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Feminism: Sex and gender discussions

What's the deal guys?

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shadesOfTeal · 17/02/2026 21:23

I don't think this post is going to last long but what's the deal with hating trans women so much? I've been a women for 13 years of my life since 18 and it's never been a problem. Suddenly I'm not only talk of the town but also an evil man stealing everyone's rights away from them? I wasn't much of a boy as a kid anyway but. I just wanted to ask like what's the deal? Why do you hate the idea of me existing so much? What have I personally done to you that's been so bad? I feel like I need to be careful with my words because it'll be easy to accuse me of all sorts but I've done no harm to anyone. If you want to ask a trans woman some honest questions then please do, I don't usually talk about it in my day to day life and that, I'm pretty down to earth and will help you understand as much as possible. But I'd like to ask the people that hate me so much, can we ever get along? Please don't assume I'm what the internet and the media says I am though, I'm not like that at all! I just want us all to get on and I'm sick of having my life debated every 5 minutes.

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FuzzyPuffling · 19/02/2026 19:30

onepostwonder · 19/02/2026 19:24

Starting estrogen did not prevent or interrupt my puberty. It progressed quite healthfully in an estrogen-driven direction until completion.

This isn't even English, never mind science.

callmeLoretta1 · 19/02/2026 19:30

onepostwonder · 19/02/2026 19:29

Better send the sex realist police, sex reality is shattering.

'Sex realist' is like saying 2+2=4.

You want us to believe 2+2=7.

onepostwonder · 19/02/2026 19:32

callmeLoretta1 · 19/02/2026 19:30

'Sex realist' is like saying 2+2=4.

You want us to believe 2+2=7.

Edited

closer to 2+2 = male.

RedToothBrush · 19/02/2026 19:33

onepostwonder · 19/02/2026 19:27

A woman, by being a woman, does not have power and control over women.

You aren't a woman. You don't even have a GRC. By your own admission. You don't have the legal status of a woman. You don't have the body of a woman. You had male puberty and extreme body modification. By your own admission.

You are a man telling women they shouldn't be allowed to organise or gather without the presence of males. Even if this involves a state of undress.

That's what Incels say.

HTH.

AnSolas · 19/02/2026 19:33

RedToothBrush · 19/02/2026 19:07

TBF you don't recall any of the complaints made here about not being comfortable about men like you in female facilities. You just chose to ignore what you don't like hearing so I think we'll all take you "I don't recall" with a pinch of salt (as we would if it were some idiot giving evidence in a court as advised by a lawyer to avoid incriminating themselves).

Its BS doctors (who are not cowboys) dont flip a dice and guess what volume of drugs to use when proposing to supress natural hormone levels.

SDTGisAnEvilWolefGenius · 19/02/2026 19:33

You are, and always will be, male, @onepostwonder. When the sperm fertilised the egg that created you, that sperm carried the Y chromosome, and you were male fro the very beginning. That is the truth. A person’s sex is determined by the spermicide at the moment of conception - the sex of the developing zygote cannot be differentiated until around 6 weeks, but the egg fertilised by a Y-bearing sperm os male, and the one fertilised by one that isn’t Y-bearing is female, even if you can’t see the difference.

I am willing to bet that your view of why you are a woman is based on regressive ant toxic stereotypes of what a woman is - liking pink, or sparkles, or make up or dresses, being submissive, gentle, nurturing, liking knitting, embroidery, other traditionally womanly crafts, not wanting to play rugby or football - I could go on.

Women - the real sort - have fought for decades to get away from this shit - to be able to play rugby, have short hair, like getting dirty, abhor make up - without being considered any less female. But now the TRAs and their handmaidens want us to believe that being a woman is a set of behaviours and attitudes that date from the middle of the last century (and were outdated even then).

I believe that a woman is someone with a female body and any character, not someone with any biology but a ‘feminine’ character. I don’t think that kids should be forced into boxes based on their likes and dislikes - that is toxic and regressive - I believe they should be rejoicing in their wonderful bodies, their wonderful minds and their wonderful characters without being told that their character or mind makes them ‘wrong’ in some way.

There is no such thing as a man with a female brain - your brain has exactly the same chromosomes as every other cell in your body. Surgery can give you boobs and a hole that can be penetrated and medicine can give you the hormones of the opposite sex - but nothing can change your sex, your skeleton, your endocrine system. No surgeon can make an actual, functioning vagina - one that self cleans, self lubricates, stays patent without mechanical intervention, and can expand enough for a whole baby to pass through it.

callmeLoretta1 · 19/02/2026 19:33

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onepostwonder · 19/02/2026 19:33

RedToothBrush · 19/02/2026 19:33

You aren't a woman. You don't even have a GRC. By your own admission. You don't have the legal status of a woman. You don't have the body of a woman. You had male puberty and extreme body modification. By your own admission.

You are a man telling women they shouldn't be allowed to organise or gather without the presence of males. Even if this involves a state of undress.

That's what Incels say.

HTH.

This is your belief.

onepostwonder · 19/02/2026 19:33

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And yet, no.

TwinklyWrinkly · 19/02/2026 19:35

onepostwonder · 19/02/2026 19:27

It's a good thing reality is quite different.

Please do explain your view of reality? Which bit of what I said is not real? I'm happy to be educated.

callmeLoretta1 · 19/02/2026 19:35

onepostwonder · 19/02/2026 19:33

And yet, no.

And yet, yes.

FuzzyPuffling · 19/02/2026 19:36

Are you Canadian, onepost?

onepostwonder · 19/02/2026 19:36

TwinklyWrinkly · 19/02/2026 19:35

Please do explain your view of reality? Which bit of what I said is not real? I'm happy to be educated.

Reality is more diverse and inclusive than sex realist belief.

callmeLoretta1 · 19/02/2026 19:36

onepostwonder · 19/02/2026 19:33

This is your belief.

It's not a 'belief', it's reality. The law states you do not have legal trans status if you don't have that piece of paper, that GRC.

It's like saying you are married if you do not have the legal marriage certificate.

Fact is, no GRC? No legal trans status under the EA 2010. And that means, no legal protection under the EA.

onepostwonder · 19/02/2026 19:37

FuzzyPuffling · 19/02/2026 19:36

Are you Canadian, onepost?

I have spent time in Canada.

callmeLoretta1 · 19/02/2026 19:37

onepostwonder · 19/02/2026 19:36

Reality is more diverse and inclusive than sex realist belief.

Biological reality is not 'inclusive' of lies. Biology and life, is sex realist.

RedToothBrush · 19/02/2026 19:38

onepostwonder · 19/02/2026 19:33

This is your belief.

You are instructive and informative.

You only past 'that is your belief' in response to posts that reveal the Emperor has No Clothes and you literally have no other response and have no credible rebuff.

As I say it's a great demonstration of how it's all about power and control over women.

Thanks.

onepostwonder · 19/02/2026 19:39

RedToothBrush · 19/02/2026 19:38

You are instructive and informative.

You only past 'that is your belief' in response to posts that reveal the Emperor has No Clothes and you literally have no other response and have no credible rebuff.

As I say it's a great demonstration of how it's all about power and control over women.

Thanks.

When sex realists are the tailor, they own the fabric and how it is draped.

RedToothBrush · 19/02/2026 19:40

onepostwonder · 19/02/2026 19:39

When sex realists are the tailor, they own the fabric and how it is draped.

Edited

As I say literally no credible response.

It's amazing.

AnSolas · 19/02/2026 19:41

onepostwonder · 19/02/2026 19:11

Everyone knows sex realists vibrate in rage at trans women being included within women's spaces. Sex realists do not police society. They don't create and enforce the rules, though it seems some really wish they could.

Another for the bingo card 🚩
Trite angry women trope

You know you are breaking the social contract by being in what should be female only single sex spaces.

You know and have made it verrrrrry clear that you see the women in them as less or service humans.

onepostwonder · 19/02/2026 19:42

RedToothBrush · 19/02/2026 19:40

As I say literally no credible response.

It's amazing.

There is not one reason why I can think I need a GRC. Please help me create some that are not already satisfied by settlement documents?

AnSolas · 19/02/2026 19:43

onepostwonder · 19/02/2026 19:15

So dramatic!

🙄

TwinklyWrinkly · 19/02/2026 19:44

onepostwonder · 19/02/2026 19:36

Reality is more diverse and inclusive than sex realist belief.

What exactly IS a "sex realist" I've only heard the term for the first time tonight? But with regards to actual reality, I'm afraid that no matter how much you stamp your feet and hold your breath, you are a man in a gay relationship. And that's fine, I wish you every happiness as a gay man. Please don't try and tell the children you are a woman as that is a horrid, horrid thing to do to a child. It is a lie and they WILL hate you for it. Maybe not now, but in the future, you are damaging them by lying. You are NOT a mother, you cannot be, because you ARE a man, no matter what you look like and what you think, and what you want everyone else to think. That's just biological reality, no matter how many times you deny it and use word salad to try and prove otherwise.

Brefugee · 19/02/2026 19:45

onepostwonder · 19/02/2026 19:42

There is not one reason why I can think I need a GRC. Please help me create some that are not already satisfied by settlement documents?

You'Re in the UK? you are a man. If you have no GRC that allows you the legal fiction of "female" under certain restricted circumstances - you are lying on official documentation. There is no SelfID in the UK

callmeLoretta1 · 19/02/2026 19:46

onepostwonder · 19/02/2026 19:39

When sex realists are the tailor, they own the fabric and how it is draped.

Edited

Yes, the female sex own our fabric, and we say how it is draped, just as first nations people do with their own identity.

Good, you understand. A group has the right to define their own identity. Outsiders don't come in and tell us how it's done. You don't have that right.

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