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Do you remember the names of everyone you have slept with?

258 replies

LochJessMonster · 06/01/2020 11:59

.Randomly thinking about this last night and it occurred to me that I can’t remember the name of one of the men that I have had sex with.

I can picture him clearly but for the life of me can’t remember his name. It was a brief drunken holiday fling so no way of finding it out either.

It doesn’t really bother me, just surprised that I can’t recall his name.

Just wondered if it was normal?

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BentNeckLady · 06/01/2020 18:17

Hahaha. No.

Bluebutterfly90 · 06/01/2020 18:23

Yeah but that's only 2 people. My ex and DP.

I did forget my exes name at one point and so when Facebook was recommending him as a friend I sort of squinted and thought 'how do I know this person?' , then I remembered we were together for two years. Hmm

Icanflyhigh · 06/01/2020 18:28

Nope!

Lulu1919 · 06/01/2020 18:29

Yes...one person and I married him ...still married !!!

YourOpinionIsNoted · 06/01/2020 18:31

Ha - definitely not! Not entirely sure I know the actual number either, it's around about the early to mid thirties. Some names I've forgotten, some I never bothered to find out!

ApplePenPineapplePen · 06/01/2020 18:31

I am finding this a very comforting thread Grin

homemadecommunistrussia · 06/01/2020 18:48

I am hoping it's just first names too, but the only one I am struggling with was more of 'a roll around' situation anyway Blush

EnthusiasmIsDisturbed · 06/01/2020 18:54

No

Enjoyed myself Grin

I think number is around 20 I’m not sure 🤔

MrsDilligaf · 06/01/2020 18:54

I couldn't tell you the actual number - I would guess about 20?

I can name approx 5.

Grin
meow1989 · 06/01/2020 19:10

Yes because I'm married to him Grin in my defence I was 16 when we met, no regrets!

I could also name everyone I've kissedBlush

Northernsoullover · 06/01/2020 19:12

No! I have forgotten how many too. As a pp said I remember the good ones.

dayswithaY · 06/01/2020 19:14

Yes but weirdly they all have the same initial - and I definitely didn't plan that.

sunflowery · 06/01/2020 19:27

Yep!

DrKnickerbocker · 06/01/2020 19:41

I spent most of my late teens working in Ibiza, so, no Grin

But, I had a fantastic time and no regrets.

Strange, isn't it, that women feel as though they have to say they've no regrets if they admit to having fun with sex when young?
I'd bet that wouldn't even pop into a mans brain.

Insaneinthemembury · 06/01/2020 19:43

I can remember identifying features of them all so they have nicknames like 'law degree guy' and 'army guy' but actual names? No. I am rubbish with names though.

motortroll · 06/01/2020 19:44

I can't even remember how many people I've had sex with! It's not a huge number, it was just a long time ago lol

I could probably put my mind to it but I really don't care!

okiedokieme · 06/01/2020 19:48

Yes, a very short listHmm

okiedokieme · 06/01/2020 19:51

@meow1989 me too, not an extensive list. I'm only onto dp number 2 now, my 18 year old dd has had more relationships

user1493413286 · 06/01/2020 19:53

No and I couldn’t even say how many without writing it all down. No regrets now though

TheGinGenie · 06/01/2020 20:05

Yes but it's less than ten people and they've all been friends of mine (or partners)

BuggerOffAndGoodDayToYou · 06/01/2020 20:06

Just MrBuggerOff for me so very easy to remember!

Tinyhumansurvivalist · 06/01/2020 20:10

Yes, but it's a very small list

Fredy45 · 06/01/2020 20:16

Not a massive number but 40% of them were called Nick for some reason so not too hard to remember

adaline · 06/01/2020 20:17

Yes, but it's not a very long list!

happypotamus · 06/01/2020 20:19

Yes, but there aren't many of them.

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