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Would you let a “slave” clean your house for free?

131 replies

Roxietrees · 29/04/2025 19:34

Just had a discussion with my friend who is a dominatrix for a living. She tells me some men just want to come and do her dishes while they pay her for it! Some, she says, clean the windows and clean her house top to bottom, while they pay for the privilege! No sex, no touching, no kinky stuff even. She says she might have to give them the “odd whip” to keep them inline 🤣 but that’s it. She makes £120 an hour. My mind is blown. Would you let someone who has a “slave” kink come and do your housework? It’d be a bit annoying having to put some sort of rubber outfit on and I’d feel a bit weird whipping them…but, I mean if I’m going to make 120 quid an hour for someone to clean my house..it almost seems worth it!

OP posts:
AquaPeer · 29/04/2025 19:52

Has she been doing this long? I have a friend who has done similar and thought it was great but it wasnt long before the prevy requests and pressure started piling on

Odras · 29/04/2025 19:53

How extra mad would you be if you found out your DH was cleaning some other woman’s house.

Shetlands · 29/04/2025 19:54

I think lots of men like the idea of a dominatrix. When I was a headteacher in smart suits and high heels, I was amazed at the amount of men (dads, grandads, workmen, delivery men) who would say things like "You can cane me anytime Miss". I know they were just being cheeky but it doesn't come from nowhere does it!

OhLucinda · 29/04/2025 19:55

mumda · 29/04/2025 19:48

I'm imagining tight shiny black clothing. But maybe that's just me!

Oh yes, there was mention of wearing rubber actually. Fuck that then.

TheTecknician · 29/04/2025 20:01

Imagine the outcry if the roles were reversed.

Roastiesarethebestbit · 29/04/2025 20:07

I think you’d have to do a bit more than sit on the sofa in your pvc catsuit. For £120 an hour the slaves would be expecting an enthusiastic master. I don’t think ‘Oo you missed a spot’ would
be enough chat. Ultimately you are fulfilling their fantasy and they are paying you for it.

Roxietrees · 29/04/2025 20:11

She started about 10 yrs ago, and yeah tbf it’s a massive faff if you’re not that into it (I think she is though) she has a “dungeon” (the spare room lol) and has her own website. The house cleaners are her loyal clients that she’s had for years, and some of them genuinely just want to do whatever she asks - they relinquish all their control. So if the house needs cleaning, the house gets cleaned, if the ironing needs doing the ironing gets done! But yeah she has to dress up for the role and she whips and spanks them and calls them naughty boys etc! She never allows them to touch her though. Hate to kink shame, but I think I’d be too grossed out to go to all that effort. I think she genuinely enjoys it though

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TranceNation · 29/04/2025 20:12

Why would they pay rather not just apply for a part time household cleaning job?

Bingbopboomboomboombopbam · 29/04/2025 20:12

I wouldn’t just because I don’t want the sexual component, but there’s constant posts about it on our local fb page lol - someone offering up their “sissy” for domestic labour.

Ladamesansmerci · 29/04/2025 20:13

Roxietrees · 29/04/2025 19:34

Just had a discussion with my friend who is a dominatrix for a living. She tells me some men just want to come and do her dishes while they pay her for it! Some, she says, clean the windows and clean her house top to bottom, while they pay for the privilege! No sex, no touching, no kinky stuff even. She says she might have to give them the “odd whip” to keep them inline 🤣 but that’s it. She makes £120 an hour. My mind is blown. Would you let someone who has a “slave” kink come and do your housework? It’d be a bit annoying having to put some sort of rubber outfit on and I’d feel a bit weird whipping them…but, I mean if I’m going to make 120 quid an hour for someone to clean my house..it almost seems worth it!

Yeah I used to be into the BDSM scene, and it's quite a common kink 😂

I wouldn't do it as I'd be too scared of rape and men knowing where I live, but love it for you our friend lol.

TranceNation · 29/04/2025 20:13

Oh, I think you're last post already answered my query why they would not just apply for a household cleaning job 😆

NameChangedOfc · 29/04/2025 20:18

It would feel like exploiting people's childhood traumas. Also: no pervs enter my home. So nope.

emmatherhino · 29/04/2025 20:20

Where does one find this service?

Asking for a friend, of course.

Friend also needs to know where to buy a whip

AgnesX · 29/04/2025 20:20

Couldn't be bothered to dress up but apart from that oh yes 😁

Hoppinggreen · 29/04/2025 20:21

MissScarletInTheBallroom · 29/04/2025 19:37

I mean, no one is forcing them to do it.

I think they need to believe someone is

MasculineProviderEnergy · 29/04/2025 20:24

Like you op I thought it a cheap way to get my cleaning done. I think he was a little pur out that I was wearing a tracksuit and not rubber, and did a really half arsed job.

Lucky for me I quite enjoy housework these days.

MissScarletInTheBallroom · 29/04/2025 20:26

TranceNation · 29/04/2025 20:12

Why would they pay rather not just apply for a part time household cleaning job?

Because being a slave is the kink.

mumofoneAlonebutokay · 29/04/2025 20:33

Omg yes 😄

EveryOtherNameTaken · 29/04/2025 20:33

I know a couple of dom women who do this.

Sat round there when it's going on one time. Lovely well mannered bloke. Been doing it for her for years.

JaninaDuszejko · 29/04/2025 20:37

TheTecknician · 29/04/2025 20:01

Imagine the outcry if the roles were reversed.

If you can find a woman who would pay £120 to clean someone else's house while being whipped if they don't do a good job feel free to cause an outcry.

ChompinCrocodiles · 29/04/2025 20:38

Absolutely would not want these weirdos and pervs knowing my address.

Pedallleur · 29/04/2025 20:40

Only needs 1 thing to go wrong though. One nutter who decides you are going to get what you deserve. In your house with access to knives, chemicals etc.

BottleBlondeMachiavelli · 29/04/2025 20:40

EveryOtherNameTaken · 29/04/2025 20:33

I know a couple of dom women who do this.

Sat round there when it's going on one time. Lovely well mannered bloke. Been doing it for her for years.

Good grief some of you live very colourful lives. Were you expecting that when you turned up?

rosemarble · 29/04/2025 20:41

As tempting as it might be for some fella (well a trained boiler engineer in this case) to pay me to replace the boiler and radiators, I don't think I'd ever be able to enjoy the fruits of his labour. I don't want my home associated with someone else's fetishes and kinks.

I might be able to cope with some pressure washing outside, though the neighbours might raise an eyebrow if I'm out there supervising in my crotchless PVC jumpsuit.

mumda · 29/04/2025 20:43

TomatoSandwiches · 29/04/2025 19:49

Can I just berate them over the phone instead?

0898 double..

They used to have loads of phone sex lines in Manchester. I knew someone who worked in their tarot line as she couldn't stop giggling in the other calls.

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