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Would you let a “slave” clean your house for free?

131 replies

Roxietrees · 29/04/2025 19:34

Just had a discussion with my friend who is a dominatrix for a living. She tells me some men just want to come and do her dishes while they pay her for it! Some, she says, clean the windows and clean her house top to bottom, while they pay for the privilege! No sex, no touching, no kinky stuff even. She says she might have to give them the “odd whip” to keep them inline 🤣 but that’s it. She makes £120 an hour. My mind is blown. Would you let someone who has a “slave” kink come and do your housework? It’d be a bit annoying having to put some sort of rubber outfit on and I’d feel a bit weird whipping them…but, I mean if I’m going to make 120 quid an hour for someone to clean my house..it almost seems worth it!

OP posts:
PunnyEagle · 29/04/2025 20:45

Nobody is slaves but men's on earth programmed it to be so

HarpSnail · 29/04/2025 20:45

No, I don’t want someone in a gimp costume shuddering with pleasurable humiliation licking my kitchen floor ‘clean’.

declutteringmymind · 29/04/2025 20:48

seriously thinking of asking my husband if he’s up for me doing this and him doing the cleaning.

LadyMonicaBaddingham · 29/04/2025 20:49

WhereAreTheWildThingsNow · 29/04/2025 19:43

I bet these men do bugger all round their own houses

Amen.

Kangarude · 29/04/2025 20:50

Waitingfordoggo · 29/04/2025 19:52

Ewww no. Wouldn’t want a random pervy weirdo in my house and there’s no way he’d do a good enough job as I’m very anal particular about how the housework is done. I couldn’t be arsed to keep whipping him and shouting at him to get it right- it’d be much less stressful to just do it myself.

😂

TheTigerWhoCameToBrunch · 29/04/2025 20:51

I had a few offers like this when I was OLD but I was living at home. Would jump at the chance now, just worry DH might not be so keen 😂

JasmineAllen · 29/04/2025 20:59

BottleBlondeMachiavelli · 29/04/2025 19:40

I’m not crazy on having random kinky dudes in the house, so I’d have to pass.

Yes, I feel the same. I really don't like the idea of perves, perving around my house, even if they are cleaning :)

TooExtraImmatureCheddar · 29/04/2025 21:08

Odras · 29/04/2025 19:53

How extra mad would you be if you found out your DH was cleaning some other woman’s house.

Fucking furious about the cleaning rather than the dominatrix. Although come to think of it if someone was standing over him with a whip he might actually learn to hoover properly and rinse pans before he puts them in the dishwasher. Maybe I should try it.

tillyandmilly · 29/04/2025 21:09

Weird!!!!

Twinklewonderkins · 29/04/2025 21:10

Only someone who was lucky enough never had have to interact with a deeply submissive kinky man would think this was a bargain of any sort.

EveryOtherNameTaken · 29/04/2025 21:46

BottleBlondeMachiavelli · 29/04/2025 20:40

Good grief some of you live very colourful lives. Were you expecting that when you turned up?

She let me know that 'James' would be there to clean and just ignore him in general after saying hello.

SmegmaCausesBV · 29/04/2025 21:49

It does sound great but ultimately you still have a weird man in your house rummaging amongst your belongings. Strange man then knows where you live, where your keys and valuables are and possibly any weak entry points... Nope!

Gettingbysomehow · 29/04/2025 21:50

No I can't stand pervert fetish men
My ex husband was one so I divorced him.

OhLucinda · 29/04/2025 21:53

Twinklewonderkins · 29/04/2025 21:10

Only someone who was lucky enough never had have to interact with a deeply submissive kinky man would think this was a bargain of any sort.

Why? What are they like?

Lookingtomakechanges · 29/04/2025 21:55

No, I'd hate this.

TeeBee · 29/04/2025 21:56

I wouldn’t want grubby little men in my home so I’ll take a pass.

theunbreakablecleopatrajones · 29/04/2025 21:57

Well no cos I’d rather pay a cleaner than go to the hassle of dominatrixing

But fair play to her

midlandsmummy123 · 29/04/2025 21:57

stacey dooley did a documentary about this, worth a watch.

theunbreakablecleopatrajones · 29/04/2025 21:58

Twinklewonderkins · 29/04/2025 21:10

Only someone who was lucky enough never had have to interact with a deeply submissive kinky man would think this was a bargain of any sort.

Well the OP’s mate presumably interacts with quite a lot of them. It take all sorts etc.

Divebar2021 · 29/04/2025 22:02

When I was a student in the US I became friends with a girl who had worked at a dungeon. I don’t know if she worked there because she was emotionally damaged or she was damaged as a result of working there but it didn’t do her any good. I was really happy to learn that she’d got her life together and moved on.

AdoraBell · 29/04/2025 22:06

While I dislike home like.

Branleuse · 29/04/2025 22:08

I had a friend who used to be a dominatrix and would tell people that she never had sex with them.
She admitted to me that she did have sex with them though.

blacksax · 29/04/2025 22:11

Do they do painting and decorating as well?

Asking for a friend.😂

glittercunt · 29/04/2025 22:19

My friend did this, I didn't think she was being paid, she was just in it for the free house maid. She's super extroverted, confident and well suited to it. I'd love to have one come round twice a week to help here, but not when I've got the kids in and out, and I'm a vulnerable adult. Anyone considering it, just stay safe and let people know your plans etc.

HouseCaptain · 29/04/2025 22:21

Rklap · 29/04/2025 19:52

Nope. Don’t want unhinged people with too much time on their hands in my house.

Look at this way…
is it not your civic duty to help fill their time doing something useful while also paying into your pension?