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Owner of Tattle Life named

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BeardofHagrid · 13/06/2025 18:18

The owner of hate forum Tattle Life has today been legally named as Sebastian Bond. He also goes by the alias Bastian Durward. He has tried to flee to Asia to avoid paying his legal costs.

https://goss.ie/featured/everything-we-know-about-the-owner-of-tattle-life-as-he-is-finally-named-423238

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LemondrizzleShark · 14/07/2025 18:23

Brogues · 14/07/2025 18:09

@FunnyFleurs why not just post it here?

Why not just make an account on Tattle?

FunnyFleurs · 14/07/2025 18:31

I have done twice but nobody responded to me

FunnyFleurs · 14/07/2025 18:38

OMG no it won’t, I’ve got nothing whatsoever to do with that. I only found out about tattle life a few days ago from a google search & I just want to set the record straight on a thread . If I post the reason why on a public thread I will be outing myself to the ‘influencer’

FunnyFleurs · 14/07/2025 18:42

Are you joking with me 😂 make a tattle account? How?

cyvguhb · 14/07/2025 18:56

FunnyFleurs · 14/07/2025 18:31

I have done twice but nobody responded to me

What have you done twice?

FunnyFleurs · 14/07/2025 19:10

Asked here twice but nobody replied to me

WigglywagglyWanda · 15/07/2025 10:25

As posted above I dont think that would be a good idea, but if you want to set a record straight you can just post it here and I know someone will pick up on it as there's a mumsnet thread on there.

FunnyFleurs · 15/07/2025 12:16

If I post it publicly here I’m literally going to out myself, thanks for the advice though 😊

ungratefulcat · 15/07/2025 12:18

FunnyFleurs · 15/07/2025 12:16

If I post it publicly here I’m literally going to out myself, thanks for the advice though 😊

Just name change?
Its not really on to ask someone to post on your behalf

WigglywagglyWanda · 15/07/2025 12:32

If something is posted on your behalf surely it will out you anyway! Noone knows you by your username but if the circumstances will out you you either post it yourself or forget it surely. It's not really good to ask someone to post for you.

MyRootinTootinBaby · 15/07/2025 14:49

FunnyFleurs · 14/07/2025 18:42

Are you joking with me 😂 make a tattle account? How?

What do you mean how? Sign up for one?

Helpmeplease2025 · 15/07/2025 14:52

@FunnyFleurs you asked me to post something on your behalf by PM, what is it you want posted? I’m not interested in trying to get some influencers side of the story over. Influencing shouldn’t be a job.

FunnyFleurs · 15/07/2025 14:54

This ‘influencer’ is a daughter of a friend of mine & they have been estranged for a few years. This ‘influencer’ was called out for something & the amount of support she’s getting from her followers is crazy. I can’t be too sure if she has told them the actual truth or not but if she has & they are still supporting her well then I fear for humanity. From what I can gather from the thread the ‘influencer’ hasn’t been transparent with her followers & there’s a lot of speculation. Watching on for my friend & seeing the videos & comments is so difficult to sit back & watch. It’s really so unfair that the ‘influencer’ can get to say or imply whatever she wants & my friend doesn’t get to tell her side of the story & the actual truth of the situation

Helpmeplease2025 · 15/07/2025 14:57

That’s sad @FunnyFleurs but asking me to post a random story (presumably I’d have to pretend to know this influencer and her family) is not how to solve it. Your friend needs to sort this herself. This is the whole issue with influencers; they basically spout a load of shite.

FunnyFleurs · 15/07/2025 15:02

See the thing is I think anyone with a moral compass once told the back story they would understand why I’m putting myself out there & asking for help

ungratefulcat · 15/07/2025 15:07

FunnyFleurs · 15/07/2025 15:02

See the thing is I think anyone with a moral compass once told the back story they would understand why I’m putting myself out there & asking for help

But you can just go on there and point this out yourself.

I have a moral compass but I am not wading into a dispute in this way.

Helpmeplease2025 · 15/07/2025 15:20

FunnyFleurs · 15/07/2025 15:02

See the thing is I think anyone with a moral compass once told the back story they would understand why I’m putting myself out there & asking for help

You’re not putting yourself out at all, you’re asking someone else to. There’s other ways to tell your story besides tattle

ungratefulcat · 15/07/2025 15:23

I'm trying to understand how you think this would work?

Your tell me your version of events, then I go onto tattle and post that an anonymous person on Mumsnet asked me to say XYZ?

I can't make sense of that as the logical step. Just make a tattle profile then you can engage with people directly

FunnyFleurs · 15/07/2025 15:39

Have you tried to sign up for one?

FunnyFleurs · 15/07/2025 15:41

You obviously know nothing about Tattle Life then

FunnyFleurs · 15/07/2025 15:42

I’m not being rude here but do you know anything about Tattle Life?

Helpmeplease2025 · 15/07/2025 15:46

who are you talking to @FunnyFleurs ?

FunnyFleurs · 15/07/2025 15:48

if I could post on tattle myself I would. There’s a lot of speculation on the thread and I want to clear it up that’s all but anyhow that’s for the advice

ungratefulcat · 15/07/2025 15:55

FunnyFleurs · 15/07/2025 15:48

if I could post on tattle myself I would. There’s a lot of speculation on the thread and I want to clear it up that’s all but anyhow that’s for the advice

But you understand it would come across as deeply bizarre for a random mumsnetters to post on your behalf?

Goody2ShoesAndTheFilthyBeast · 15/07/2025 15:56

People can't join. Registration has been closed for years, apparently.

FunnyFleurs, if it's something that's bothering you a lot because maybe it's about you or someone you know and the facts aren't straight then could you make an anonymous email account and message tattle mods. Or dm the tattle life mods on reddit.

I guess it comes down to how important the correction is to you personally. I'd advise waiting a bit though because if you don't, then anyone who reads here would put 2&2 together.

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