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Feminism: Sex and gender discussions

Latest Girlguiding email this evening

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clementina25 · 11/12/2025 19:51

I have just received a new email from Girlguiding. They are planning on setting up a task force - 'Today, we're launching a taskforce to explore new opportunities for trans girls, trans young women and trans women. You can help us by sharing your ideas and/or expressing an interest in contributing to our taskforce. '
I'm thinking that it's really important that sex realists are included on this task force as I think that there will be pressure from the Trans handmaidens to change Girlguiding to a mixed sex organisation. Is there anyone else who has received this email and would be keen to collaborate?

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ThePoliteLion · 14/12/2025 16:07

Storyhousenamechange · 13/12/2025 21:30

My two DD are in guides and it's great for them. It's all girls, I have no idea if the leaders are genderwoo believers or not - it just hasn't been a deal. If it became an issue, I'd speak up. But it isn't, and I wouldn't want to deprive my children of the experience, because of what seems to be some completely out of touch people making a lot of noise at the top.

Saying that, I will be responding to the email.

But I just wanted to point out that, as we know, empty vessels make the most noise and this principle may not be an issue in practice in your local unit, so if you think your girls would enjoy it, I wouldn't keep them away on a point of principle.

Thank you for your message. My DDs do lots of extra-curricular stuff, both single sex and mixed and don’t miss out. It’s doubtless a difference in style, but I do not want to support the Guides because of the actions of its senior leadership. There has to be accountability/consequences.

Heggettypeg · 14/12/2025 17:04

RedToothBrush · 14/12/2025 09:27

Agreed.

To a point.

The problem being the most vulnerable kids are the ones who don't follow trends as such anyway. They are the uncool kids.

I think trends can be mainstream (majority) or alternative (usually a largeish minority) or subcultural (minority/niche). Children who don't fit in enough to be mainstream-trendy may be able to access a subcultural trend - and be very eager to hang on to their acceptance by that group, whatever it takes.

Trends can also shift their nature. A subcultural trend can become mainstream (to the disgust of niche-ies who like being niche). Or a trend can be a mainstream fad for a while and then find a smaller more long-term niche.

SwirlyGates · 14/12/2025 17:40

ArabellaSaurus · 13/12/2025 21:18

Strange outfit at the protest.

Leather bras and bondage harnesses are not suitable for girl guiding meets.

They just can't help themselves, can they? Shows who they really are....

Dragonasaurus · 14/12/2025 18:32

User478 · 11/12/2025 20:31

Thankyou User478, this survey can be completed by anyone who’d like to contribute an idea

MarieDeGournay · 14/12/2025 19:33

Dragonasaurus · 14/12/2025 18:32

Thankyou User478, this survey can be completed by anyone who’d like to contribute an idea

I have lots of ideas😡but as I'm neither in the UK nor have any connection with the GG whatsoever, I thought it would be unfair of me to weigh in!
Hopefully the GGs will shedloads of😡comments.

27pilates · 14/12/2025 20:02

Thanks for including the survey. Completed ✔️

Artmumcreative · 14/12/2025 20:20

This will come over as very naive (forgive me, my DD is a toddler so we're not talking about LGBT stuff yet), but are there trans girls that young, commonly?
I'm in my thirties so trans issues seemed to start among people I knew when I was a young adult in FE college (I know there's a longer history but that's when I first met trans people).

TheBroonOneAndTheWhiteOne · 14/12/2025 20:21

I've also completed the survey.

plantcomplex · 14/12/2025 20:29

Artmumcreative · 14/12/2025 20:20

This will come over as very naive (forgive me, my DD is a toddler so we're not talking about LGBT stuff yet), but are there trans girls that young, commonly?
I'm in my thirties so trans issues seemed to start among people I knew when I was a young adult in FE college (I know there's a longer history but that's when I first met trans people).

Yes there are people transing their four year old boys and putting them on Rainbows waiting lists.

The father of a six year old boy who is currently a Rainbow spoke at one of the protests.

EweProfessorSurnameDoctorProfessor · 14/12/2025 20:53

https://x.com/cavakaggyreborn/status/2000213911052644704

Stalwart of safeguarding and defender of the vulnerable, sarah baker, previously Alan baker - who spent 30 years in prison for kidnapping/attempted murder - protests girl guides preventing males from joining the organisation

cavakaggyreborn (@cavakaggyreborn) on X

Sarah Jane Baker,a man, at the Guides Against Trans Exclusion Protest in London yesterday. That poor dog.

https://x.com/cavakaggyreborn/status/2000213911052644704

SwirlyGates · 14/12/2025 21:12

EweProfessorSurnameDoctorProfessor · 14/12/2025 20:53

https://x.com/cavakaggyreborn/status/2000213911052644704

Stalwart of safeguarding and defender of the vulnerable, sarah baker, previously Alan baker - who spent 30 years in prison for kidnapping/attempted murder - protests girl guides preventing males from joining the organisation

I wonder if all those protesting the exclusion of trans identifying males from guides would like to have him as a volunteer. 🤔

SwirlyGates · 14/12/2025 21:14

plantcomplex · 14/12/2025 20:29

Yes there are people transing their four year old boys and putting them on Rainbows waiting lists.

The father of a six year old boy who is currently a Rainbow spoke at one of the protests.

I really hope that the exclusion of these boys from girl-only spaces helps to give their parents pause for thought. It will cut down the places they can pretend that their boys are girls and hopefully allow the kids just to find their path as boys.

ArabellaSaurus · 14/12/2025 21:37

EweProfessorSurnameDoctorProfessor · 14/12/2025 20:53

https://x.com/cavakaggyreborn/status/2000213911052644704

Stalwart of safeguarding and defender of the vulnerable, sarah baker, previously Alan baker - who spent 30 years in prison for kidnapping/attempted murder - protests girl guides preventing males from joining the organisation

At least he's not got his moobs out this time.

ChateauMargaux · 14/12/2025 22:36

I know that the GG silenced and kicked out sex realists who questioned the policy to allow males into GG and to keep this information from parents, but surely there are some members of GG that want a single sex organisation. I have not seen any petition, poll or anything else to gather voices of those who support the restriction of membership to females. What would it take to insist that GG poll it's membership? How might that be called for in tomorrow's meeting?

I am not a member .. but I am horrified by the amount of coverage the protests are getting, by the stance that the leadership is taking and by the guidance issued to those who might be affected. I am also horrified by the lack of consideration to those members who joined for a single sex space and are now being coerced and silenced.

RavelsDancer · 14/12/2025 22:41

MarieDeGournay · 13/12/2025 23:29

Supposing we started to present genderwoo as old hat, out of date, so early 2020s, , it's 2026 now, society has moved on, we've all moved on, nobody believes TWAW any more, transpeople already have the same rights as anyone else, the SC has made it clear that sex means biological sex, what a pity organisations like the GG are stuck in the past...

A bit mischievous and tongue-in-cheek, but it's amazing how quickly the bloom fades off a fad, and it starts to look and sound silly, like people in masks and leather bras saying boys belong in the Girl Guides..

"Transchildren" have fewer rights than anyone, actually. What they most certainly do have are completely psychotic parents, like bat-shit insane. The hairs on the back of my neck stand up when I read a phrase like "the father of a 6-year-old transgirl". How is no-one getting just how creepy all of this is? Why are feminists blamed, when they are the only people speaking out against it?

RavelsDancer · 14/12/2025 22:47

EweProfessorSurnameDoctorProfessor · 14/12/2025 20:53

https://x.com/cavakaggyreborn/status/2000213911052644704

Stalwart of safeguarding and defender of the vulnerable, sarah baker, previously Alan baker - who spent 30 years in prison for kidnapping/attempted murder - protests girl guides preventing males from joining the organisation

They are "getting hammered so hard", are they? Poor lambs, evil terfs.

You know who literally got hammered pretty badly, though? Women during the witch trials. JK Rowling during her modern witch trials.

RavelsDancer · 14/12/2025 22:49

ChateauMargaux · 14/12/2025 22:36

I know that the GG silenced and kicked out sex realists who questioned the policy to allow males into GG and to keep this information from parents, but surely there are some members of GG that want a single sex organisation. I have not seen any petition, poll or anything else to gather voices of those who support the restriction of membership to females. What would it take to insist that GG poll it's membership? How might that be called for in tomorrow's meeting?

I am not a member .. but I am horrified by the amount of coverage the protests are getting, by the stance that the leadership is taking and by the guidance issued to those who might be affected. I am also horrified by the lack of consideration to those members who joined for a single sex space and are now being coerced and silenced.

What it would take is a man speaking up, or a few men. Not going to happen.

RavelsDancer · 14/12/2025 22:52

Artmumcreative · 14/12/2025 20:20

This will come over as very naive (forgive me, my DD is a toddler so we're not talking about LGBT stuff yet), but are there trans girls that young, commonly?
I'm in my thirties so trans issues seemed to start among people I knew when I was a young adult in FE college (I know there's a longer history but that's when I first met trans people).

No, but there are degenerate nut-job performative extremely uncured narcissist parents of 100% defenseless children at that age.

clementina25 · 14/12/2025 23:14

Artmumcreative · 14/12/2025 20:20

This will come over as very naive (forgive me, my DD is a toddler so we're not talking about LGBT stuff yet), but are there trans girls that young, commonly?
I'm in my thirties so trans issues seemed to start among people I knew when I was a young adult in FE college (I know there's a longer history but that's when I first met trans people).

There is no such thing as a trans child. There are parents who are perpetrating psychological abuse on their children. Parents who believe that if a wee boy likes playing with dolls then he must really be a girl. It's regressive sexist homophobic sh1t. Some parents are possibly confused by all the hogwash that is promoted by the Trans brigade, some who seek the kudos and attention from transing their child. But the root of it all is that the Trans brigade desperately wants there to be trans children, to 'prove' that gender identity ideology is real. When instead it is a bunch of Autogynophillic middle aged men who hate women. They don't care about the damage to young boys and girls as it serves their despicable ends.
Sorry about the rant!
I am increasingly thinking that what we, those volunteering with GG, need to do is actually support Girlguiding in their new policy. To make sure that it sticks. Regardless of the appalling messaging. Potentially the messaging is deliberate to try to mollify the TRAs (although good luck with that)! I'm looking forward to hearing what is said tomorrow on the call

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ChateauMargaux · 15/12/2025 00:04

RavelsDancer · 14/12/2025 22:49

What it would take is a man speaking up, or a few men. Not going to happen.

But why can't women who are GG members speak up? I know Katie Alcock and Helen Watts were expelled when they did.. but what if every GG Leader, every GG parent and every GG member was asked..
Should Girl Guides UK be single sex?

or in an age appropriate way..
Should Girl Guides UK be for girls?

Whywhywhyyyy · 15/12/2025 00:24

Wow. As an ex rainbow, brownie and guide (as I am old now). I have to say this is shocking. Particularly that email in Rainbows about inside outside feelz.

I can’t say how much Girlguiding influenced my character alone as it was one part of a bigger whole in my upbringing. But it was never at a detriment to me developing as a strong independent woman, with confidence, with purpose, direction, with conviction, morals, respect and a grounding in reality and truth.

And at the core of that was that I am a girl/woman. That’s it. I don’t have a lady brain. I don’t feminised feelz. I am just a human born with a female body whose biological purpose is to attempt to produce eggs. Equal but different to men. I can do whatever I am capable of doing, and I won’t find that out unless I try. That is all.

RogueFemale · 15/12/2025 01:40

MyAmpleSheep · 12/12/2025 05:43

A complaint to the Charity Commission can be made directly via an online form accessed through a link on this page:

https://forms.charitycommission.gov.uk/Raising-Concerns/

I think the correct charity name is The Guide Association and its number is 306016.

Edited

Thanks for the link @MyAmpleSheep I'll do this.

RedToothBrush · 15/12/2025 12:47

clementina25 · 14/12/2025 23:14

There is no such thing as a trans child. There are parents who are perpetrating psychological abuse on their children. Parents who believe that if a wee boy likes playing with dolls then he must really be a girl. It's regressive sexist homophobic sh1t. Some parents are possibly confused by all the hogwash that is promoted by the Trans brigade, some who seek the kudos and attention from transing their child. But the root of it all is that the Trans brigade desperately wants there to be trans children, to 'prove' that gender identity ideology is real. When instead it is a bunch of Autogynophillic middle aged men who hate women. They don't care about the damage to young boys and girls as it serves their despicable ends.
Sorry about the rant!
I am increasingly thinking that what we, those volunteering with GG, need to do is actually support Girlguiding in their new policy. To make sure that it sticks. Regardless of the appalling messaging. Potentially the messaging is deliberate to try to mollify the TRAs (although good luck with that)! I'm looking forward to hearing what is said tomorrow on the call

Not a rant.

An inconvenient truth to the Be Kinders who want to believe that we should all be nice and sing Kum ba ya.

It is straight up sexism and homophobia in the majority of cases. In the rest there's trauma and worse.

Unfortunately even well meaning people can be blind to safeguarding risks and thats why you should always challenge.

"The road to hell is paved with good intention"

This isn't a new phrase. Nor is it one restricted to English...
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/The_road_to_hell_is_paved_with_good_intentions

We don't seem to learn this.

The road to hell is paved with good intentions - Wikipedia

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/The_road_to_hell_is_paved_with_good_intentions

ChateauMargaux · 15/12/2025 18:12

I would love to hear how the meeting goes..

I am so disappointed to see my news and facebook feeds covered in people supporting the dismantling of female spaces.

Where are the voices protesting to protect female spaces.. I don't believe that we are wrong.

HagCymraeg · 15/12/2025 19:18

Im on the call. Warnings not to record it and to look after our wellbeing. Chat is disabled.