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Things I don’t do…that apparently everyone else DOES do…

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largepinkcontainer · 22/10/2025 23:09

Tonight I put some Nivea on my face but apart from taking my makeup off each day, I don’t have a skin care routine and I don’t use moisturiser that often.

Other things I don’t do…I don’t make the bed every day (might straighten it, but that’s it), I don’t keep takeaway boxes (does anyone?) and I don’t send Christmas cards (never miss a birthday though).

What things do you not do…that most other people seem to do? This is a ‘no judgement’ thread. 😆

OP posts:
Carolenarua · 23/10/2025 02:37

AliasGrape · 23/10/2025 00:29

Im mid 40s and didn’t really do any skincare until relatively recently- I’d take make up off (probably not particularly well) and slap whatever moisturiser I had on but nothing beyond that.

I have a set routine now though - nothing to rival an influencer’s 10 step plan or whatever, it doesn’t take me long or cost too much but it’s done absolute wonders and I wish I’d started sooner. I’m converted.

Struggling to think of any interesting ‘don’t dos’ - I’m clearly easily led 😂I don’t watch much TV these days but that’s not a hard and fast rule, more a symptom of my ever declining attention span probably. I don’t drink coffee, never have.

I don’t use heavily fragranced washing or cleaning products/ don’t put scent boosters in my wash/ don’t have diffusers and scented candles on every surface. The odd candle is ok occasionally but generally it just gives me a headache. Same reason I don’t wear perfume much these days - used to but it made me headachey and nauseous during pregnancy and I’ve never really got back in the habit.

Cleansing and moisturising is a routine to me. What do you do now?

222days · 23/10/2025 02:50

Birdsongsinging · 23/10/2025 00:59

Why cant you freeze stuff in them or put them in the microwave? I do - hoping thtat its not a health hazard!

They’re designed as single use plastics so will shed microplastics into your food if heated/ reused for storage, and also aren’t properly airtight so are not suitable for freezer storage.

Natsku · 23/10/2025 03:23

I don't wear make up or have a skin care routine.
I iron my clothes (but no one else's)
I don't send Christmas cards
I don't buy from Amazon, Temu, Shein, or similar
I never want to do a WFH job - the best part about working for me is being around other people!

Bowies · 23/10/2025 03:24

largepinkcontainer · 22/10/2025 23:30

Yes…I meant the plastic takeaway boxes. As far as I know you can’t freeze stuff in them or put them in the microwave so I don’t see much use in keeping them.

And yes, I really should make the bed properly. I used to do it but then fell out of the habit.

I rarely get takeaway, but do reuse the plastic boxes for eg nuts and dried fruit mix, putting something in the fridge (eg baked beans) taking eg side salad to work. They go well through the dishwasher. Single use plastic doesn’t sit too comfortably, so actively try to find opportunities to reuse them.

With you on the bed, but it’s just a duvet and fitted sheet so doesn’t requiring any actual ‘making’ except when changing bedding.

I do like skincare though since a teenager when it wasn’t common. I wouldn’t do Botox etc through.

Don’t watch TV anymore so don’t know many reality show ‘celebrities’ and haven’t heard of some of the shows if they get mentioned in conversation.

Like a few on here it seems never got into platforms like Facebook, TikTok etc.

Hate the effect AI has had on the level of writing and errors in the news as well as people that use it at work for their emails making it 10x harder to read and interpret, as it’s not actually coming from that person.

Augustus40 · 23/10/2025 04:22

I don't go on holiday but work part time so not under pressure.
I rarely drink.
I no longer drive.

Interpink · 23/10/2025 04:23

The people who don’t wear makeup - do you have a sex life with another person who is in the same room as you?

Augustus40 · 23/10/2025 04:23

I seldom eat out nor do I buy takeaways.

Interpink · 23/10/2025 04:26

for full disclosure, I rarely iron and my skincare routine is very much soap and Nivea based. But I do have one and I brushed my teeth and I make sure that my lower legs are hair free. This is in the pursuit of a reasonable sex life, which is what I have.

LifeSucksBigFatBalls · 23/10/2025 04:29

In response to your op.
I dont have a skincare routine, never cream my face and dont wear make up at all
Dont keep.take away boxes

HelenaWaiting · 23/10/2025 04:31

I don't iron.
I don't wear makeup (but I do have my nails done)
I don't own a dress or a skirt
I don't go to the hairdressers (my hair is waist-length, I trim it myself, no way am I letting one of those butchers near it)

LifeSucksBigFatBalls · 23/10/2025 04:31

Interpink · 23/10/2025 04:23

The people who don’t wear makeup - do you have a sex life with another person who is in the same room as you?

What? That is such a odd question.
How are these thungs related?
I am so baffled

I dont wear make up, never had my nails or toenails done. Never plucked my eyebrows, and never waxed and have had a good sex life with multiple people for 25 years, why would the lack of makeup amd other things not allow this 🤣🤣

Interpink · 23/10/2025 04:37

That’s understandably and maybe speaks more about my own thoughts about female sexuality.

Beekman · 23/10/2025 04:41

I don’t shop in person. I have everything I possibly can delivered and can’t actually remember the last time I physically went into a store. It’s great. I hate shopping, particularly for groceries.

Interpink · 23/10/2025 04:44

This thread is exactly why I refuse to believe that your average mumsnetter is anything other than neurodivergent!!!!!!

DirtyBird · 23/10/2025 04:45

I have never had a face/skin care routine.

i don’t like cats

i only have tv/movie streaming services

I don’t care to eat out, prefer to get take away

dont really care much about traveling/vacations

have never earned close to 100k and never will (too old now)

LifeSucksBigFatBalls · 23/10/2025 04:48

Get all Christmas presents online. (Around 100 things normally)
Dont open delivered parcels for days sometimes weeks
Dont Iron
No make up, No face soap, No nails done, Never had eyebrows plucked
Dont wax
No piercings
Dont drive
No kids
Dont drink alcohol
Dont smoke
Dont drink Tea
I Pay for adverts to be removed
I Pay for ALOT of streaming services

SteveTheDog · 23/10/2025 04:54

Same as a few other posters…

I don’t drink any hot drinks and have never tried tea.
I have no social media except mumsnet,
I have never been to a baby shower and only one hen night,
I have never been to a festival.
I have never watched dirty dancing, when Harry met Sally, Ghost or many other chick flicks.
I have never been early for anything 😂.

I have done plenty of other things that I’m sure aren’t that common, it’d be interesting to see a reverse thread!

Cailleachnamara · 23/10/2025 04:58

Don't iron.
Don't wear make up.
Don't and never have removed my public hair.
Don't wear jeans.
Never wear high heels.
Seldom wear a bra.
Only own practical knickers.

Natsku · 23/10/2025 05:04

Interpink · 23/10/2025 04:23

The people who don’t wear makeup - do you have a sex life with another person who is in the same room as you?

What an odd question. Not wearing make up has had no impact on my sex life.

Natsku · 23/10/2025 05:05

SteveTheDog · 23/10/2025 04:54

Same as a few other posters…

I don’t drink any hot drinks and have never tried tea.
I have no social media except mumsnet,
I have never been to a baby shower and only one hen night,
I have never been to a festival.
I have never watched dirty dancing, when Harry met Sally, Ghost or many other chick flicks.
I have never been early for anything 😂.

I have done plenty of other things that I’m sure aren’t that common, it’d be interesting to see a reverse thread!

A reverse thread might be interesting, wonder what kind of things would come up on that.

Cailleachnamara · 23/10/2025 05:06

Interpink · 23/10/2025 04:23

The people who don’t wear makeup - do you have a sex life with another person who is in the same room as you?

Wtf?

Interpink · 23/10/2025 05:27

Cailleachnamara · 23/10/2025 05:06

Wtf?

Yeah well
you may well be what the fuck? But the fact remains that a person is either interested in sexual mess with the opposite sex or they’re not. “

and so the question related to personal attractiveness therefore holds true. If you are not up for it, then why bother looking like you might be?

Sugarnspicenallthingsnaice · 23/10/2025 05:30

I love the 'I don't use social media!' one, posted on social media.

As for me:
I don't drink alcohol to unwind
I don't think about Christmas (plans, food, gifts, decorating) until the first full weekend in December
I don't watch or listen to anything 'live' - only 'on demand' TV and audio content from apps
I don't play or like background noise while I'm awake but need it to sleep
I don't shop for clothes online (the exception is repeats of things I already own)

sexnotgenders · 23/10/2025 05:43

domlolreu · 23/10/2025 00:15

I dont iron.
Have eyebrows threaded ( not sure what it means TBH)
Deep clean ( whatever that means )
I don’t watch Netflix/ You tube
I don’t have skin care routine,just lather Nivea on my face at bedtime
Not sure what podcast is 🤦‍♀️
I don’t jump out of bed at stupid O'clock to meditate etc
I don’t wash bed linen every few days but once a week
I don’t worry that my car is a battered shit tip ,it gets me from A to B
I DO care about my family,friends and my dog .

I actually get my eyebrows threaded and have no clue what it means either?!? I just lie there, there’s some string kind of pulled about my eyes, and I leave with lovely shaped brows 🤷🏼‍♀️😂

That’s where I stop though. I don’t use skin care or make up or style my hair (apart from a simple brush, obviously). I have no social media and I do not understand (and have no interest in) chatGPT or Alexa. I don’t shower every day. I don’t have a cleaner. I don’t like dogs and think we do them great harm by taking them everywhere humans go. I don’t answer my door or my phone unless I know who it is and I’m expecting them. I don’t eat breakfast and I hate coffee. I don’t understand candles.

God it feels good getting all that off my chest 😂😂

DecemberPlusFebruary · 23/10/2025 05:46

Interpink · 23/10/2025 05:27

Yeah well
you may well be what the fuck? But the fact remains that a person is either interested in sexual mess with the opposite sex or they’re not. “

and so the question related to personal attractiveness therefore holds true. If you are not up for it, then why bother looking like you might be?

I've been attracted to every man I've ever had sex with. Only one wore makeup, and I'd rank him somehow in the middle of the list in terms of satisfaction. So based on personal experience, I'd say your makeup theory doesn't hold true.