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Chub rub 😖

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Bemyclementine · 07/06/2023 07:45

I've put some weight on, and for the first time am understanding the agony if chub rub. I'm wearing a dress to work today (because my trousers are too tight...) and plan to go fir a walk at lunchtime. Last time though, in the warmer weather, it was bloody awful!

I am trying to lose weight and also have started exercising 4 times a week so I'm hoping to banish it quickly (it seems to be the last half a stone that's made a difference)

For today though, what can I do?

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MooMooSharoo · 07/06/2023 09:59

Lealea2023 · 07/06/2023 08:03

M&S do some chaffing shorts too. I used to use a bit of talc which helped.

I swear by these.

I have odd thighs. I'm not denying I'm now overweight, but even as a size 8-10 I had chub rub, so stopped wearing dresses years ago.

I like the Snag shorts too, but mine always start fraying, whereas the M&S ones are more knicker material that tights, so last longer.

I'll be wearing dresses all summer as they are much comfier than my too tight trousers.

MooMooSharoo · 07/06/2023 10:01

I love sleeping in the M&S shorts too - really comfy

BarelyLiterate · 07/06/2023 10:09

In my experience, and believe me I know what I’m talking about, the only real solution to chub rub is to lose the chub.
The discomfort was one of the things which finally made me want to accept responsibility for my weight & take control of what I chose to put in my mouth.

PoxyAndIKnowIt · 07/06/2023 10:11

People are recommending deodorant, and having tried loads on my own personal chub rub I'd recommend a stick/cream type: it works better than roll on and is less sticky.
I also use Primarks cheapest leggings cut down to size, though they are a little thick on the hottest of days... I'm off to buy those Amazon ones now!

WellTidy · 07/06/2023 10:12

I had chub rub at a size 8. I’m now a size 14 and it’s predictably worse than ever. I used to use talc but it is t cutting it for me anymore. Going to try a silicon based anti chafing gel.

Shivermytimber · 07/06/2023 10:16

Thin layer of Vaseline, I use this when running on all the chafing prone areas, it’s brilliant,

mynameiscalypso · 07/06/2023 10:23

BarelyLiterate · 07/06/2023 10:09

In my experience, and believe me I know what I’m talking about, the only real solution to chub rub is to lose the chub.
The discomfort was one of the things which finally made me want to accept responsibility for my weight & take control of what I chose to put in my mouth.

Not always. It depends on your body shape. I've been borderline underweight and still get it thanks to my thunder thighs.

NorthWestThree · 07/06/2023 10:28

I wear Snag Chub Rub shorts. Changed my life! I am not slim yet but I lost 1.5 stone and I still get slight chafing, the shorts are comfy to wear and I get less sweaty 😊
I love all the colours and actually think they look cute under short dresses. I wear Capri tights too.

VikingLady · 07/06/2023 10:32

I used to use poundshop 5 denier tights cut off at the knee before chub rub shorts were invented.

I have had chafing since I was a kid. Even when I was thin. My pelvis is just built that way.

PinkSparklyPussyCat · 07/06/2023 10:37

BarelyLiterate · 07/06/2023 10:09

In my experience, and believe me I know what I’m talking about, the only real solution to chub rub is to lose the chub.
The discomfort was one of the things which finally made me want to accept responsibility for my weight & take control of what I chose to put in my mouth.

It really isn't 🙄

I've had chub rub no matter what size I've been, it's just my shape, the same as many other people on here

HeidiUpTheMountain · 07/06/2023 10:41

BarelyLiterate · 07/06/2023 10:09

In my experience, and believe me I know what I’m talking about, the only real solution to chub rub is to lose the chub.
The discomfort was one of the things which finally made me want to accept responsibility for my weight & take control of what I chose to put in my mouth.

Good for you, but what you say isn’t true. I am short, so my thighs always rub, and have done since I was a very toned, underweight teen. And even though I’m now overweight, the problem is no worse. It is just my body shape.

lastminutewednesday · 07/06/2023 10:44

I had this and in an emergency situation used some glycerine based hand cream I had in my bag. It worked an absolute treat!

lastminutewednesday · 07/06/2023 10:45

Dh has some fancy cream-Bum Bum cream maybe it's called which he sued when hiking. But spendy. I'm sticking with my Aldi Lacura hand cream!

Chooba · 07/06/2023 10:47

I tried the snag chub rubs - am i the only one who had them roll up massively so they didn't help at all? I get on with their tights fine, I was super disappointed.

CindersAgain · 07/06/2023 10:49

LookItsMeAgain · 07/06/2023 08:36

You're aware that anyone, any size can get chub rub if their thighs meet, right? So size 10 or size 24, makes no difference if that person's thighs meet and they perspire.
For some people, just because of how they're built, this is their life.
Have a little bit of sympathy or even empathy for those size 10's and beyond who have this as part of their life.

I’m reading the OP as being sympathetic there - saying ‘gosh that’s rubbish to get it at size 10’.

NorthWestThree · 07/06/2023 11:13

BarelyLiterate · 07/06/2023 10:09

In my experience, and believe me I know what I’m talking about, the only real solution to chub rub is to lose the chub.
The discomfort was one of the things which finally made me want to accept responsibility for my weight & take control of what I chose to put in my mouth.

My daughter is a size 8 and a perfectly healthy weight but has chunky thighs and wears cycling shorts under dresses to feel more comfortable.

UselessFecker · 07/06/2023 11:15

It's a sad reflection on the human race that there is a booming market in chub rub pants😮

Beluowens · 07/06/2023 11:16

My dd is a size 8 waist measurement but has large thighs (and boobs - a beautiful hourglass shape) and gets chub rub so you don't have to be overweight to suffer... . She wears cycling shorts underneath her (very short) dresses. I've heard mention of chub rub bands which I believe are simply strips of material rather then pants or shorts that work well as well. Cant for the life of me remember the name though so not much help their. For today in an emergency though, maybe try vaseline or equivalent rubbed into the inner thigh. May work?!

NorthWestThree · 07/06/2023 11:18

UselessFecker · 07/06/2023 11:15

It's a sad reflection on the human race that there is a booming market in chub rub pants😮

In what way?

CindersAgain · 07/06/2023 11:23

NorthWestThree · 07/06/2023 11:18

In what way?

Because for most people (not all), they are needed because the person is overweight. Hence the name.

off · 07/06/2023 11:23

UselessFecker · 07/06/2023 11:15

It's a sad reflection on the human race that there is a booming market in chub rub pants😮

Yep — the rot really started to set in when we became bipedal and lost our fur IMO.

sosickofthisshit · 07/06/2023 11:25

There is actually a cream called Chub Rub. You can buy it on Amazon. It's brilliant, and means you don't have to wear shorts or tights. I used it on holiday last year, and it was great.

PinkSparklyPussyCat · 07/06/2023 11:26

UselessFecker · 07/06/2023 11:15

It's a sad reflection on the human race that there is a booming market in chub rub pants😮

As it can affect anyone of any size the way I prefer to look at it is it's great that chub rub shorts are now mainstream and women don't have to suffer

BordoisAgain · 07/06/2023 11:32

CindersAgain · 07/06/2023 11:23

Because for most people (not all), they are needed because the person is overweight. Hence the name.

Nope. Its nothing to do with weight.

Very few women have natural thigh gaps. The vast majority of us do have thighs that touch, regardless of weight.

Whatelsecouldibecalled · 07/06/2023 11:33

In the mean time chub rub shorts from snag tights are great