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Janegrey333 · 11/10/2020 12:56

Seems to have shut up shop as from this morning.

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MagicSummer · 11/10/2020 19:43

What the hell is ableism?

SunbathingDragon · 11/10/2020 19:44

@derxa

Thanks @derxa Hope you are doing ok I'm fine. Surgery good and now radiotherapy. All clear.
Really pleased to hear that.
BathtubGin · 11/10/2020 19:46

@MagicSummer

What the hell is ableism?
Wikepdia

Ableism is discrimination and social prejudice against people with disabilities or who are perceived to have disabilities. Ableism characterizes persons as defined by their disabilities and as inferior to the non-disabled.

Hobnobswantshernameback · 11/10/2020 19:46

Ahh
Always the same ones
Colour me shocked

MillieVanilla · 11/10/2020 19:49

@EchoCardioGran

I didn't see a " roundly condemnation" of the minstrel thread. Simon's correct about the invented names remark, and Simon has been on these boards posting for a long time and someone whom I respect very much on here, although we've never chatted. Flowers

Another example. And I'm picking up on one of the least offensive posts. Inciting each other to come on MN and incite bother.

Archewell Well-known member Sep 16, 2020 #8,895
So....... I seem to remember that @Moogle* had a desire to be banned from MN, a short while ago, yet she still retains her membership.

Moogle, how do you fancy going over to the new section on MN and announcing that you're a white woman who identifies as a black woman?

I see their pals are hiding the thread here now or still playing the denial game.
Oh apparently, I'm an American troll, obvs hidden out in my bunker here in sunny Lancashire intent on infiltrating MN to talk about jollof rice and ...erm..stuff. Grin

She was one of the ones who bullied my friend to tears for 3 days.
Quaagars · 11/10/2020 19:51

[quote SimonJT]@Quaagars I am BAME, I’m well aware why said person has asked me to post the screenshots, I won’t be taking the bait.[/quote]
good Smile Flowers

MillieVanilla · 11/10/2020 19:53

@Rhine

Seeing as we are naming names now, the racist poster I’m referring to was called ‘Boudicca’. Horrible, racist cow. Another called Elvira isn’t much better.
That was another one. And BillyBookcase Vile bullies
WolffromTheWest · 11/10/2020 19:55

[quote SimonJT]@Quaagars I am BAME, I’m well aware why said person has asked me to post the screenshots, I won’t be taking the bait.[/quote]
Really? You couldn't be more wrong. I confess I am quite surprised by that assumption as I could not have been more genuine in wanting to see them in context, but you'll believe what you want to I guess and I won't try and convince you otherwise.

Chicchicchicchiclana · 11/10/2020 19:57

@pigeonsfeather

Good thing you’d never post on a spin off site, hey chic Smile
I have posted on 4 or 5 MN spin off sites, although not the one that is the subject of this thread - as I'm sure you know pigeon Smile.
Quietlyloud · 11/10/2020 19:59

Well yes, but every one of those posters who stayed, knew it was there and stayed - tacitly approved of racism. And ableism. And discrimination. And lots of other isms.

What, like the ableism on here? Like all the other issues on here yet you haven’t left? People can use a site and stick to the areas they like and not leave just because of a few arseholes.

SimonJT · 11/10/2020 20:00

@WolffromTheWest Apologies, thats how it came across, I have also had a poster sending unpleasant messages about the screenshots, so I wrongly allowed that to cloud my judgement.

Testytulip · 11/10/2020 20:01

@GetOffYourHighHorse bingo! Your stalkers have arrived Grin

WolffromTheWest · 11/10/2020 20:02

[quote SimonJT]@WolffromTheWest Apologies, thats how it came across, I have also had a poster sending unpleasant messages about the screenshots, so I wrongly allowed that to cloud my judgement.[/quote]
I'm very sorry that's happening and with that in mind totally understand. There was zero ill intent behind my request so thanks for replying to me Smile

Quaagars · 11/10/2020 20:02

I confess I am quite surprised by that assumption as I could not have been more genuine in wanting to see them in context, but you'll believe what you want to I guess and I won't try and convince you otherwise

I've been around long enough on these type of threads, whether it be racism or other, to know that that never is usually the case.
Maybe you are genuine.....
It's usually "honest guv, I'm all ears", get the "proof" and either fall about laughing between each other or flat out deny.
Know exactly why people are like nope, not a chance, not falling for faux innocence.

Andylion · 11/10/2020 20:06

@DramaAlpaca

Good riddance. I found it an unpleasant, spiteful, racist place.

I hope they do destroy users' personal information. There's nowhere on the site that allows you to deregister, which I attempted to do when I realised it wasn't a site I wanted to be associated with. The email I sent to the administrators to deregister me and destroy my details was ignored.

I joined out of curiosity a couple of months ago, I am in a different time zone so by the time I read an M&H thread, I would find many deleted posts and lots of questioning of MNHQ's policy. I fell for the hints in posts about MC and joined. I didn't stay long because the Justine thread put me off. I contacted the admin and received a reply saying they would delete my account. This was in August.
GetOffYourHighHorse · 11/10/2020 20:08

'It's usually "honest guv, I'm all ears", get the "proof" and either fall about laughing between each other or flat out deny. Know exactly why people are like nope, not a chance, not falling for faux innocence'

Posters can post where they like, this is crazy. Have you seen any of the very dodgy shite on Reddit, incels etc? Do you go thundering in there to tell people off?!

EchoCardioGran · 11/10/2020 20:09

Simon, I would imagine that MNHQ already have screen shots. The same people were singling out a moderator on here, pictures, Linkedin profile, personal information, remarks about their appearance. Anyone could have tracked them down, and I think that is what the aim was, to dox and cause them trouble. Very nasty stuff.

Quaagars · 11/10/2020 20:10

Posters can post where they like, this is crazy. Have you seen any of the very dodgy shite on Reddit, incels etc?

I know they can post where they like.
I'm talking about what I've seen HERE though on MN.
People saying "we just want evidence" "genuinely curious" - never usually the case.
What has dodgy shite on Reddit and incels got to do with anything?
Wasn't even talking about that.
No desire whatsoever to see any of that shit ta.

Testytulip · 11/10/2020 20:10

@GetOffYourHighHorse

'It's usually "honest guv, I'm all ears", get the "proof" and either fall about laughing between each other or flat out deny. Know exactly why people are like nope, not a chance, not falling for faux innocence'

Posters can post where they like, this is crazy. Have you seen any of the very dodgy shite on Reddit, incels etc? Do you go thundering in there to tell people off?!

I suspect they thunder around on there trying to control everything there too.
Saucery · 11/10/2020 20:11

They tracked down a Mod? At the risk of sounding like I’m just copying...I didn’t see that!

BullshitVivienne · 11/10/2020 20:12

Helena - you were asked on Reddit whether you were enjoying the racist posts on MC and said you were ignoring them. That makes you complicit.

BullshitVivienne · 11/10/2020 20:14

@SimonJT I'm sorry you've had to share some of the racism you saw over there. It should be enough for people to say it happened and not have to provide receipts. I hope as someone who has experienced racism, it hasn't been triggering for you.

Hokeywokey · 11/10/2020 20:14

@EchoCardioGran

Simon, I would imagine that MNHQ already have screen shots. The same people were singling out a moderator on here, pictures, Linkedin profile, personal information, remarks about their appearance. Anyone could have tracked them down, and I think that is what the aim was, to dox and cause them trouble. Very nasty stuff.
I saw that and not one person on there said 'hang on a minute, thats doxxing'

They were all too busy laughing.

Roussette · 11/10/2020 20:15

Well I did.
As EchoCardioGran said, they posted everything about him, all personal details.
To go to those lengths meant there was a big problem over there. It wasn't deleted.

MN isn't perfect but any post revealing someone like that would've been zapped straightaway.

ConfusedcomMum · 11/10/2020 20:16

Good! There was a bunch of nasty racists on there. It was horrible.

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