@EmpressoftheMundane I agree , and on paper my childhood was privileged but we had frost on the inside of single glazed metal windows, going to bed with wooly hats ,very poor heating etc.
My mum knitted the hatsn,jumpers and mittens
I don't really care what someone's background is this obsession with people having been born with a silver spoon.
They may have broad life experience that can help .
Empathy and compassion.
There was an excellent post somewhere that said labour is always making things worse for those at the bottom .