Sure it's all Iranian government propaganda. Who I believe might be a bit busy blowing up KC-135s in Saudi Arabia. Not been a good week for refuelling tankers.
Telegram and Signal exist and people do have friends and family in the region not affiliated or connected to the Government. Ordinary people in the region publish and livestream the aggression against them, to ensure that it's on the record. War isn't just broadcast via official channels anymore.
Alternative media consisting of people not platformed by the MSM (such as soldiers, intelligence agents, bomb experts, lecturers and journalists) is producing content on this.
It was on Clayton Morris's show redacted that we first learned about the 140 "injured" US soldiers so far via his contacts in the Pentagon.
Perhaps, it will be like the Ukraine War, with magical figures produced by The Institute of War showing Ukraine winning, whilst Telegram channels published video of the dead bodies piling up.
As with everything discernment is important, for example the controversy currently happening over the "AI" video of Netanyahu with 6 fingers of course denied by his office but not before rampant speculation.