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How old were you when you lost your virginity?

687 replies

Soubriquet · 21/02/2024 10:39

And if you have children old enough, how old were they?

I keep hearing about how kids are losing their virginity younger and younger now so I was curious to know how old you were, compared to your children.

I was 17. Dh was 13.

DD is 10 and still at the age where anything sexual grosses her out (thank god). They are currently doing sex education at school at the moment and she comes home horrified every time

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LoseLooseLucy · 21/02/2024 14:31

Hairbrush 😳

Tiddlywinkly · 21/02/2024 14:32

@VitoCorleoneOfMNMafia the handle

SomethingDifferentt · 21/02/2024 14:32

16 and he was lovely. I’d been busy with my hair brush until then so I was more than ready for him

This sounds like something a 55 year old porn-addled weirdo would say.

obsessedwithfreshbread · 21/02/2024 14:33

14, was very common in our peer group, 5 were pregnant at GCSE's and another 8/10 dropped out of 6th form as pregnant
I'm 43 now and alot of our year group are grandparents

TheSnakeCharmer · 21/02/2024 14:34

19 to my DH. He's the only person that I've ever slept with. I hope to keep it that way.

Am surprised by the age range on here, which is reassuring (aside from the 15 and under brigade). I hope that no one feels under pressure to lose their virginity, regardless of their age.

HeraSyndulla · 21/02/2024 14:38

VitoCorleoneOfMNMafia · 21/02/2024 14:30

I'd been busy with my hair brush until then

Wouldn't the bristles injure your vagina?

Just the handle. It was made of curved plastic. Perfect shape and size. Six form you got a room to yourself so you were allowed your privacy.

LoseLooseLucy · 21/02/2024 14:41

Hmm.

mondaytosunday · 21/02/2024 14:42
  1. My son 15 (serious first girlfriend and both had a stern talking to as we - her mum and me - had both talked to them about waiting til 16).
VitoCorleoneOfMNMafia · 21/02/2024 14:42

Tiddlywinkly · 21/02/2024 14:32

@VitoCorleoneOfMNMafia the handle

You put the long pointy bit for sorting your parting out inside you? That's even worse!

HeraSyndulla · 21/02/2024 14:43

SomethingDifferentt · 21/02/2024 14:32

16 and he was lovely. I’d been busy with my hair brush until then so I was more than ready for him

This sounds like something a 55 year old porn-addled weirdo would say.

Never met one myself so I’ll bow you your expertise in that direction.

Tiddlywinkly · 21/02/2024 14:44

What? You're describing a comb not a hair brush

Infracat · 21/02/2024 14:44

15

VitoCorleoneOfMNMafia · 21/02/2024 14:44

HeraSyndulla · 21/02/2024 14:38

Just the handle. It was made of curved plastic. Perfect shape and size. Six form you got a room to yourself so you were allowed your privacy.

I had in my head one of these. https://i.ebayimg.com/images/g/wI0AAOSw~XFeKUmf/s-l640.jpg

I discovered my clit at 13ish. So glad I didn't go to boarding school.

https://i.ebayimg.com/images/g/wI0AAOSw~XFeKUmf/s-l640.jpg

BudgetFoodie · 21/02/2024 14:44

I was 18
Dd was 17

DramaAlpaca · 21/02/2024 14:45

I was 19.

No clue about when my DH or my adult children lost theirs, it's none of my business and I don't need to know.

Tempnamechng · 21/02/2024 14:47

BingoMarieHeeler · 21/02/2024 11:15

18, to DH which even makes me want to barf with how twee it is 🤣

It isn't at all, it's sweet that you stayed with your first love.

Tempnamechng · 21/02/2024 14:49

I was 19. Dh no idea, not my business. Dc I've just told them to be save, make sure everyone is legal and is both consenting and able to consent.

LoseLooseLucy · 21/02/2024 14:50

I don’t think anyone thinks “it’s their business” when their partner lost their virginity, probably just came up in conversation.

DeliciouslyDecadent · 21/02/2024 14:51

13- for your DH?

That's disturbing. I wonder how old the girl was.

pinkyredrose · 21/02/2024 14:52

NorthCliffs · 21/02/2024 10:49

  1. And I hope my children will be the same.

Why? Don't you think that's a bit old?

yeahiknoww · 21/02/2024 14:53

17 or 18.....18, I think.

13 is horrible Shock

JonahMagnus · 21/02/2024 14:53

7 but I didn’t choose that, it happened to me.

Bringonthesunforthewashing · 21/02/2024 14:53

14 and it was horrendous 😞

DillDanding · 21/02/2024 14:54

Husband was 16 (and the woman was 26!)

Bringonthesunforthewashing · 21/02/2024 14:54

JonahMagnus · 21/02/2024 14:53

7 but I didn’t choose that, it happened to me.

That’s awful, the bastard. Sorry but he is.

Hope you’re okay x