Would you let a “slave” clean your house for free?

[Roxietrees]

Just had a discussion with my friend who is a dominatrix for a living. She tells me some men just want to come and do her dishes while they pay her for it! Some, she says, clean the windows and clean her house top to bottom, while they pay for the privilege! No sex, no touching, no kinky stuff even. She says she might have to give them the “odd whip” to keep them inline 🤣 but that’s it. She makes £120 an hour. My mind is blown. Would you let someone who has a “slave” kink come and do your housework? It’d be a bit annoying having to put some sort of rubber outfit on and I’d feel a bit weird whipping them…but, I mean if I’m going to make 120 quid an hour for someone to clean my house..it almost seems worth it!

It may not be as ideal as it sounds; I bet she often has to do it properly once they’ve left

God, yeah, for £120 an hour and a clean house!!

Will you charge by the minute?

The idea sounds great, but in reality you could get any weirdo turn up and it is risky, and not to mention they might be stinky and hairy, and also shit at cleaning.

Just when you think you have heard it all…

Probably wiping their cum off her worktops 🤢🤢

Woah. You’re intrepid.

I got chatting to a bloke when OLD a few years ago who wanted to do this. I gave it serious consideration but regretfully declined.

I don't believe that for a minute. Be a sex worker zero judgement, but own it

It's like when people say they make £20 000 a month on only fans just showing photos of their feet

I'd adore it! I'm rubbish at housework and fabulous at being abusive to men.

Sign me up!

I used to have this idea my mum told me if she ever came over and my place was immaculate she would know what I have been up to

I would love to but I think DP would probably object to it… selfish bastard.

No thanks! Some rando could pretend to be a Submissive until he gained entry to the house and you…

I struggle being in the company of people who are mentally ill, who could at any moment turn on you and become violent.
Hard pass.

Am another who during an OLD stint, was offered this a few times by various men. I declined, obviously, because the men in question were already crossing and ignoring boundaries. Any decent slave would apply to an actual dom rather than soliciting randoms on a dating website.

She's probably lying about them touching her to maintain her dignity the same way escorts do. Having a guy clean your house while you bully them makes you seem alot more powerful than getting a guy off by making him clean your house while he wanks on your floor at the end of the £150 session. Men are men and even the ones who get off on submission want a release at the end eventually. Not for me, the idea of some man with pathologies touching his little worm because of me isn't worth the money but needs must.

It has the ingredients of potentially quite an amusing sit com.

His little worm lol. No she doesn’t lie about it - many of her clients there is more to it - eg. Them wanking, her spanking them, having to put them in some kind of Jesus on the crucifix looking contraption that spins around! There are however one or two men that just want to be her “slaves” and are content to just do whatever she asks, but yeah even then, she still needs to whip them occasionally. Not for me at all but I think it’s great for her.

For £120 an hour I can play at customer pleasing!

I've known someone who did this. She did insist they did a decent job of the cleaning!

I'd be up for it in principle although I'd be rubbish at role playing dominance, I think I'd just crack up laughing! That said, I do have a domme friend who does her job with a lot of humour and some of her stories are hilarious (subtle domination in a John Lewis store is one of my favourites) 😁

How did she get started? Asking for a 'friend'

I think it started off as a lifestyle thing, then professionalised - with careful screening of clients.

@hehehesorry - no, I don't think dommes are lying about no contact. There are sex workers who are primarily offering sex and do some domination, but while I'd say dommes are sex workers, if they say no sex or touching or wanking they absolutely mean it. I think for some guys the actual denial of the directly sexual contact despite the charged situation is part of the appeal. Nowt as queer as folk and all that.

Findom (financial domination) is even better! Those are men who literally have a kink on giving money to women. Obviously made easier and safer through online platforms. Some men are so far into the kink they take up loans or have to declare bankruptcy.

In theory, this sounds fun!
In reality, it’s so weird. Some dodgy guy with a fetish doing a half arsed job so they can play out servile fantasies.