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Thread 16 Starmer - Mad World

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DuncinToffee · 21/01/2025 08:47

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ilovesooty · 27/01/2025 20:51

I feel a bit better now. My friend took me out for a curry as a belated birthday present.

SerendipityJane · 27/01/2025 21:17

PandoraSox · 27/01/2025 18:39

Will there will be multiple MN threads about this horrific case?

www.bbc.co.uk/news/articles/c2dxj570n21o

There are no words.

The silence is deafening.

Llttledrummergirl · 27/01/2025 21:22

I've been deleted more in the last 6 months than in the 14 years or so I've been here. I've never forgotten my first deletion, it was for telling a hunt saboteur what I thought of them for their plan to jump out in front of a horse to frighten it.

derxa · 27/01/2025 21:23

PickAChew · 27/01/2025 19:41

Oh I bloody hope so. Unfortunately, I think the response depends heavily upon who is on duty at the time.

There are some vile, nasty, depraved people in this world with no care for how much they ruin young lives. My spidey senses tell me that the Scottish case won't be reigniting the baying for more inquiries into grooming gangs.

Why on earth not?

PandoraSox · 27/01/2025 21:27

SerendipityJane · 27/01/2025 21:17

There are no words.

The silence is deafening.

I know.

Maybe the silence is because it is so awful no one wants to start a thread on it for fear of seeming ghoulish. Bet I bet if the rapists had been of a different type, shall we say, someone would have overcome their squeamishness.

@Countrygirl99 I keep thinking about your FIL, carrying that trauma in secret his whole life. It is so sad.

derxa · 27/01/2025 21:38

PandoraSox · 27/01/2025 21:27

I know.

Maybe the silence is because it is so awful no one wants to start a thread on it for fear of seeming ghoulish. Bet I bet if the rapists had been of a different type, shall we say, someone would have overcome their squeamishness.

@Countrygirl99 I keep thinking about your FIL, carrying that trauma in secret his whole life. It is so sad.

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This is as they say ‘a bit of a stretch’. This horrible case is hopefully unique.

PandoraSox · 27/01/2025 21:40

derxa · 27/01/2025 21:38

This is as they say ‘a bit of a stretch’. This horrible case is hopefully unique.

I don't feel like arguing the toss on this one, so let's agree to disagree.

PickAChew · 27/01/2025 21:44

derxa · 27/01/2025 21:23

Why on earth not?

Because the far right can't bang their drum about white British mostly men, though I'm sure the "women are at it too" brigade would have a field day.

derxa · 27/01/2025 21:46

PandoraSox · 27/01/2025 21:40

I don't feel like arguing the toss on this one, so let's agree to disagree.

Are you saying there are white paedophile gangs like this all over Scotland

PandoraSox · 27/01/2025 21:50

derxa · 27/01/2025 21:46

Are you saying there are white paedophile gangs like this all over Scotland

I meant it Derxa. I am off, OK?

DuncinToffee · 27/01/2025 22:17

Holocaust Memorial Day

Auschwitz was at the end of a long process. It did not start from gas chambers.

This hatred was gradually developed by humans. From ideas, words, stereotypes & prejudice through legal exclusion, dehumanization & escalating violence... to systematic and industrial murder.

Auschwitz took time.

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cardibach · 27/01/2025 22:38

Have a great time with your friend @BIossomtoes . I don’t want to one up you, but I have a friend of 49 years staying this weekend. Old friends are precious because they’ve known the other versions of us that led us to where we are so understand where we come from.

ilovesooty · 27/01/2025 22:47

Yes, @BIossomtoes and @cardibach , enjoy seeing your friends.

BestIsWest · 27/01/2025 22:51

DuncinToffee · 27/01/2025 22:17

Holocaust Memorial Day

Auschwitz was at the end of a long process. It did not start from gas chambers.

This hatred was gradually developed by humans. From ideas, words, stereotypes & prejudice through legal exclusion, dehumanization & escalating violence... to systematic and industrial murder.

Auschwitz took time.

Episode 20 of The World At War is a good if harrowing watch on the road to Auschwitz with testimonies from people who worked there along with survivors.

cakeorwine · 27/01/2025 23:00

BestIsWest · 27/01/2025 22:51

Episode 20 of The World At War is a good if harrowing watch on the road to Auschwitz with testimonies from people who worked there along with survivors.

DS and I were at Auschwitz recently. I've been before and I think it's really important people see it. You can't understand how people can do this to other people - and it had a real effect on me. The more you read about how society changed, how it became hard to resist the Nazis, the fear people had, the way people and society turned on others, and how people became demonised, became seen as other and as "sub human", there are so many lessons

I do wonder what politicians and people in power think when / if they visit there.

dontcallmelen · 28/01/2025 08:39

Evenstar · 27/01/2025 20:26

Very sorry to hear about your FIL @countrygirl99 how distressing for you all to hear that as a family

I am so very sorry, such wickedness & cruelty inflicted I cannot begin to imagine how awful it must have been.

countrygirl99 · 28/01/2025 08:53

Thanks everyone. DH and I are the only ones in the family who know. He broke down and disclosed to DH when he didn't know what to do about wearing a mask. FIL died over 2 years ago but DH still struggles to think about it.

Zonder · 28/01/2025 08:59

It's terrible @countrygirl99 that poor man carrying it all his life, and now you and DH.

DuncinToffee · 28/01/2025 09:48

Flowers countrygirl and your DH

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DuncinToffee · 28/01/2025 09:49

FYI

Today the Terminally Ill Adults (End of Life) Bill starts to hear oral evidence from national and international experts in medicine, law, social work and beyond.

Chris Whitty is giving evidence

You can watch it live on BBC Parliaments

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SerendipityJane · 28/01/2025 10:12

derxa · 27/01/2025 21:46

Are you saying there are white paedophile gangs like this all over Scotland

They won't be unique. And not just in Scotland.

but no one is looking for white paedophile gangs are they ? Not thanks to Farage and Badenoch. In fact there's probably never been a better time to be a white British born paedophile than now.

I leave it to the reader to decide whether that is in fact Farage and Badenochs intention all along. After all, do we know who is funding them ?

2dogsandabudgie · 28/01/2025 10:54

SerendipityJane · 28/01/2025 10:12

They won't be unique. And not just in Scotland.

but no one is looking for white paedophile gangs are they ? Not thanks to Farage and Badenoch. In fact there's probably never been a better time to be a white British born paedophile than now.

I leave it to the reader to decide whether that is in fact Farage and Badenochs intention all along. After all, do we know who is funding them ?

Police are investigating white paedophile gangs the same as they always have. There have been numerous prosecutions over the years. The uproar over Rotherham was because it spanned 16 years or more and had tried to be covered up because of the ethnicity of the perpetrators.

There hasn't been a cover up in Scotland.

I read the link and it is a horrific case and makes for very difficult reading.

PandoraSox · 28/01/2025 11:09

2dogsandabudgie · 28/01/2025 10:54

Police are investigating white paedophile gangs the same as they always have. There have been numerous prosecutions over the years. The uproar over Rotherham was because it spanned 16 years or more and had tried to be covered up because of the ethnicity of the perpetrators.

There hasn't been a cover up in Scotland.

I read the link and it is a horrific case and makes for very difficult reading.

Thankfully there was no cover up In this case. But there have been cover ups of CSA by white people, as we all know.

pointythings · 28/01/2025 11:10

If I were in a white paedophile grooming gang right now, I'd feel emboldened. Sad, but there it is.