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Do you remember the names of everyone you have slept with?

258 replies

LochJessMonster · 06/01/2020 11:59

.Randomly thinking about this last night and it occurred to me that I can’t remember the name of one of the men that I have had sex with.

I can picture him clearly but for the life of me can’t remember his name. It was a brief drunken holiday fling so no way of finding it out either.

It doesn’t really bother me, just surprised that I can’t recall his name.

Just wondered if it was normal?

OP posts:
Ibelieveinyesterday · 13/05/2020 19:36

Yeah but it's only a few. Some of the reminiscing has made me laugh so much!

TheVeryHungryTortoise · 13/05/2020 19:44

Nope, and I'm only 25. Rather embarrassing now I think about it.

wehaveafloater · 13/05/2020 19:55

Ha !! Not a chance !

holyguacamole1 · 13/05/2020 19:56

Well yes, because there's only 3 to remember and I'm mid 30's 🤣

mouldysprouts · 13/05/2020 20:00

Yes but it's only four so I'd expect to.

x2boys · 13/05/2020 20:14

Yes if I think about it not sure I would recognise some of them now tbh ,the last bloke I had a one night stand with I had sex with him within an hourBlush whilst it really shouldn't have worked out 15 years later ,he's upstairs with our two boys 😍

inmyshedsmoking2000 · 13/05/2020 20:22

I can't even remember how many, never mind what their names were...

superstressy · 13/05/2020 20:24

I'm 27 and been with just over 20. Can only remember 2 names including DP.

I didnt have a blast shagging strangers.

IWillNotNameTheTree · 13/05/2020 20:31

I’m 35 and can’t remember.

I too have had a very good time Blush

Awwlookatmybabyspider · 13/05/2020 20:37

If I sat and thought about it probably.

Original poster
LochJessMonster · 17/12/2021 19:13

I really wish I’d written the name when I updated on this because I’ve completely forgotten again! Poor guy Grin

OP posts:
Roundeartheratchriatmas · 17/12/2021 19:17

At least one I’m not sure if I knew to start with.

I’m not sure how many either. I spent a lot of my student days out partying and drinking.

Jellykat · 17/12/2021 19:21

Yes, apart from one of the ONS's .. which isnt bad as its well over 40

PilatesPeach · 17/12/2021 20:17

nope, nor do I want to try to.

FindingMeno · 17/12/2021 20:19

Er, no, and there weren't exactly loads.
Just not very memorable I guess.

TwistedOlivers · 17/12/2021 20:19

Steve, Phil, Phil, Gary, Martin, Andy, Andy

Allaboutyou222 · 17/12/2021 20:23

Only one. So easily remembered.

CouncilHousedAndViolentBaby · 17/12/2021 20:26

Ive got a list in my notes app🤣🤣

InternetAnonymityCanHelp · 17/12/2021 20:59

One, DH. Is that unusual?

ArblemarzipanTFruitcake · 17/12/2021 21:01

Yes, but the list is extremely short so it isn't difficult.

I've never been very attractive so not many people wanted to shag me even when I was younger. Hey-ho.

MadMadMadamMim · 17/12/2021 21:03

Nope. Not even close. Couldn't give you an accurate figure, either. I'm mid 50s.

Can't now remember half their names or faces. Lots of one night stands.

RagzReturnedUnwrapped · 17/12/2021 21:15

I used to be able to recite them all in order. I think it was about 13 ish and then DH and I got together when I was 20, 16 years ago and I've forgotten some.

RagzReturnedUnwrapped · 17/12/2021 21:16

@TwistedOlivers

Steve, Phil, Phil, Gary, Martin, Andy, Andy
I feel I'm either missing a joke (is this a list of Blue Peter presenters or something?!) or I really want to know why Phil and Andy got two shags and the others only once! Wink
TwistedOlivers · 17/12/2021 21:31

@RagzReturnedUnwrapped there were 2 Andys and 2 Phils 🤣🤣

None of them BP presenters tho....

RamonaFlowers1 · 17/12/2021 21:40

Yep, but there have only been five. Possibly six, I'm not sure whether to count one of them as things didn't really work due to tiredness/alcohol.....