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Would you let a “slave” clean your house for free?

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Roxietrees · 29/04/2025 19:34

Just had a discussion with my friend who is a dominatrix for a living. She tells me some men just want to come and do her dishes while they pay her for it! Some, she says, clean the windows and clean her house top to bottom, while they pay for the privilege! No sex, no touching, no kinky stuff even. She says she might have to give them the “odd whip” to keep them inline 🤣 but that’s it. She makes £120 an hour. My mind is blown. Would you let someone who has a “slave” kink come and do your housework? It’d be a bit annoying having to put some sort of rubber outfit on and I’d feel a bit weird whipping them…but, I mean if I’m going to make 120 quid an hour for someone to clean my house..it almost seems worth it!

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CalicoPusscat · 30/04/2025 20:53

😬 that was grim. Unfortunately for him some well meaning person stopped thinking he was lost

Roxietrees · 30/04/2025 21:49

Planesmistakenforstars · 30/04/2025 15:13

Your friend saying there's no sex involved is the same as escorts who offer a "girlfriend experience" saying there's no sex involved. They are lying, because for whatever reason they want to maintain a sanitised veneer on it.

Obviously I can’t know for sure if she’s lying but she’s a childhood friend & I’ve known her for 20 years and she tells me EVERYTHING. I’ve never known her to lie before and she couldn’t give a shit what anyone thinks anyway. She’s also very pro sex work. And I’m also one of the least judgemental people she knows. I would think no differently if she was having sex with them, and she knows that. So I’m pretty sure she’s not lying! She’s been involved in the BDSM scene since she was about 20, at clubs, parties etc., some of which I’ve joined her at, despite it not being my scene. It was just out curiosity. They’re an incredibly respectful bunch of people. Mostly young-middle aged professionals, usually with high flying careers. I’ll never get over at one party a man dressed as a baby (ew 🤮 I know) accompanied by an older woman who regularly changed his “nappy” for him! (I know I said I’m not judgemental but that really tested me!) came up to me and started a conversation about the stock market, all the while wearing a nappy and sucking a dummy!!

Like I said in a PP men do all kinds of things at her house including wanking but she doesn’t have physical sexual contact with them and they don’t touch her. It’s all part of the thrill for a sub I think, the fact they’re NOT getting sex and the withholding of it. A PPer explained it better but it’s pretty well known that Doms do a lot and have to really work at their character but not sex. I think it kind of defeats the purpose of the whole submissive fantasy.

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BottleBlondeMachiavelli · 01/05/2025 01:32

CalicoPusscat · 30/04/2025 20:53

😬 that was grim. Unfortunately for him some well meaning person stopped thinking he was lost

I know. When have you ever seen a cyclist stop to advise lost tourists? Lucky he did.

Catullus5 · 01/05/2025 05:20

WearyAuldWumman · 29/04/2025 19:48

This reminds me of Julie Walters recounting a conversation where Cynthia Payne offered to send someone to clean her house for her.

It's in the film Personal Services. One of her clients offers to pay her to be allowed do her gardening.

Walters says "you'll have to work really hard or I won't accept a penny!" 😂

GoodCharl · 01/05/2025 07:41

Stacey Dooley did a documentary couple of years ago with a dominatrix. The bloke came round in full gimp costume and was cutting her grass dressed like that! All very odd, id not stop laughing! 😜

BumbleBeegu · 01/05/2025 07:47

I’ve just watched the Stacey Dooley documentary series about sex workers and one of them was a dominatrix. She had men doing things like this…I was cringing watching it 🥴🥴

My answer is no…although fair play to them 😆

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