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Janegrey333 · 11/10/2020 12:56

Seems to have shut up shop as from this morning.

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BrilliantStarz · 13/10/2020 12:56

@GetOffYourHighHorse but that sub is private if it's still there! How could you access it and link from there anyway?

DotForShort · 13/10/2020 12:59

Why are people discussing Reddit here? I thought this thread was about the late (unlamented) other site.

MillieVanilla · 13/10/2020 13:01

@Janegrey333

I see there is a different notice available to view at the Other Place. The excerpt below is interesting:

a couple of members were particularly unpleasant to me and I don't have the time for it.

Oh well, at least two posters know they were partly responsible.

Are they expecting sympathy?Hmm

If you allow people to act in the way several of them behaved, allowing them to get steadily worse as time went on, whilst being heavy handed with others, don't be at all surprised that when you finally realise via the police getting in touch and attempt to do something of merit only down to that that they will turn on you.

It's obvious! There should have been a firm hand not a "oh you're a name to make us look good that you've graced us with your membership" attitude, compared to "oh you're not a well known banned member so I'm going to make an example of you".

Literally a case of how not to run a forum right there.

BrilliantStarz · 13/10/2020 13:05

Sorry @DotforShort. Some of the nastiest people on MC were formerly on a hidden sub on reddit. Some of them are now on yet another hidden sub on reddit. That's the connection.

GetOffYourHighHorse · 13/10/2020 13:09

'Why are people discussing Reddit here? I thought this thread was about the late (unlamented) other site.'

Threads evolve. Reddit was mentioned earlier, where there is a public sub that targets those who post on here, that arranges pile ons and is very unpleasant about mnhq. It would seem ironic that some who post there and here are looking down their noses on mc, a site just like their own!

Roussette · 13/10/2020 13:12

Who though? Not me, that's for sure, I've had enough trolling to last me a lifetime. First and I hope last time it happens for me

DotForShort · 13/10/2020 13:13

@BrilliantStarz

Sorry *@DotforShort*. Some of the nastiest people on MC were formerly on a hidden sub on reddit. Some of them are now on yet another hidden sub on reddit. That's the connection.
I see. Thanks for the explanation. Somehow it doesn't surprise me that the worst offenders on MC have also been unpleasant elsewhere.
BIWI · 13/10/2020 13:25

@GetOffYourHighHorse

there is a public sub that targets those who post on here, that arranges pile ons

Can you substantiate that claim?

UnderCoverNonTourist · 13/10/2020 13:36

[quote BIWI]@GetOffYourHighHorse

there is a public sub that targets those who post on here, that arranges pile ons

Can you substantiate that claim?[/quote]
Where would you like to begin BIWI?

Alabamawhirly1 · 13/10/2020 14:00

please do bore off. As I said before, I do hope this is being kept an eye on so we don't get an influx of displaced nastiness here

You and your "friend" are sounding very similar indeed. She kept saying bore off when people stated they were upset over her "humour".

I was on mn before mc. I continued to use both sites throughout and will continue to use mn. You have no more right to use mn than me just because I spent some time on an alternative site. It's you that is showing nastiness here not me.

Devlesko · 13/10/2020 14:01

is this where the pile ons come from? I've noticed it sometimes, and wondered if there were lots of private messages going on about particular people.
Didn't include me so kept trunky out.
I've no idea what this thread is about btw. Grin

MillieVanilla · 13/10/2020 14:26

[quote BIWI]@GetOffYourHighHorse

there is a public sub that targets those who post on here, that arranges pile ons

Can you substantiate that claim?[/quote]
Well I went to find it, it wasn't hard, to find myself being slagged off

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Samcro · 13/10/2020 14:40

[quote Roussette]@GetOffYourHighHorse

Hmmm and were you on mc? And did you call out the continual mocking and unpleasant posts about us we have talked about?
If you weren't, fine. If you were, well...it works all ways[/quote]
I would love to see the answer to this.

GetOffYourHighHorse · 13/10/2020 14:48

'I would love to see the answer to this.'

I didn't post on mc. I thought the admin was a bit weird tbh, as demonstrated by her recent coming and going stunt.

No, my point is it is very unpleasant to see potentially vulnerable posters, some oblivious yes but some will see it, on mn pulled apart on other sites, whether it is on mc or reddit. For the trillionth time we can't control the Internet but to criticise mc when many here (not roussette
I think she is genuinely unaware) back slap on reddit would seem very hypocritical.

TabithaTadpole · 13/10/2020 14:51

I've just had a look on Reddit and, Jesus, that place is brutal Shock. MC was never ever like that.

Janegrey333 · 13/10/2020 14:56

@BrilliantStarz

Sorry *@DotforShort*. Some of the nastiest people on MC were formerly on a hidden sub on reddit. Some of them are now on yet another hidden sub on reddit. That's the connection.
Including the one who was “Banned“. Clearly Admin had issues with her. Imagine being on Reddit. That is a mess and impossible to navigate.
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Janegrey333 · 13/10/2020 14:57

@TabithaTadpole

I've just had a look on Reddit and, Jesus, that place is brutal Shock. MC was never ever like that.
It is a cesspit. Those people are more than a little crazy.
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Roussette · 13/10/2020 15:01

I would love to see the answer to this

Exactly!

GetOff
You've been very vocal about your dislike and disdain for H&M on here, you and I have locked horns, so I imagine you were 'over there' on those threads .... the ones that were harrassing, ridiculing and copy and pasting every word I said. And other MNers. Whether you were a part of it, I don't know, whether you just ignored it.

Feel free to deny you ever saw it, or were part of it, and I will apologise unreservedly and wholeheartedly. I don't know because of NCs.

But you can't come on here and berate anyone for not pulling up Reddit for what they do, when we are still getting over what was done to us, on mc.

Roussette · 13/10/2020 15:03

Ive only just completed my post GetOff so I do apologise. Glad to hear you found the place not your cuppa.
Sorry.

GetOffYourHighHorse · 13/10/2020 15:07

'You've been very vocal about your dislike and disdain for H&M on here, you and I have locked horns, so I imagine you were 'over there' on those threads'

Yes we've disagreed about H&M but you've always been very polite about it as I hope have I. No I haven't ever posted about you or any other mumsnetters on mc.

'But you can't come on here and berate anyone for not pulling up Reddit for what they do, when we are still getting over what was done to us, on mc.'

No I'm not berating anyone for not pulling up reddit shite for what they do, I'm pointing the finger at the posters on this thread (and they know who they are as do I), who join in the vile targeted crap on reddit yet are wibbling on about mc on here.

GetOffYourHighHorse · 13/10/2020 15:08

@Roussette

Ive only just completed my post GetOff so I do apologise. Glad to hear you found the place not your cuppa. Sorry.
Cross post Smile
Roussette · 13/10/2020 15:09

Yes GetOff you have always been very polite. We might've got heated and cross but always posted with respect to each other.

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