effortless and summery chic etc etc. Until 14yo DD looked up at me with withering disdain and asked why was I dressed like a Tombliboo.

We had a similar situation last year when I bought a striped teeshirt and they called me Bagpuss for the whole summer.

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Bonietheretriever · 19/07/2026 22:32

I usually wear stud earrings but one day wore some dangly ones. Primary school DS said 'good heavens' (or words to that effect) 'Are you going to a wedding?!' Another day he asked if I was in a bad mood, I said 'no, why?' and he said 'well, your face is!' 😭

Artnedot · 19/07/2026 22:32

My DD 11 insists on making me have a "fit check" before leaving the house. Often I just get a whithering look and the comment " it's ok mummy you just do you" !

SummerSpringWater · 19/07/2026 22:33

Devilsmommy · 19/07/2026 20:47

Sorry OP but 🤣🤣🤣🤣

Same 😂 not heard of tomliboos for years

Tauranga · 19/07/2026 22:35

GoddammitPrincess · 19/07/2026 21:16

When Teddy Bear coats were in fashion I had a full length pink one that I loved loved loved!

Cant begin to tell you how much I loved it!

First time teenage daughter saw me in it she said “Why are you wearing a dressing gown?”

Then when teenage son saw it he said “Why are you dressed like a pimp?”

Wankers!

Still wore it though!

It’s sweet revenge though, I always remember walking into the bathroom when I was a teenager and seeing my mum in the bath and said “I hope my boobs don’t end up like that!” After breast feeding 4 kids you can guess they are much worse than hers ever were!

So I have no sympathy for myself!!

Like a pimp 😆 brilliant

TakeThatAndParty81 · 19/07/2026 22:38

My 14 year old has told me I’ve over worn this one outfit … I love it though

SaySomethingMan · 19/07/2026 22:39

She was rude but it’s so funny 😂😂😂😂

OneShyQuail · 19/07/2026 22:39

JamieOliverPetrolStation · 19/07/2026 20:45

I leaned into the culottes and polka dot trend this season and was delighted with this bargain in Sainsburys last week. I thought I looked great. Effortless and summery chic etc etc. Until 14yo DD looked up at me with withering disdain and asked why was I dressed like a Tombliboo.

We had a similar situation last year when I bought a striped teeshirt and they called me Bagpuss for the whole summer.

I am DYING at Tombliboo 😂😂😂

Oh the memories!!

Thank you @JamieOliverPetrolStation

DoubleFunMum · 19/07/2026 22:42

Dirtyrose · 19/07/2026 21:46

I've not watched Cbeebies since around 1986.

Was it after that?

Yes, it was after that. There's been 40 years since then you know!

MonsterSister · 19/07/2026 22:42

My daughter just eyes me kindly and says, "Hmmmm. Do YOU like it, because that's the important thing?"

Generally not, after that.

crackofdoom · 19/07/2026 22:44

IlovedLadybirdbooks · 19/07/2026 21:49

Caused Dd1 great embarrassment by looking at sparkly birkenstocks.

Ooh sparkly Birkies?! Off to Google 'em and buy some

I've got some, but my sons are usually indifferent to what I wear.

Blueyblueyblue · 19/07/2026 22:47

Bagpuss really cracked me up. 🤣🤣🤣

FrecklyFrog · 19/07/2026 22:48

Really enjoying this thread but disappointed that some folk are actually listening to their teenagers. If you like it, wear it! It's an important message for them to know that the opinion of others doesn't matter!

Ellenanora7 · 19/07/2026 22:49

Went shopping with my step granddaughter, I wanted to get a winter coat, nothing fancy, one for rain, wind, snow kind of weather, picked one that was knee length and very cosy, bit shapeless but would do the job, what do you think I asked her.....hmm it's nice and if you're ever stuck for a sleeping bag you're all set

PrettyLittleRose · 19/07/2026 22:53

This would be hilarious if I knew what a tombliboo was!

tobermoryisthebestwomble · 19/07/2026 22:53

I bought new (expensive) sunglasses, and my dd told me I looked like a Three Blind Mouse.

A recent look was a light gold sweater and cream wide leg trousers for work. She said I looked like a televangelist and asked where she should swipe her credit card...

Teenagehorrorbag · 19/07/2026 22:54

Lol, I think you are probably too young! I had DTs late aged 44 so now 62 as they are 18. For years DD has been stealing my 1980s stuff, and loves it! (Nothing radical but a denim jacket, a couple of light bombers, loads of tshirts etc). I only wear boring jeans etc these days but it makes me smile when she wears all my ancient stuff...😃.
DH is always in the firing line though, he loves checked shirts and they are tablecloths! Pleased she banned the speedos though....🤣

EvieBB · 19/07/2026 22:56

SurreySenMum26 · 19/07/2026 20:52

Ah the joys! My dd is 11 but just looks at me and says

"Just no mother"

Times like this I'm glad she has three brothers. Mind you I showed my ds a patchwork coat and he said I looked like a Soviet grandmother in it.

Warms your heart really

😂

EvieBB · 19/07/2026 23:01

MonsterSister · 19/07/2026 22:42

My daughter just eyes me kindly and says, "Hmmmm. Do YOU like it, because that's the important thing?"

Generally not, after that.

😂

Cuwins · 19/07/2026 23:02

I can definitely see what she means! 😂

MrsDeltaB · 19/07/2026 23:08

Laughing in recognition and slight sadness for most of these. Kids are buggers!

one day I’d made effort with make up and tried something different with my hair-for me-nothing else. Shopping and my Face ID wouldn’t work for my credit card….youngest daughter about 9 at the time pipes up to me, the cashier, and the rest of the store ‘It’s cos you look pretty mummy!’

I took it as a backhanded compliment but…..

WerewolfOfLoudon · 19/07/2026 23:10

@JamieOliverPetrolStation Love the full on embracing the Tombliboos plan.

Lovely memory recalled of DN17 and her red tutu (Upsy Daisy skirt) ❤

TroysMammy · 19/07/2026 23:11

I had long hair for years and decided to get it cut in a bob. My then 14 year old niece looked at me and said "why did did you want a haircut like a 5 year old Auntie? " Cheers kid. I ignored her like she ignores me when I mutter about Generation Z.

Wobbleonwardsandupwards · 19/07/2026 23:15

My son, aged around 8, looked at me and said your face looks the wrong colour! I said I wasn't wearing make up, to which he replied "you might want to rethink that!". Harsh!

HippyChickMama · 19/07/2026 23:21

Boys are just as bad, I wear mostly black and either Vans, Converse or DMs and 18yo ds tells me I am ‘goth adjacent’. If I have an important meeting at work and wear something a bit more corporate, he tells me I look like an English teacher who has made deputy head

salcombebabe · 19/07/2026 23:29

SurreySenMum26 · 19/07/2026 20:52

Ah the joys! My dd is 11 but just looks at me and says

"Just no mother"

Times like this I'm glad she has three brothers. Mind you I showed my ds a patchwork coat and he said I looked like a Soviet grandmother in it.

Warms your heart really

🤣🤣🤣