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Do you remember the names of everyone you have slept with?

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LochJessMonster · 06/01/2020 11:59

.Randomly thinking about this last night and it occurred to me that I can’t remember the name of one of the men that I have had sex with.

I can picture him clearly but for the life of me can’t remember his name. It was a brief drunken holiday fling so no way of finding it out either.

It doesn’t really bother me, just surprised that I can’t recall his name.

Just wondered if it was normal?

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KipperTheFrog · 06/01/2020 13:20

All bar 1. There’s only 4 in total, and 1 was a holiday fling. The one I can’t remember is the holiday fling.

MustardScreams · 06/01/2020 13:21

@TheQueef that is excellent.

I do not. Especially the yuck guys from when I was a teen and had no self-esteem and just slept with people because I thought they’d like me Confused

Thankfully have much better standards (and sex!) now.

Someonesayroadtrip · 06/01/2020 13:24

Yes, but I've only ever been with my husband.

Sarahlou63 · 06/01/2020 13:25

Not a chance - some I didn't know their names the next day! Now 56 with some very happy, hazy memories Grin

Macandcheeseplease · 06/01/2020 13:28

God. I've slept with 10 to 15ish men I think, which I dont think is even that many, but as I can't remember exactly how many I definitely can't remember names or faces!

GidgetGirl · 06/01/2020 13:29

I would struggle to remember them enough to even count them all I think. The odd landmark encounter sticks out, but most were far from being memorable. Sex is definitely better now - it must have been good training at least..

UnexpectedItemInTheShaggingAre · 06/01/2020 13:31

Yes, but I have slept with 3 men.
1 an abusive psycho who I was in a “relationship” with for six years.
2 my childhood best friend who I met in a club a year after I broke up with aforementioned psycho
And 3 my husband.
So all played fairly big parts in my life

Chocolate1984 · 06/01/2020 13:33

One I can’t remember the name of at all. One I think was maybe Glen but I wouldn’t bet my life on it

Sparklingbrook · 06/01/2020 13:34

Yes

AndNoneForGretchenWieners · 06/01/2020 14:24

I could actually name the people DH slept with too and date them to within one or two years, he was very open about it. Actually that's an idea when I'm struggling to sleep, I could list our combined conquests in order...

Emma198 · 06/01/2020 14:29

Wouldn't recognise some of them in a one man line up

embolass · 06/01/2020 14:31

Yes 4 of them including DH. All v different - ahhh the memories Wink

11hairylegs · 06/01/2020 14:32

Nope! Not even going to try to remember.

CuckooCuckooClock · 06/01/2020 14:38

😂 emma198
Same here. Slightly ashamed if I’m honest but I know that’s how society wants me to feel so I try to fight it.

EntirelyAnonymised · 06/01/2020 14:42

No.

Shit with names and some of them weren’t much to write home about.

Greysparkles · 06/01/2020 14:47

Nope, I'm not even totally sure of the number 🤷‍♂️

Pipandmum · 06/01/2020 14:48

No

Dangerfloof · 06/01/2020 14:49

Have now been with same bloke for umm 12 years I think. Before that uh the red haired one, the big uh schlong one, the Netherlands guy, the very very good one and a whole lot more who's names and faces are lost in the mists of time and alcohol.

afrikat · 06/01/2020 14:50

Nope. There was one I didn't even know at the time 🙈

GinUnicorn · 06/01/2020 14:53

Nope I’m not even sure of the exact number although I have a rough idea.

aNonnyMouse1511 · 06/01/2020 14:56

Yes. But I’ve only had 4 partners!

Strawberryoranges · 06/01/2020 14:58

Only one person so can definitely remember Grin

Stereomum · 06/01/2020 15:00

Nope, not sure of number either.

Pinkbonbon · 06/01/2020 15:08

Jamie, danny, Joe (I think), tom, lee, Steven. Oh! There was that dude a few years back that had an odd name, that i remember but wont say as is outing. That's 7... jeez is that all...

thinks for ages ah! 2 more that I don't really count. Can't remember one of their names rn.

So yeah. Surnames though I wouldn't have a clue.

LochJessMonster · 06/01/2020 15:14

2 more that I don't really count. Ouch! That bad eh? Wink

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