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I'm in a polyamorous relationship (MFM) AMA

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BubblestarUK · 17/02/2023 22:26

Just that really, I'm in a polyamorous relationship with two men, when I meet people in real life they always want to ask me questions so I thought I'd cast the net a bit wider and open the floor on the web :)

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JarvisCockersRightEyebrow · 17/02/2023 23:44

Who’s got the biggest 🍆?

ElfHasBeenSilly · 17/02/2023 23:45

who is the youngest?

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BubblestarUK · 17/02/2023 23:45

What do I get from the three rather than just the two?

One's romantic, one isn't, one like travelling, one doesn't, one likes cooking, one is good at DIY, one can service a car, one can do emotional connection, one has empathy, one has a ridiculous amount of upper body strength and can carry furniture. They both bring many pluses, sure they both have stuff they can't do or are less good at but then so does everyone.

Combined the pair of them make the perfect man.

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ElfHasBeenSilly · 17/02/2023 23:46

Are you lying there between them now?

Lentilweaver · 17/02/2023 23:47

I'd go for the romantic empathetic travelling cook, and get a handyman in for the lifting furniture.:) Seems simpler. Unless I have got that wrong and the heavy lifter is also the cook.

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BubblestarUK · 17/02/2023 23:48

It's not a case of being allowed a boyfriend, this is just kind of where we've ended up, but say for instance the third wasn't here, it was just the two of us and he wanted to bring a partner in. We'd have to have a good discussion as to why, and the benefits, how it would work etc,

I've no idea until it happens really, it might work, it might not, but at the moment we are happy as exclusive as we are.

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QueenCamilla · 17/02/2023 23:48

Are you gamers, Dungeons & Dragons?

ElfHasBeenSilly · 17/02/2023 23:49

Was this driven by you? I get the sense it was. I feel for your husband I think.

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BubblestarUK · 17/02/2023 23:50

No both are pretty vanilla, so to speak. sorry to burst bubbles,

No I'm not with them right now, I'm at work 😁

Couldn't possibly answer size questions 🫣

And I'm the youngest.

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BubblestarUK · 17/02/2023 23:52

Dungeons and dragons? No, I think the most we've played video games is during lockdown, and that was mainly to kill boredom. Games we play tend to be monopoly and uno, all together as a family.

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Goodread1 · 17/02/2023 23:52

How do you've ensure both partners get roughly equal attention in general mundanes of life ect?

Is one partner have a bit/somewhat annoying etc habits than the other?

Is one partner bit /somewhat or a lot more gassy (farting wise than other?

Has one of them jokingly pretended to give you a Dutch oven or Accidentally done this?

what do you find at first physically acctractive at either partners?
Which partner is physically more acctractive and why?

Which one is more or a bit or somewhat more endowed?

Have you visited Adult sex shop or ordered ones online Adult pleasure toys?
Have you been to Ann summers party with friends ?

ElfHasBeenSilly · 17/02/2023 23:53

What do the three of you do for work?

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BubblestarUK · 17/02/2023 23:53

It was suggested by me, husband considered and said it sounded like it could work, so we gave it a go. If he had said no I'd have respected his wishes, but still dreamt that romance and fancy stuff might still magically appear

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FlissyPaps · 17/02/2023 23:54

Couldn't possibly answer size questions 🫣

That means the one who isn’t the husband has the biggest dick then? 😂

Hawkins003 · 17/02/2023 23:54

BubblestarUK · 17/02/2023 23:52

Dungeons and dragons? No, I think the most we've played video games is during lockdown, and that was mainly to kill boredom. Games we play tend to be monopoly and uno, all together as a family.

Magic the gathering card game is also a good one for multiple players

Adrelaxzz · 17/02/2023 23:56

Goldandpurplezebra · 17/02/2023 23:20

No ND does not mean mental health issues. It means Neurodivergent: autistic, ADHD, dyslexic, dyspraxic etc.

I think some people are wired not to be jealous which your husband seems to not be.

It also includes bipolar, schizophrenia etc

Lochjeda · 17/02/2023 23:56

So will the men share a bed tonight when you are on a night shift

Idratherbepaddleboarding · 17/02/2023 23:56

one man is more than enough for me I couldn’t be bothered with two 😂 but my question is, would your husband describe himself as being in a thruple? Would he say he has a wife and a boyfriend?

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Goodread1 · 17/02/2023 23:56

Hi Op

Do you or either partner look read erotic fiction or non fiction books or watch steamy Adult erotic films then?

ElfHasBeenSilly · 17/02/2023 23:57

BubblestarUK · 17/02/2023 23:53

It was suggested by me, husband considered and said it sounded like it could work, so we gave it a go. If he had said no I'd have respected his wishes, but still dreamt that romance and fancy stuff might still magically appear

Fancy stuff? You’ve lost me. Sorry if I’m being thick!

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BubblestarUK · 17/02/2023 23:57

How do you've ensure both partners get roughly equal attention in general mundanes of life ect?

Live life day by day, work, housework, dinners, chats over wine, washing up, baths. The usual. If one fancies doing something then we organise it and go,

Is one partner have a bit/somewhat annoying etc habits than the other?

One always misses a tiny patch when shaving, one leaves socks lying around.

Is one partner bit /somewhat or a lot more gassy (farting wise than other?

Nope, both are equally human and gassy as and when.

Has one of them jokingly pretended to give you a Dutch oven or Accidentally done this?

Probably,

what do you find at first physically acctractive at either partners?

Their eyes and smiles. And both are good people x

Which partner is physically more acctractive and why?

I see them as both equal, physical attributes don't really count for much, it's the person themselves that I like

Which one is more or a bit or somewhat more endowed?

I couldn't possibly say.

Have you visited Adult sex shop or ordered ones online Adult pleasure toys?
Have you been to Ann summers party with friends ?

Haven't most adults?

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Bbq1 · 17/02/2023 23:58

BubblestarUK · 17/02/2023 23:45

What do I get from the three rather than just the two?

One's romantic, one isn't, one like travelling, one doesn't, one likes cooking, one is good at DIY, one can service a car, one can do emotional connection, one has empathy, one has a ridiculous amount of upper body strength and can carry furniture. They both bring many pluses, sure they both have stuff they can't do or are less good at but then so does everyone.

Combined the pair of them make the perfect man.

Surely you're doing it for the sex though? If you wanted someone mainly to carry furniture, fix the car and do DIY there are tradespeople you can hire for those jobs - and you pay them with cash not sex.

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BubblestarUK · 18/02/2023 00:00

"one man is more than enough for me I couldn’t be bothered with two 😂 but my question is, would your husband describe himself as being in a thruple? Would he say he has a wife and a boyfriend?"

If asked I wouldn't know, but I will ask him that tomorrow, it's not normally something you just randomly drop into conversation in passing.

Can't say our jobs, it's outing as it's a pretty niche area. Sorry

One of them is at the flat this eve

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BubblestarUK · 18/02/2023 00:01

Do you or either partner look read erotic fiction or non fiction books or watch steamy Adult erotic films then?

Don't most adults?

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