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How dim is Stella Creasey?

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Sausagenbacon · 07/09/2026 14:56

Today she tweeted about how great the Milad ad Nabi march was in Walthamstow.
Of course, it's segregated and the women get to march afterwards or celebrate in halls.
According to Stella, the Garrick Club is problematic because it only allows men to join. But this is fine.
I know that she is pandering to her constituency, but she really seems to have no awareness.

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EdithStourton · 08/09/2026 11:31

It's deeply inconsistent to, on the one hand, be happy to support a march where men are segregated from women (who are covered head to toe), and from a religion where men have vastly more power than women and, on the other hand, to campaign against the Garrick Club for being all male. Hypocritical, some might say. All to do with winning votes. Whatever.

If politicians do this sort of thing, it lends weight to claims of 'one rule for them and another for us' and 'two-tier policing'.

Then the tabloid press gets hold of it and the pissed-off groups of voters who are already fairly sure that two-tier everything is already upon them are pushed even further towards Reform.

It's a slow-handclap moment. Stella might be savvy on Twix, but the possible long-term consequences seem to sail right over her head.

(And, no, before anyone starts on me, I can't stand Nigel Farage and I won't be voting Reform. I'm just describing a process I can see happening around me.)

Baselpls · 08/09/2026 11:33

This board has to be the most depressing on Mumsnet. Every thread…. Bitching, arguing, denigrating.

It is embarrassing

GreyskySexRealistsky · 08/09/2026 11:47

Baselpls · 08/09/2026 11:33

This board has to be the most depressing on Mumsnet. Every thread…. Bitching, arguing, denigrating.

It is embarrassing

And here YOU are, bitching and denigrating.

Embarrassing.

GargoylesofBeelzebub · 08/09/2026 11:48

Baselpls · 08/09/2026 11:33

This board has to be the most depressing on Mumsnet. Every thread…. Bitching, arguing, denigrating.

It is embarrassing

You can hide it you know.

iwishitwouldstartraining · 08/09/2026 11:53

Baselpls · 08/09/2026 11:33

This board has to be the most depressing on Mumsnet. Every thread…. Bitching, arguing, denigrating.

It is embarrassing

1). Have you not seen the Meghan and Harry threads?

2). I would argue that women on this board are most well known for winning court cases that protect women's rights.

But please do explain how women who depend on single sex provision for religious reasons to e.g. go swimming are helped by Stella Creasey's stance on the EHRC guidelines?

GreyskySexRealistsky · 08/09/2026 11:56

Baselpls · 08/09/2026 11:33

This board has to be the most depressing on Mumsnet. Every thread…. Bitching, arguing, denigrating.

It is embarrassing

Welcome to mumsnet. The first rule of mumsnet: you are free to scroll on past the boards you don't like. Fancy that!

BunfightBetty · 08/09/2026 12:30

Baselpls · 08/09/2026 11:33

This board has to be the most depressing on Mumsnet. Every thread…. Bitching, arguing, denigrating.

It is embarrassing

Thank you for your feedback.

We'll give it the consideration it deserves.

BackToLurk · 08/09/2026 12:32

BunfightBetty · 08/09/2026 12:30

Thank you for your feedback.

We'll give it the consideration it deserves.

Twitadviser

BunfightBetty · 08/09/2026 12:35

iwishitwouldstartraining · 08/09/2026 07:47

I think religious segregation and modesty rules generally have problematic roots, but I believe in a pluralistic society that has a high level of tolerance for different beliefs and I also don’t want women from these communities to be segregated further because there is no reasonable single sex provision.

I am therefore interested to know why Creasy wants service providers to ignore the rules that enable this provision.

It doesn’t make sense to me.

Well, quite.

This isn't a well-thought-through set of considered positions on her part, that together might make a coherent overall approach.

It's just a pick-n-mix of earnestly right-on omnicause positions, as far as I can see. And the fact that some of the positions don't hang together seems to either have eluded her thus far, or been ignored - she doesn't seem to mind the inherent contradictions and hypocrisy in her approach.

alcovecupboards · 08/09/2026 13:15

None of that has any relevance to the points raised here. I'm not sure you can argue that women were denied access to a public place when there was a prominent woman - of the old fashioned female kind - partaking in it too.

DialSquare · 08/09/2026 13:35

Baselpls · 08/09/2026 11:33

This board has to be the most depressing on Mumsnet. Every thread…. Bitching, arguing, denigrating.

It is embarrassing

No it’s not.

Baselpls · 08/09/2026 13:41

DialSquare · 08/09/2026 13:35

No it’s not.

I disagree

and that’s fine

Baselpls · 08/09/2026 13:42

BunfightBetty · 08/09/2026 12:30

Thank you for your feedback.

We'll give it the consideration it deserves.

And this post unintentionally so perfectly encapsulates my point.

Anyway I’ll leave you to it. Bitching and arguing and pettiness. This board is just embarrassing

Baselpls · 08/09/2026 13:44

GargoylesofBeelzebub · 08/09/2026 11:48

You can hide it you know.

Good shout

GargoylesofBeelzebub · 08/09/2026 13:45

Baselpls · 08/09/2026 13:42

And this post unintentionally so perfectly encapsulates my point.

Anyway I’ll leave you to it. Bitching and arguing and pettiness. This board is just embarrassing

See ya. Wouldn’t want to be ya! 👋

BackToLurk · 08/09/2026 13:52

Baselpls · 08/09/2026 13:42

And this post unintentionally so perfectly encapsulates my point.

Anyway I’ll leave you to it. Bitching and arguing and pettiness. This board is just embarrassing

Which bit do you find particularly embarrassing? The suggestion that SC has what can, at best be described as, an inconsistent attitude toward separation of the sexes? Or just use of the word dim?

BunfightBetty · 08/09/2026 13:59

Baselpls · 08/09/2026 13:42

And this post unintentionally so perfectly encapsulates my point.

Anyway I’ll leave you to it. Bitching and arguing and pettiness. This board is just embarrassing

I'm afraid I just couldn't resist. You see, on this board we get so many ploppers who just drive by to sanctimoniously give us silly mummies a good scolding for not being 'kind' suicidally empathetic mugs , so when I see a post like yours telling us off, it makes me want to have a little bit of fun with the po-facery.

Hotmess101 · 08/09/2026 14:03

alcovecupboards · 07/09/2026 16:48

They can leave the religion...

Sorry do you know any Muslim women? I have had many conversations with my female Muslim colleagues about this exact question and they all say they would never leave Islam as they would be excommunicated by their entire family and community. These are educated, working, relatively westernised Muslim women. Christ knows what it would be like being from a more strictly observant background. And even these relatively westernised women have all had arranged marriages and enjoy fewer rights within their households than even their male children. I think a lot of people would be shocked if they knew the reality of the life of an average Muslim woman living in Britain.

Hotmess101 · 08/09/2026 14:04

Not to mention all conservative religion is inherently misogynistic and should have no place in political decision or sensible policy making in 21st century UK.

FlirtsWithRhinos · 08/09/2026 14:20

BunfightBetty · 08/09/2026 13:59

I'm afraid I just couldn't resist. You see, on this board we get so many ploppers who just drive by to sanctimoniously give us silly mummies a good scolding for not being 'kind' suicidally empathetic mugs , so when I see a post like yours telling us off, it makes me want to have a little bit of fun with the po-facery.

Edited

Oh yes. It's not that we are wrong about women mattering in ways that are entirely separate to unisex feelings of gender, it's that we say it so meanly that all right thinking people must be driven to support sexist men despite themselves simply to get away from us. Apparently.

ZoeCM · 08/09/2026 14:43

The first time I heard of Stella Creasy was when she wrote an article saying that mothers should be able to put a man on her baby's birth certificate without him being present, even if they aren't married. Of course, this raises the question of how you stop any woman from registering any man as her baby's father - so Creasy said that it should be at the registrar's discretion. And if you think about this for more than a second, you'd realise that this would almost certainly lead to well-dressed, nicely-spoken women being taken at their word, while women with tattoos or non-posh accents would be told the father needed to be present. In other words, I question how adept Creasy is at forming public policy.

BunfightBetty · 08/09/2026 14:59

FlirtsWithRhinos · 08/09/2026 14:20

Oh yes. It's not that we are wrong about women mattering in ways that are entirely separate to unisex feelings of gender, it's that we say it so meanly that all right thinking people must be driven to support sexist men despite themselves simply to get away from us. Apparently.

Ah yes, that old chestnut. It always amazes me how people post that without any sort of self-consciousness about just how deeply childish such a response shows them to be.

Another2Cats · 08/09/2026 18:16

TheAutumnCrow · 07/09/2026 15:01

Intel Lady on X does a great piss-take.

I follow her on X but I often don't seem to see any of her tweets. Is she perhaps having her account limited in some way?

Daygloboo · 09/09/2026 09:20

LoveRules · 07/09/2026 15:02

Not at all dim in my opinion. I think she is an incredible role model for young women and am impressed with how she handled the horrific rape and death threats. She constantly advocates for her E17 community in parliament.

Ditto. Brilliant woman. Intelligent and brave. She was apparently bullied at Cambridge. Presumably by pathetic people who couldnt handle the fact that a young very good looking woman could have intelligence and forthright opinions. Pathetic.

iwishitwouldstartraining · 09/09/2026 09:27

Daygloboo · 09/09/2026 09:20

Ditto. Brilliant woman. Intelligent and brave. She was apparently bullied at Cambridge. Presumably by pathetic people who couldnt handle the fact that a young very good looking woman could have intelligence and forthright opinions. Pathetic.

Great! Somebody who can finally explain her stance!

Why does Stella Creasy respect these women's right to congregate separately from men, but also not respect women's right to congregate separately from men?

Also, how can the Equality Act protect the rights of women if it cannot clearly define sex?

And finally, does she not realise that the EHRC interprets the law but does not make the law, and that if she wants the law changed she will need to put forward legislation? Where is her proposed legislation? The law was made clear for most trans people back in 2022. What has she been doing in that time?

I await your response with interest!