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Owner of Tattle Life named

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BeardofHagrid · 13/06/2025 18:18

The owner of hate forum Tattle Life has today been legally named as Sebastian Bond. He also goes by the alias Bastian Durward. He has tried to flee to Asia to avoid paying his legal costs.

https://goss.ie/featured/everything-we-know-about-the-owner-of-tattle-life-as-he-is-finally-named-423238

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FunnyFleurs · 15/07/2025 16:11

Thank you @Goody2ShoesAndTheFilthyBeast at least someone understands that you would have more luck seeing a unicorn than getting a code to join. I’ve even seen people even offer to buy a code. Thank you for the advice 😊

bellamorgan · 15/07/2025 16:16

Just post on one of the Reddit threads as a throw away account.

I don’t agree with doxxing are taking it off tattle. But most of these influencers or general celebs are just being shown up for the liers or sneaky people they are.

So Harry and Megan, they cannot keep their own stories straight and it’s been called out on here before. The wanting 50/50 in out then suddenly once told no everyone racist and William did that and Catherine this and that and it’s all horrible. Was fine if they got what they wanted though. Selling other products as their own and such.

The footballers children. Well I mean the influencers posts vs the legally shared legal documents paint very different pictures don’t they.

Scoffie boy like mentioned here already.

Lots of influencers trying to hide their #ads by colour matching being called out.

The AE threads.

Sure there is some bitching but I still think unless they start taking it off site and actually doing things like fake reports to SS and actual stalking and messaging the influencers themselves it’s just a place where people come together to share mostly the lies shadiness and remove the fakery and glossy covers presented as real by the frauds.

cyvguhb · 15/07/2025 16:40

MyRootinTootinBaby · 15/07/2025 14:49

What do you mean how? Sign up for one?

You can't join tattle, it's been full for years unless someone is prepared to vouch for you

ThatCyanCat · 15/07/2025 16:46

We've also been asked not to give codes out on here because a lot of trolls were getting in that way.

FunnyFleurs · 15/07/2025 16:56

@cyvguhb thank you 😊 I’d hardly be posting here if I could just sign up 😂 I’ve seen threads with people actually offering to buy a code

Foreverm0re · 15/07/2025 16:59

They had suspended new registrations when all this crap started anyway. Not sure if it’s even back open to new members yet.

FunnyFleurs · 15/07/2025 17:05

@Foreverm0re thank you 😊 I wouldn’t be asking for help if I was able to sign up & post a comment myself

FunnyFleurs · 15/07/2025 17:24

@ThatCyanCat thank you I think people think I’m asking for a favour for them to post on my behalf because I don’t want to myself. Believe you me I’d love more than to be able to comment myself

FunnyFleurs · 15/07/2025 17:27

@bellamorgan i tried to post on Reddit but was attacked. I only found out about tattle the other day through a Google search & at this stage I wish I hadn’t, it’s wild out there

ungratefulcat · 15/07/2025 17:29

FunnyFleurs · 15/07/2025 17:27

@bellamorgan i tried to post on Reddit but was attacked. I only found out about tattle the other day through a Google search & at this stage I wish I hadn’t, it’s wild out there

I'd just ignore it all tbh.

WigglywagglyWanda · 15/07/2025 17:38

FunnyFleurs · 15/07/2025 16:56

@cyvguhb thank you 😊 I’d hardly be posting here if I could just sign up 😂 I’ve seen threads with people actually offering to buy a code

I do understand you can't sign up and post, which you want to do, im a long term member but only post on the off topic and current events sections. I suggested you post here and it will be picked up there.

You said if you did that it would out who you are?

But if you were able to sign up there and post the same thing it would out who you are?

Please forgive me if I'm misunderstanding, if you post here surely it's the same thing?

Allseeingallknowing · 15/07/2025 17:39

There are some vile threads on there

bellamorgan · 15/07/2025 17:43

FunnyFleurs · 15/07/2025 17:27

@bellamorgan i tried to post on Reddit but was attacked. I only found out about tattle the other day through a Google search & at this stage I wish I hadn’t, it’s wild out there

They do seem to be calling out a lot of people lately as being certain influencers on there.

I don’t have a tattle account I just read it not logged in.

MyRootinTootinBaby · 15/07/2025 20:32

FunnyFleurs · 15/07/2025 16:56

@cyvguhb thank you 😊 I’d hardly be posting here if I could just sign up 😂 I’ve seen threads with people actually offering to buy a code

Well you weren’t explaining this and not all of us use tattle to know. You just posted laughing faces and asked how in response, it took someone else to step in and explain why you couldn’t do it.

No one is going to put themselves in the firing line of posting something on your behalf when they don’t know the influencer or just taking your word that it’s true. Especially at the moment when people are being revealed as posters. It would be silly for someone to post on behalf of someone else and joining a fight that’s not theirs. You’ve been given the advice to post the information here and it will find its way on to Tattle. Personally, I’d leave it for your friend to do and not get involved unless she’s asking you to do it.

NeelyOHara · 16/07/2025 06:24

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TorroFerney · 16/07/2025 07:29

FunnyFleurs · 15/07/2025 15:02

See the thing is I think anyone with a moral compass once told the back story they would understand why I’m putting myself out there & asking for help

Or anyone who has absolutely no boundaries and gets involved in another family’s (who they don’t know) drama.

AutumnLover1989 · 17/07/2025 06:08

ungratefulcat · 15/07/2025 12:18

Just name change?
Its not really on to ask someone to post on your behalf

I agree. I received a message to post something but no. I don't want to get any trouble. You can't name change on there either. If it all kicks off,I wouldn't know what to say. I don't know the first thing about influencers. So no.

BeSharpMauveHam · 09/11/2025 09:26

I think there's more to this story than the media have said. Neil Sands sister is Irene Sands who is a blonde ex legal professional who got involved in gangland stuff and was then subjected to death threats. Very unusual for a barrister representing criminals to get something so personal. The case of Robbie Lawlor is still being investigated.

Death threats for barrister Irene Sands linked to Drogheda gang feud. Something is not right here. Somebody or Agencies are doing a “Concrete Cover Up”, Why?

watchers.ie/2020/05/31/death-threats-for-barrister-irene-sands-linked-to-drogheda-gang-feud-something-is-not-right-here-somebody-or-agencies-are-doing-a-concrete-cover-up-why/

Brogues · 10/11/2025 16:28

I’m not really seeing the same connecting dots as you I don’t think? What’s your take on it @BeSharpMauveHam? That article is from 2020.

Brogues · 07/05/2026 13:13

Indeed @BikingHoots it’s strange how quiet this development has been reported considering the original judgement was front page (well DM online front page) news and on many influencers stories and daytime TV shows!

There were multiple threads on here in the last month referencing the ‘NI power couple’ and ‘world renowned Dr Jess’ and how we were all going to be banged up in some Northern Irish prison. Wonder if it was the same OP?

BikingHoots · 07/05/2026 19:04

I haven’t seen it reported on any mainstream media other than the BBC one, I wouldn’t have known about it if I wasn’t on that BBC site and came by it by chance. The naming of the owner of the site was all over the place last summer.
A few mentions on a general Google search. This is an interesting read about the legal process and what has been happening between the couple suing TL owner over last few years. Not sure if it is all over now. Does the owner of TL get damages?
https://freespeechunion.org/publications/obtaining-damages-by-deception.pdf

Brogues · 07/05/2026 20:22

I think I’d be somewhat motivated to go for some damages if my bank accounts had been frozen for a couple of years.

BikingHoots · 07/05/2026 20:41

Yes I expect that will be the next step. This has been hanging over both parties heads for a few years according to that free speech website. It will probably drag on for the next few years as well. Bet the couple have a few regrets about starting this in the first place. Wonder if the owner of TL regrets starting the website. Getting entangled in a legal process seems a waste of time, energy and money, whoever you are, it is only the paid legal reps who gain from it all.

bellamorgan · 07/05/2026 20:46

Seems like a couple of regularly we hate tattle people on other places basically gave away that the sands knew who owned tattle while
telling the court they didn’t. Tut tut.

Imagine your biggest supporter being the person who pretty much outed you as lying in court. Ah. Karma.

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