I am a Black male stripper and naked cleaner/butler in London working almost exclusively for white women. AMA

[OliverMartins]

As the title says. Happy to answer any questions you might have.

Watching, chatting, having fun, it depends on who and how may women are there

Is it mostly parties or are you hired for, say, one woman on a Saturday afternoon?

Thanks op for posting this. I'm finding the people's responses (it may be faux ignorance) as to why a white woman may want to see a black man in those circumstances eye opening. Hope youre keeping yourself safe

How did you find your way on to Mumsnet?

Mostly 35-55, but I have had clients of all ages. No husbands/partners are ever involved.

Both. It really is a mixture of individuals, small groups and larger parties.

He knows full well re the race fetishisation thing. It's right there in the title and how he's avoided every other question and pointed back to the race differences between him & his client group every time.

I could think of worse ways of getting my house cleaned tbh.

Roughly how much would that cost me, umm I mean my friend, how much would that cost my friend if she was interested... 😂

Thank you.

I have answered every question I have seen apart from the sarcastic ones about cleaning.

From £200

I can understand people’s anxiety about the fetishisation aspect.

At the same time I can imagine revelling in being an attractive black bloke, as I would in being a beautiful blonde. Sadly I’m a dumpy ginger which comes with its own disadvantages.

Agree. He made it the title as its shocking.

How can you feel comfortable getting paid to fetishise racism?

Yes exactly. And naked butlers have been a thing for quite a while.

I’m glad it works for you OP, and hope you really can set all the boundaries you want. I hope you are saving and have options lined up for when you want to move on. (Sorry to sound like your mum.)

Both. It really is a mixture of individuals, small groups and larger parties.

Do you ever feel uncomfortable? Have your clients ever said/done anything inappropriate?

Has a women ever tried it on or tried to touch you inappropriately? What did you do?

“I have answered every question I have seen apart from the sarcastic ones about cleaning.”

I’m not sure they’re sarcastic! Removing red wine is a real PITA 😄

Genuinely are you shocked by this?

You must know it exists, surely.

My clients are far less racist than many self-satisfied moralising white liberals.

Who are the self satisfied moralising white liberals?

I'm sure it exists. People fetishise everything.

But I'm shocked that a black man would willingly partake in it for money rather than be appalled.

Do you consider yourself to be a sex worker?

I have never felt threatened or violated.

Of course he is a sex worker. He's getting his kit off and the women are perving over him.

Do you acknowledge that you are reinforcing negative racist stereotypes by doing the job you do? Do you think that profiting from the fetishisation of black has a wider bearing on racism and negatively impacts black masculinity at large?