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How dim is Stella Creasey?

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Sausagenbacon · 07/09/2026 14:56

Today she tweeted about how great the Milad ad Nabi march was in Walthamstow.
Of course, it's segregated and the women get to march afterwards or celebrate in halls.
According to Stella, the Garrick Club is problematic because it only allows men to join. But this is fine.
I know that she is pandering to her constituency, but she really seems to have no awareness.

OP posts:
UnpopularOpinionsIWouldUsuallyKeepToMyself · 07/09/2026 17:17

alcovecupboards · 07/09/2026 16:51

Are you under the impression the billion or so Muslim women in the world don't believe what they actually believe? And that they are only pretending because they are controlled by men? You only have to look on here for the surprising number of women who are insistent that we're all vulnerable fragile flowers who can't possibly compete with men in any possible circumstances. It's unhinged!

No. I do now recognise you though.

Answer the question.
Have those Muslim women in question, voluntarily segregated themselves? And if so, should they decide to no longer segregate themselves, would they be able to join the male event?

GargoylesofBeelzebub · 07/09/2026 17:19

alcovecupboards · 07/09/2026 17:07

You're mixing up religion with culture.

women covering their heads is a religious requirement that men do not have to comply with.

BackToLurk · 07/09/2026 17:21

GargoylesofBeelzebub · 07/09/2026 16:46

But should we be celebrating it like Stella is?

She’s highlighting a community event. Knowing how she operates, she’s no doubt highlighting in the way she has because she knows what response she’ll get. Very Stella.

Gasp0deTheW0nderD0g · 07/09/2026 17:39

Arran2024 · 07/09/2026 16:23

The burka or face coverings are banned in countries including France, Belgium, Austria, Denmark, Switzerland and heavily restricted in others. The idea that normalising these coverings in this country is ok is absolutely worthy of debate.

I agree. I think we can also all see that any MP brave enough to come out and say this in certain constituencies would have no chance of getting elected. This is no doubt very much in SC's mind.

MyThreeWords · 07/09/2026 17:43

The Garrick Club is a special case because, in effect, it is an establishment networking hub for a range of professional types and the exclusion of women risked marginalising them in a range of ways. If it weren't for that I wouldn't mind it's single-sex status. I think that a wide range of voluntary associations need to be able to organise on a single-sex basis. Men need spaces away from women and women certainly need spaces away from men.

I know nothing about the details or impacts of sex segregation in the particular case of the march mentioned in the OP, so I'm not going to comment on that in particular. But in principle, I think you can object to some sex segregated contexts while tolerating or welcoming others.

Also, I think that people objecting to the sex segregated nature of religious events about which they know very little are on a par with people who suddenly discover an interest in animal welfare when they realise it can be a way to problematise Islam (even though most Muslims don't require non-stunned meat and even though there are very many appalling practices in the transport and slaughter of animals that are unrelated to faith and which are conveniently ignored)

soupycustard · 07/09/2026 17:46

alcovecupboards · 07/09/2026 16:51

Are you under the impression the billion or so Muslim women in the world don't believe what they actually believe? And that they are only pretending because they are controlled by men? You only have to look on here for the surprising number of women who are insistent that we're all vulnerable fragile flowers who can't possibly compete with men in any possible circumstances. It's unhinged!

It is incorrect to couch the argument around women all being 'fragile vulnerable flowers' who 'can't compete with men at anything'.
It is simply a biological fact that, at population level, males are bigger, stronger, and faster than females at population level. Males are also more violent and more criminal, at population level. This is not some kind of moral criticism of women (ie it does not make them 'flowers'). It is simply a product of ecology. In the same way as saying 'males can't give birth' or 'males tend to die younger' doesn't mean that men are somehow pathetic or morally wanting.
Added to patriarchy, these ecological differences between the sexes mean that sometimes, sex-based rights are needed to allow women to take an equal part in society.

alcovecupboards · 07/09/2026 18:04

soupycustard · 07/09/2026 17:46

It is incorrect to couch the argument around women all being 'fragile vulnerable flowers' who 'can't compete with men at anything'.
It is simply a biological fact that, at population level, males are bigger, stronger, and faster than females at population level. Males are also more violent and more criminal, at population level. This is not some kind of moral criticism of women (ie it does not make them 'flowers'). It is simply a product of ecology. In the same way as saying 'males can't give birth' or 'males tend to die younger' doesn't mean that men are somehow pathetic or morally wanting.
Added to patriarchy, these ecological differences between the sexes mean that sometimes, sex-based rights are needed to allow women to take an equal part in society.

See chess-related threads. It is batshit.

alcovecupboards · 07/09/2026 18:07

GargoylesofBeelzebub · 07/09/2026 17:19

women covering their heads is a religious requirement that men do not have to comply with.

Islam does not require women to cover their heads. Certain Islamic cultures do. Certain Jewish cultures do. Certain Christian cultures do.

alcovecupboards · 07/09/2026 18:10

UnpopularOpinionsIWouldUsuallyKeepToMyself · 07/09/2026 17:17

No. I do now recognise you though.

Answer the question.
Have those Muslim women in question, voluntarily segregated themselves? And if so, should they decide to no longer segregate themselves, would they be able to join the male event?

Sure, of course you do. The women in question have voluntarily segregated themselves - that much is clear. If they don't wish to partake in that belief system anymore then I'm not sure why they would take part? Let's look at it another way - if a transwoman decides to join an all-female event - would they be able to? Again - single sex spaces are a right for BOTH sexes.

BackToLurk · 07/09/2026 18:11

alcovecupboards · 07/09/2026 18:04

See chess-related threads. It is batshit.

Handy article outlining the barriers women face in relation to competitive chess. Even has a quote from everyone's favourite developmental biologist. Always happy to help someone who doesn't understand the arguments.

https://www.theguardian.com/sport/2021/nov/29/womens-chess-sexism-misogyny

‘It is not biology’: Women’s chess hindered by low numbers and sexism | Sean Ingle

The governing body is pushing to make chess more welcoming for women – but is change happening fast enough?

https://www.theguardian.com/sport/2021/nov/29/womens-chess-sexism-misogyny

iwishitwouldstartraining · 07/09/2026 18:11

alcovecupboards · 07/09/2026 18:07

Islam does not require women to cover their heads. Certain Islamic cultures do. Certain Jewish cultures do. Certain Christian cultures do.

I’m pretty sure that all these ‘cultures’ would argue that they are following the requirements of their religion.

In the case of this event, if segregation isn’t for religious purposes they might have difficulty justifying it.

Mypeniscalledstella · 07/09/2026 18:14

alcovecupboards · 07/09/2026 16:48

They can leave the religion...

Oh my!

GargoylesofBeelzebub · 07/09/2026 18:17

alcovecupboards · 07/09/2026 18:07

Islam does not require women to cover their heads. Certain Islamic cultures do. Certain Jewish cultures do. Certain Christian cultures do.

The Quran specifies different modesty requirements for men and women. You know that. You really can’t be trying to claim it’s nothing to do with Islam?

iwishitwouldstartraining · 07/09/2026 18:18

BackToLurk · 07/09/2026 18:11

Handy article outlining the barriers women face in relation to competitive chess. Even has a quote from everyone's favourite developmental biologist. Always happy to help someone who doesn't understand the arguments.

https://www.theguardian.com/sport/2021/nov/29/womens-chess-sexism-misogyny

Debatable - whether positive action is necessary in specific circumstances.

Bat shit - positive action for a group that nobody can define.

iwishitwouldstartraining · 07/09/2026 18:22

alcovecupboards · 07/09/2026 18:10

Sure, of course you do. The women in question have voluntarily segregated themselves - that much is clear. If they don't wish to partake in that belief system anymore then I'm not sure why they would take part? Let's look at it another way - if a transwoman decides to join an all-female event - would they be able to? Again - single sex spaces are a right for BOTH sexes.

If they don't wish to partake in that belief system anymore then I'm not sure why they would take part?

I'm. not suggesting that these particular women don't want to take part, but surely you can't be that naive about religion.

if a transwoman decides to join an all-female event - would they be able to? Again - single sex spaces are a right for BOTH sexes.

I think you need to read the posts explaining when sex segregation is legal. The default position is that it isn't.

ForestHog · 07/09/2026 18:22

LoveRules · 07/09/2026 16:17

Thank you @alcovecupboardsyou have articulated some thoughts I had about this post and it being directed at one individual. It feels like targeted online abuse and inciting hatred which is far from ideal, sophisticated or mature.

But Stella Creasy has used her social media to do this to others as well, several times over...

saraclara · 07/09/2026 18:26

I taught in a school where 60% of children were Muslim. As were most of my teaching assistants. They were strong women and they would absolutely insist if asked (this did come up in conversation occasionally over the twenty years I worked there) that it was their choice to abide by their religion. Most wore hijab, again they said, by choice. Two younger women didn't. One wore jeans and tops at work but changed into more traditional clothing at home. The other was probably the most glamorous and looks obsessed TA I ever had. She followed much of her religion, but not the dress.

Who am I, or any of you, to tell these women how to dress and to insist on sharing the men's space? It's incredibly arrogant of any non-muslim to think that they should, or that Stella Creasy should deny them their MP's presence at one of their festivals.

hairbearbunches · 07/09/2026 18:33

Stella Creasy is one of the reasons long time Labour voters are looking elsewhere. I cannot abide the woman.

She demonstrates suicidal empathy.

All.The.Time.

Arran2024 · 07/09/2026 18:39

alcovecupboards · 07/09/2026 18:04

See chess-related threads. It is batshit.

That is a good example of whatabouttery.

alcovecupboards · 07/09/2026 18:44

iwishitwouldstartraining · 07/09/2026 18:22

If they don't wish to partake in that belief system anymore then I'm not sure why they would take part?

I'm. not suggesting that these particular women don't want to take part, but surely you can't be that naive about religion.

if a transwoman decides to join an all-female event - would they be able to? Again - single sex spaces are a right for BOTH sexes.

I think you need to read the posts explaining when sex segregation is legal. The default position is that it isn't.

Oh no it's very clear that you draw a distinction between the right to single sex spaces and what you call 'sex segregation' and why.

alcovecupboards · 07/09/2026 18:47

Arran2024 · 07/09/2026 18:39

That is a good example of whatabouttery.

It's a good example of giving an example.

wherearemypeople · 07/09/2026 18:47

LoveRules · 07/09/2026 16:17

Thank you @alcovecupboardsyou have articulated some thoughts I had about this post and it being directed at one individual. It feels like targeted online abuse and inciting hatred which is far from ideal, sophisticated or mature.

I think people get very confused between women needing single sex spaces for privacy when changing and for fair competition and men insisting on men only parades and clubs where they show their power.

Personally I am pro single sex spaces where actually needed, but anti the idea that women can be at the back of events or hidden away doing activities in private which should normally just be mixed sex.

That said, it's perfectly fine to have men or women only groups generally.
Personally I am pro

GargoylesofBeelzebub · 07/09/2026 18:47

alcovecupboards · 07/09/2026 18:44

Oh no it's very clear that you draw a distinction between the right to single sex spaces and what you call 'sex segregation' and why.

You clearly don’t get the distinction between the right to single sex spaces and it being imposed.

BackToLurk · 07/09/2026 18:47

alcovecupboards · 07/09/2026 18:47

It's a good example of giving an example.

Of what?

UnpopularOpinionsIWouldUsuallyKeepToMyself · 07/09/2026 19:01

alcovecupboards · 07/09/2026 18:44

Oh no it's very clear that you draw a distinction between the right to single sex spaces and what you call 'sex segregation' and why.

So, you're claiming the Muslim women in question have chosen to segregate themselves. Okaaay. Can you tell us the reason they have chosen to do that?