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Feminism: Sex and gender discussions

What's the deal guys?

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shadesOfTeal · 17/02/2026 21:23

I don't think this post is going to last long but what's the deal with hating trans women so much? I've been a women for 13 years of my life since 18 and it's never been a problem. Suddenly I'm not only talk of the town but also an evil man stealing everyone's rights away from them? I wasn't much of a boy as a kid anyway but. I just wanted to ask like what's the deal? Why do you hate the idea of me existing so much? What have I personally done to you that's been so bad? I feel like I need to be careful with my words because it'll be easy to accuse me of all sorts but I've done no harm to anyone. If you want to ask a trans woman some honest questions then please do, I don't usually talk about it in my day to day life and that, I'm pretty down to earth and will help you understand as much as possible. But I'd like to ask the people that hate me so much, can we ever get along? Please don't assume I'm what the internet and the media says I am though, I'm not like that at all! I just want us all to get on and I'm sick of having my life debated every 5 minutes.

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Hedgehogforshort · 19/02/2026 19:14

onepostwonder · 19/02/2026 19:11

Everyone knows sex realists vibrate in rage at trans women being included within women's spaces. Sex realists do not police society. They don't create and enforce the rules, though it seems some really wish they could.

Correct, and the law says you are a biological male that has no right to access women's designated spaces.

THAT. IS. THE.LAW……

nicepotoftea · 19/02/2026 19:15

onepostwonder · 19/02/2026 19:11

Everyone knows sex realists vibrate in rage at trans women being included within women's spaces. Sex realists do not police society. They don't create and enforce the rules, though it seems some really wish they could.

Everyone knows sex realists vibrate in rage at trans women being included within women's spaces.

They don't like men being in women's spaces, and if you identify as a 'trans women' you are by definition a man.

Sex realists do not police society

No, but legislation defines the law and from what you say under UK law you are a man.

Hedgehogforshort · 19/02/2026 19:15

onepostwonder · 19/02/2026 19:14

I guess discussion has moved on to big pedophilia blocking development to preserve the pre-pubertal body of minors?

Er no

onepostwonder · 19/02/2026 19:15

AnSolas · 19/02/2026 19:14

Sunshine if your GP is a Uk medical registered doctor the GP is applying UK medical standards to your male body. Failure to do so would be risking a clinical error.

The GP is not going to risk a clinical error and ending a professional career and although tiny possibility risk of a manslaughter charge just to pretend your body is female.

The GMC tend to get stroppy over poor clinical care and yank registrations when non-specialist play guineapig cashcow with patient care

You are being managed as a male body with a complex medical history taking off lable drugs.

So dramatic!

onepostwonder · 19/02/2026 19:16

nicepotoftea · 19/02/2026 19:15

Everyone knows sex realists vibrate in rage at trans women being included within women's spaces.

They don't like men being in women's spaces, and if you identify as a 'trans women' you are by definition a man.

Sex realists do not police society

No, but legislation defines the law and from what you say under UK law you are a man.

I don't identify as a trans woman. I am labeled a trans woman by sex realists.

nicepotoftea · 19/02/2026 19:17

onepostwonder · 19/02/2026 19:14

I guess discussion has moved on to big pedophilia blocking development to preserve the pre-pubertal body of minors?

You are suggesting 'big pedophilia'.

It's not as thought there is any rational reason to prevent a healthy child reaching sexual maturity.

RedToothBrush · 19/02/2026 19:18

onepostwonder · 19/02/2026 19:11

Everyone knows sex realists vibrate in rage at trans women being included within women's spaces. Sex realists do not police society. They don't create and enforce the rules, though it seems some really wish they could.

That's sounds remarkably like an admission of "I get off on having power and control over women"

Helleofabore · 19/02/2026 19:18

onepostwonder · 19/02/2026 19:02

This question and your insistence on an answer has no impact on my life and the development of my own body a very long time ago. You hold beliefs that do not allow for discussion of my experience or medical facts in this context.

Mate.

The medical facts are known. It is you who cannot accept them because you don’t actually seem to understand what I am repeating, even though I try to repeat it in different ways so you can understand.

There isn’t any ‘context’ that is outside of the medical knowledge that male people cannot develop breasts that function like female breasts. You can continue to deny this all you like, it doesn’t change material reality or the medical facts.

How about if you don’t understand what women are telling you, you ask them to clarify instead of simply doubling down and repeating that somehow you have developed something the medical research says is impossible.

Just one more try. Female breasts are not just about shape, or size, or even the ability to secrete a substance.

Female breasts have abilities that male breasts, even those who use drug supplements to ‘develop’ the tissue, cannot have. It is impossible. Despite your belief that you might somehow have achieved the medically impossible.

Again, telling women that we don’t know because we don’t have your breasts so how do we know, in the face of medical knowledge is just you spreading misinformation, or you showing you simply have no idea what female breasts actually do.

NotAtMyAge · 19/02/2026 19:19

onepostwonder · 19/02/2026 18:42

All my documentation says female/woman. No entity has required a GRC to identify my sex or gender. I do not need to modify any UK administrative records.

That's totally irrelevant. You are an adult male and the comparator for you where discrimination is concerned is another adult male, in other words a man. That's true for all trans-identified men, not just you. To be honest, we don't have to see you to know you are male. The lack of sympathy for actual women and the sheer entitlement in all your posts tells us that so clearly.

nicepotoftea · 19/02/2026 19:19

onepostwonder · 19/02/2026 19:16

I don't identify as a trans woman. I am labeled a trans woman by sex realists.

This is an anonymous message board so for all I know you have made up everything you have posted, but the treatment you have described would only be given to somebody who is male.

RedToothBrush · 19/02/2026 19:20

Come to think of it, that's the type of thing I'd expect to hear from an incel.

callmeLoretta1 · 19/02/2026 19:22

onepostwonder · 19/02/2026 19:16

I don't identify as a trans woman. I am labeled a trans woman by sex realists.

You say yourself you are a trans woman. You've addressed yourself as that in many of your posts on this thread. You can't keep track of what you say can you.

AnSolas · 19/02/2026 19:23

onepostwonder · 19/02/2026 19:05

I am a mother and step mother married to a man, yes.

Safeguarding risk

A male cant be a mother as male biology will not allow a baby to grow within a male body.

Cant be a mother or stepmother as there are terms used for human females

Children can recognise the sex of adults.

Telling a child that a male is a female when the child can see and work out that the individual in question is male is a basic safeguarding fail.

Forcing a child to apply female words to a male individual is a safeguarding fail.

onepostwonder · 19/02/2026 19:24

nicepotoftea · 19/02/2026 19:17

You are suggesting 'big pedophilia'.

It's not as thought there is any rational reason to prevent a healthy child reaching sexual maturity.

Starting estrogen did not prevent or interrupt my puberty. It progressed quite healthfully in an estrogen-driven direction until completion.

callmeLoretta1 · 19/02/2026 19:25

onepostwonder · 19/02/2026 19:11

Everyone knows sex realists vibrate in rage at trans women being included within women's spaces. Sex realists do not police society. They don't create and enforce the rules, though it seems some really wish they could.

We rage at males being in female spaces.

And the law rules. And it's getting to the point where we have to take body spray to spray in the eyes of males in female spaces as defence to disarm them and get them out we will. I know of posters on here and elsewhere who now do this very thing. We aren't fucking around anymore. We will get males out of female spaces, regardless, any way we have to. We are winning this war and we won't stop until every last male is out of our spaces. You'd best believe it!

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onepostwonder · 19/02/2026 19:27

RedToothBrush · 19/02/2026 19:18

That's sounds remarkably like an admission of "I get off on having power and control over women"

A woman, by being a woman, does not have power and control over women.

onepostwonder · 19/02/2026 19:27

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It's a good thing reality is quite different.

callmeLoretta1 · 19/02/2026 19:27

onepostwonder · 19/02/2026 19:27

A woman, by being a woman, does not have power and control over women.

You're not a woman.

AnSolas · 19/02/2026 19:28

onepostwonder · 19/02/2026 19:06

If you wish to get mumsnet-pedantic, I would say I am an adoptive mother and step mother married to the birth father of my step son and adoptive father of our daughter.

You are in a same sex relationship and are male so not a "mother" of any kind.

That demand to accept a lie and pretend words mean something other than what they mean is a safeguarding problem.

onepostwonder · 19/02/2026 19:28

callmeLoretta1 · 19/02/2026 19:27

You're not a woman.

I am.

callmeLoretta1 · 19/02/2026 19:28

onepostwonder · 19/02/2026 19:27

It's a good thing reality is quite different.

Your 'reality' is not the reality of 99% of the population. A colon hole is not a vagina.

callmeLoretta1 · 19/02/2026 19:29

onepostwonder · 19/02/2026 19:28

I am.

No, you are not. No matter how many times you say it. And you never will be.

onepostwonder · 19/02/2026 19:29

AnSolas · 19/02/2026 19:28

You are in a same sex relationship and are male so not a "mother" of any kind.

That demand to accept a lie and pretend words mean something other than what they mean is a safeguarding problem.

Better send the sex realist police, sex reality is shattering.

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