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Would you let a “slave” clean your house for free?

131 replies

Roxietrees · 29/04/2025 19:34

Just had a discussion with my friend who is a dominatrix for a living. She tells me some men just want to come and do her dishes while they pay her for it! Some, she says, clean the windows and clean her house top to bottom, while they pay for the privilege! No sex, no touching, no kinky stuff even. She says she might have to give them the “odd whip” to keep them inline 🤣 but that’s it. She makes £120 an hour. My mind is blown. Would you let someone who has a “slave” kink come and do your housework? It’d be a bit annoying having to put some sort of rubber outfit on and I’d feel a bit weird whipping them…but, I mean if I’m going to make 120 quid an hour for someone to clean my house..it almost seems worth it!

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Livpool · 29/04/2025 19:35

Yes - she is a genius!

MissScarletInTheBallroom · 29/04/2025 19:37

I mean, no one is forcing them to do it.

HouseCaptain · 29/04/2025 19:37

100% I am up for this. How far can I take it? Sanding the floors? Plastering? Can I extend it to the gardening? This sort of fetish sounds beneficial to women. Every woman needs a gimp in her life.

Arrestedforit · 29/04/2025 19:39

Can you add batch cooking to the list? Doing the grocery shopping and putting it away?
asking for a friend

Roxietrees · 29/04/2025 19:40

HouseCaptain · 29/04/2025 19:37

100% I am up for this. How far can I take it? Sanding the floors? Plastering? Can I extend it to the gardening? This sort of fetish sounds beneficial to women. Every woman needs a gimp in her life.

I think you can take it as far as you want. To quote her, “all they want is to please their mistress, they will do whatever it takes until she is satisfied”…build me a house?!

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BottleBlondeMachiavelli · 29/04/2025 19:40

I’m not crazy on having random kinky dudes in the house, so I’d have to pass.

Eileen101 · 29/04/2025 19:42

Blimey I'd don some rubber garments
and whip them for a bit if they're doing the cleaning. Di they do DIY too? Where are these chaps to be found?

pimplebum · 29/04/2025 19:43

how did she start? How did she advertise ?

WhereAreTheWildThingsNow · 29/04/2025 19:43

I bet these men do bugger all round their own houses

UnctuousUnicorns · 29/04/2025 19:43

BottleBlondeMachiavelli · 29/04/2025 19:40

I’m not crazy on having random kinky dudes in the house, so I’d have to pass.

Same, no thanks.

CanYouTurnItDown · 29/04/2025 19:44

Absofuckinglutely- although I’d have to kick DH and the kids out first

ComtesseDeSpair · 29/04/2025 19:45

Nah, I’d rather pay a cleaner. Sex work / dominatrix work is ultimately a customer service position, it’s really not just minding your own business whilst somebody gets on with the cleaning, there’s a whole lot of playing a role and pleasing a customer. I don’t have the patience for that bullshit.

OhLucinda · 29/04/2025 19:46

Does she have to dress up or anything or can she just sit around in leggings and a sweatshirt with no makeup?

LeroyJenkinssss · 29/04/2025 19:47

I mean, it’s bloody tempting…

chickenlettuceunderbacon · 29/04/2025 19:47

No. Far more trouble than its worth.

CanYouTurnItDown · 29/04/2025 19:48

OhLucinda · 29/04/2025 19:46

Does she have to dress up or anything or can she just sit around in leggings and a sweatshirt with no makeup?

Actually, yes this.

WearyAuldWumman · 29/04/2025 19:48

This reminds me of Julie Walters recounting a conversation where Cynthia Payne offered to send someone to clean her house for her.

BalladOfBarryAndFreda · 29/04/2025 19:48

No

mumda · 29/04/2025 19:48

OhLucinda · 29/04/2025 19:46

Does she have to dress up or anything or can she just sit around in leggings and a sweatshirt with no makeup?

I'm imagining tight shiny black clothing. But maybe that's just me!

lnks · 29/04/2025 19:49

Being somebody’s prop in their fetish would not be for me. They are literally getting off on your actions

TomatoSandwiches · 29/04/2025 19:49

Can I just berate them over the phone instead?

MaryGreenhill · 29/04/2025 19:50

No l would not trust anyone in my house

Rklap · 29/04/2025 19:52

Nope. Don’t want unhinged people with too much time on their hands in my house.

HumanRightsAreHumanRights · 29/04/2025 19:52

No because the thought of some guy getting off on cleaning my house would make me want to clean everything they might have touched, or just throw it out.

Waitingfordoggo · 29/04/2025 19:52

Ewww no. Wouldn’t want a random pervy weirdo in my house and there’s no way he’d do a good enough job as I’m very anal particular about how the housework is done. I couldn’t be arsed to keep whipping him and shouting at him to get it right- it’d be much less stressful to just do it myself.