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Feminism: Sex and gender discussions

Polycule falls apart

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RoyalCorgi · 31/07/2026 08:54

I expect people remember that Heather Herbert (charged in relation to social media comments he made after Ann Widdecombe's death) is in a polycule with Sophie Molly (aka Sparkles, aka Euan Weddell) and someone called Poppybear.

Molly, I believe, is a witness for Jolyon Maugham in Sarah Phillimore's libel case against Maugham.

Poppybear has been posting some very indiscreet posts on BlueSky about both Molly and Herbert, and it looks, tragically, as if the polycule has fallen apart.

According to Poppybear, Herbert's comments about Widdecombe "painted a bullseye on all of us", and led to the police coming in and "invading" all their devices (whatever that means).

Also according to Poppybear, living with Sophie Molly is "like being permanently slapped around the face by pathological laziness unless it's something that grooms her ego."

Oh dear.

https://x.com/DogLoverOfPI/status/2082944747862188490

In a separate development, apparently Herbert has had his toxic kidney removed by the NHS so the money donated to the fundraiser is going to be used for something else:

https://x.com/WillyWoofter/status/2082494111555190875

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CompleteGinasaur · 31/07/2026 14:20

AnitaCam · 31/07/2026 14:17

Four unhappy chaps couldn’t house share successfully? Plus, they dress funny.

anyway, yeah.

It's The Young Ones without jokes. Oh wait..

UtopiaPlanitia · 31/07/2026 14:28

RedToothBrush · 31/07/2026 12:22

This, the Ann Widdecome comments arrest, AI pictures of Molly with guns and the very public (let's pretend it's not) GLP case mean there is a good claim on there being a public interest into living arrangements and what others in their household are saying.

Unfortunately the individuals here have sought attention by their actions and then have tantrums when their actions bring scrutiny and god forbid any level of criticism.

The levels of drama here say a lot.

Don't forget Poppybear's livestream comments that if [society] doesn't send love to transwomen, expect bullets. Or words to that effect.

UtopiaPlanitia · 31/07/2026 14:37

Raquelos · 31/07/2026 14:14

For some reason, just clicking on the links I pasted doesn't work, but if you copy and paste them into your browser, it does

I can't pass the test either - no idea what's going on there tbh

Try this on Nitter instead:

https://nitter.net/WillyWoofter/status/2082494111555190875

For some reason your xcancel links, when pasted into a browser window, read as URLs designed to thwart bot by use of captchas

SidewaysOtter · 31/07/2026 14:45

Toseland · 31/07/2026 14:19

Pleased to hear the Police have all their devices!

Can you even imagine what some poor soul is going through, having to examine their phones and hard drives?

”Constable, have you seen Simpkins?”

”No, Sarge. ‘E was having to look through all them phones what we got from those polycule fellas and he came over a bit funny. I last saw ‘im rocking back and forwards sat out by the bins. Muttering to himself he was, sir, and someone from HR was patting him on the ‘ead, saying they’d arrange some respite care. Doreen from reception said they’d carted him off in one of them white jackets with the long arms!”

🤢

EveryoneIsPointingNow · 31/07/2026 15:02

Mmmnotsure · 31/07/2026 13:46

It's possible to feel sorry for many people caught up in this. That's part of being human and in touch with natural instincts (and also female socialisation). But that has been weaponised against us. It has been used to corral society at large - much of which went along with it without too much critical thought - into indulging and enabling people who should not have been given power to influence, make and change language, laws, and social mores to the detriment of millions of women and children. Some of the architects are dangerous men. Some of the foot soldiers are vulnerable people who are being manipulated and used. Our normal human reaction of sympathy needs to separated out from the fact that this needs to be ended, even though it causes damage to some.

This. Well said.

I said something along the lines of at least Euan being vulnerable and manipulated on another thread. I go between pitying and being concerned for him, even more now that I know about his sister, and having a normal reaction to some of the stuff he comes out with, but then again, whose words are they?

Cordeliasdemonbabies · 31/07/2026 15:22

Molly is definitely vulnerable and Poppybear is most certainly mentally ill and has said as much. Not sure about the other two but you don't tend to end up in this sort of lifestyle unless you have issues.

However...

They have had a large impact on policy through their campaigns and political activities. Far, far more so than people living in similar circumstances who do not identify as trans or LGBTQAI++. People this chaotic would be simply ignored at best.

It is therefore worthwhile documenting how disturbing the whole business is.

SapphireSeptember · 31/07/2026 15:24

SidewaysOtter · 31/07/2026 14:45

Can you even imagine what some poor soul is going through, having to examine their phones and hard drives?

”Constable, have you seen Simpkins?”

”No, Sarge. ‘E was having to look through all them phones what we got from those polycule fellas and he came over a bit funny. I last saw ‘im rocking back and forwards sat out by the bins. Muttering to himself he was, sir, and someone from HR was patting him on the ‘ead, saying they’d arrange some respite care. Doreen from reception said they’d carted him off in one of them white jackets with the long arms!”

🤢

😆 10/10, no notes.

I'm trying to giggle quietly so I don't wake DS from his nap!

Gasp0deTheW0nderD0g · 31/07/2026 15:38

Cordeliasdemonbabies · 31/07/2026 15:22

Molly is definitely vulnerable and Poppybear is most certainly mentally ill and has said as much. Not sure about the other two but you don't tend to end up in this sort of lifestyle unless you have issues.

However...

They have had a large impact on policy through their campaigns and political activities. Far, far more so than people living in similar circumstances who do not identify as trans or LGBTQAI++. People this chaotic would be simply ignored at best.

It is therefore worthwhile documenting how disturbing the whole business is.

Can you imagine if a woman (the cunty kind) tried to get herself nominated as a political party's candidate, even in a seat where they had no hope of winning, but was openly posting on social media about living in a polyamorous group with three others? We could stop right there, she wouldn't get further in the process.

UtopiaPlanitia · 31/07/2026 15:40

Gasp0deTheW0nderD0g · 31/07/2026 15:38

Can you imagine if a woman (the cunty kind) tried to get herself nominated as a political party's candidate, even in a seat where they had no hope of winning, but was openly posting on social media about living in a polyamorous group with three others? We could stop right there, she wouldn't get further in the process.

Yeah, but that would be because she's the old-fashioned, cunty kind of women, who are always complaining. She's not like these new women with dicks - they're good as gold (to paraphrase Ricky Gervais) 🙄😬

murasaki · 31/07/2026 15:44

Yes, I thought you had to be generally perceived to be of good character to stand. Which by any metric, Euan is not.

INeedAPensieve · 31/07/2026 15:53

Which band and band member is SM/Euan @Gasp0deTheW0nderD0g on the list in that link? I tried to find him on that Skinny mag link but honestly he's either changed himself so much or I'm just missing which one he is. I think all these men are in poor mental health and need support, but I can't be sympathetic when they openly call for violence against women and the terrible things HH said about Ann Widdecombe.

viques · 31/07/2026 16:37

UtopiaPlanitia · 31/07/2026 15:40

Yeah, but that would be because she's the old-fashioned, cunty kind of women, who are always complaining. She's not like these new women with dicks - they're good as gold (to paraphrase Ricky Gervais) 🙄😬

Excuse me! Point of information here! Herbert hasn't got a dick, well technically he has , but it has been re purposed into a lady pouch ( such good reuse.recycle green vibes, give him a sticker ). He is very proud of the fact that he has to lie on the floor of disabled toilets in airports to dilate his pouch , so proud that he took time out of this special lady pouch care routine to post pictures. What a mensch !

INeedAPensieve · 31/07/2026 16:43

Gasp0deTheW0nderD0g · 31/07/2026 16:19

The lead singer with the beard, wearing the leather jacket. This is a different link.

Ah thank you! I must have been searching through all the bands wrong in that link, there were a lot of listings. What a difference eh?!

CarrotGiraffeandaTeddyBear · 31/07/2026 17:08

Bobbymoore123 · 31/07/2026 11:32

Isn't this thread all a bit sad?

Won’t you think of the poor men? 🥲

Shedmistress · 31/07/2026 17:31

I'm genuinely surprised that any of them have decided that this is all just too fucking mental even for them.

EveryoneIsPointingNow · 31/07/2026 17:48

Gasp0deTheW0nderD0g · 31/07/2026 16:19

The lead singer with the beard, wearing the leather jacket. This is a different link.

It would be interesting to know something of the journey between that being filmed and where he is now.

Tallisker · 31/07/2026 18:42

Isn’t it refreshing to be able to correctly sex these sad sacks and not have our language coerced or our accounts banned? Thanks, MN.

Ereshkigalangcleg · 31/07/2026 18:46

It really is. Imagine having to walk on eggshells around men like this. I pity anyone in their general environment.

Ereshkigalangcleg · 31/07/2026 18:46

Sorry and all, BobbyMoore.

KnottyAuty · 31/07/2026 19:25

EveryoneIsPointingNow · 31/07/2026 15:02

This. Well said.

I said something along the lines of at least Euan being vulnerable and manipulated on another thread. I go between pitying and being concerned for him, even more now that I know about his sister, and having a normal reaction to some of the stuff he comes out with, but then again, whose words are they?

It is possible to be vulnerable and simultaneously a risk to others - special schools understand this well. Google SEMH.

It must have been very difficult to have a family member die from an eating disorder. But these days i seen anorexia in the context of it’s strong links to autism, which runs in families.

UtopiaPlanitia · 31/07/2026 19:30

Gasp0deTheW0nderD0g · 31/07/2026 16:19

The lead singer with the beard, wearing the leather jacket. This is a different link.

The woman in the band looks like she may have been Sparkles’ template for woman identity. I remember reading various researchers, and trans widows, stating that a woman is often being 'copied' 🤔

KnottyAuty · 31/07/2026 19:32

EveryoneIsPointingNow · 31/07/2026 17:48

It would be interesting to know something of the journey between that being filmed and where he is now.

Here’s some info - it seems a very sad story
https://metro.co.uk/2026/03/15/couldnt-believe-male-friends-reaction-came-trans-2-27384270/amp/

I came out as trans — a family member referred to me as ‘it’

I felt flustered and uncomfortable at the offensive remarks.

https://metro.co.uk/2026/03/15/couldnt-believe-male-friends-reaction-came-trans-2-27384270/amp/

murasaki · 31/07/2026 20:09

KnottyAuty · 31/07/2026 19:32

It is, but while it may explain some of his behaviour, it doesn't justify it.

Lalgarh · 31/07/2026 21:28

4 whole pages of discussion.

And not a single mention of Angel Delight

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