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Feminism: Sex and gender discussions

Latest Girlguiding email this evening

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clementina25 · 11/12/2025 19:51

I have just received a new email from Girlguiding. They are planning on setting up a task force - 'Today, we're launching a taskforce to explore new opportunities for trans girls, trans young women and trans women. You can help us by sharing your ideas and/or expressing an interest in contributing to our taskforce. '
I'm thinking that it's really important that sex realists are included on this task force as I think that there will be pressure from the Trans handmaidens to change Girlguiding to a mixed sex organisation. Is there anyone else who has received this email and would be keen to collaborate?

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Greentrainers · 24/03/2026 15:07

It’s good news boys are no longer allowed to be part of Girl Guides. My daughters can finally go on camps next year!! But why so long? They took far too long to announce what was happening with current boys and men, and now they’re got a few months to get all their thrills in? I’m very concerned about them using this time to abuse whilst they can. Talking of Guides age +. In December I would’ve accepted leaving by Feb half term, but this is unreasonable. At this point, they should leave immediately.

InSlovakiaTheCapitalOfCourseIsBratislava · 24/03/2026 15:10

I’m not being disingenuous- but does anyone know if there is any data on how many trans girls the Guides actually have? I haven’t been able to work out if it’s predominantly a hypothetical and the outrage is virtue signalling, plus a handful of extremely vocal parents , or if it is widespread?
I know of some (robustly ) male adult helpers - no gender ambiguity - and imagine there must be stats on that for the census, but again, any ideas on trans woman leaders?

SternJoyousBeev2 · 24/03/2026 15:14

InSlovakiaTheCapitalOfCourseIsBratislava · 24/03/2026 15:10

I’m not being disingenuous- but does anyone know if there is any data on how many trans girls the Guides actually have? I haven’t been able to work out if it’s predominantly a hypothetical and the outrage is virtue signalling, plus a handful of extremely vocal parents , or if it is widespread?
I know of some (robustly ) male adult helpers - no gender ambiguity - and imagine there must be stats on that for the census, but again, any ideas on trans woman leaders?

@InSlovakiaTheCapitalOfCourseIsBratislava enough of them to cause conniptions and overdose of virtue signalling amongst the #bekind brigade.

But according to another thread GG HQ have admitted they don’t know how many males will be affected as they don’t collect data on gender identity. Traditionally of course they would never have had to worry about collecting data on sex.

Greentrainers · 24/03/2026 15:15

InSlovakiaTheCapitalOfCourseIsBratislava · 24/03/2026 15:10

I’m not being disingenuous- but does anyone know if there is any data on how many trans girls the Guides actually have? I haven’t been able to work out if it’s predominantly a hypothetical and the outrage is virtue signalling, plus a handful of extremely vocal parents , or if it is widespread?
I know of some (robustly ) male adult helpers - no gender ambiguity - and imagine there must be stats on that for the census, but again, any ideas on trans woman leaders?

I was at a county wide event, leaders only, trying to be vague as paranoid of being outing. There was 100% a man there ‘presenting’ as a woman. It very much felt like an elephant in the room. I heard him twice bring up how he brings period pads to all meetings, events etc for his Guides, bringing it up in general chat about how everyone does their meeting etc. Made me feel sick and I could tell others were uncomfortable too.

MetaCertificateAnnotationsJudgmentFINAL · 24/03/2026 15:15

From the BBC Article

Transgender members of Girlguiding have until 6 September. [INCORRECT BIOLOGICAL MALES ONLY - TRANS IDENTIFYING WOMEN ARE WELCOME]

The organisation said that any transgender girls or women currently volunteering in a role open to women only will need to move to a role that is open to all volunteers.

It is not clear how many people will be directly affected by the rule change, as the organisation says it does not collect data on gender identity. [IT HAS BEEN A FREE FOR ALL AND ANY MALE HAS BEEN ABLE TO ACCESS SINGLE SEX SPACES FOR OUR GIRLS AND WOMEN - WOOPSIES]

Girlguiding said its original decision was made to ensure the organisation was "operating lawfully" and was in keeping with its governing charity documents, "which affect how our membership eligibility is defined". [NICE THAT THEY RECOGNISE THEY WERE BREAKING THE LAW FOR QUITE SOME TIME]

SternJoyousBeev2 · 24/03/2026 15:16

Greentrainers · 24/03/2026 15:15

I was at a county wide event, leaders only, trying to be vague as paranoid of being outing. There was 100% a man there ‘presenting’ as a woman. It very much felt like an elephant in the room. I heard him twice bring up how he brings period pads to all meetings, events etc for his Guides, bringing it up in general chat about how everyone does their meeting etc. Made me feel sick and I could tell others were uncomfortable too.

In plain fucking sight.

GreyskySexRealistsky · 24/03/2026 15:20

Greentrainers · 24/03/2026 15:15

I was at a county wide event, leaders only, trying to be vague as paranoid of being outing. There was 100% a man there ‘presenting’ as a woman. It very much felt like an elephant in the room. I heard him twice bring up how he brings period pads to all meetings, events etc for his Guides, bringing it up in general chat about how everyone does their meeting etc. Made me feel sick and I could tell others were uncomfortable too.

WTAF

InSlovakiaTheCapitalOfCourseIsBratislava · 24/03/2026 15:29

Ok. Not going mad and the fact that I haven’t been able to track down numbers is because there aren’t any .FFS
That is super creepy with the male guide leader at the event and the period pads. At work making urgh faces

Shortshriftandlethal · 24/03/2026 16:41

Greentrainers · 24/03/2026 15:15

I was at a county wide event, leaders only, trying to be vague as paranoid of being outing. There was 100% a man there ‘presenting’ as a woman. It very much felt like an elephant in the room. I heard him twice bring up how he brings period pads to all meetings, events etc for his Guides, bringing it up in general chat about how everyone does their meeting etc. Made me feel sick and I could tell others were uncomfortable too.

Safeguarding alert! Imagine being a pubertal girl having this guy foist his attentions, and his sanitary pads, onto you?

Did nobody mention or talk about it afterwards?

Datun · 24/03/2026 17:03

ArabellaSaurus · 24/03/2026 13:37

100%.

The relentless focus on boys and men, and the messagjng that females must be devastated at their exclusion and perform penance for the right of having a single sex orgamisation is frankly sickening.

I note there there is nowhere where it says how many boys this is affecting.

Which is why I suspect it is hardly any. And this massive fricking hoo-ha is to trying to persuade people it's really a big deal, when it's nothing of the sort.

All the listing of places they can go, how upsetting it is, what a tragedy, blah blah blah, it's smoke and mirrors.

OpheliaWitchoftheWoods · 24/03/2026 17:17

Shortshriftandlethal · 24/03/2026 16:41

Safeguarding alert! Imagine being a pubertal girl having this guy foist his attentions, and his sanitary pads, onto you?

Did nobody mention or talk about it afterwards?

Edited

From the response of GG to those questioning the chap with the social media full of him in a basque, with the BDSM crop and the guns, who was one of their leaders? I would think speaking out would be something requiring a lot of courage and preparation to stand the flak.

HagCymraeg · 24/03/2026 17:19

Greentrainers · 24/03/2026 15:15

I was at a county wide event, leaders only, trying to be vague as paranoid of being outing. There was 100% a man there ‘presenting’ as a woman. It very much felt like an elephant in the room. I heard him twice bring up how he brings period pads to all meetings, events etc for his Guides, bringing it up in general chat about how everyone does their meeting etc. Made me feel sick and I could tell others were uncomfortable too.

FFS - not to mention how uncomfortable the girls are. I have two Guides with mild SEN who are so painfully shy, they would never be able to ask this person for sanitary products, and if they were pushed on them, they would be mortified. In our meetings and residential events, they are just able to help themselves, but of course that doesn't satisfy a male fetish for female bodily functions.

I think this is the end of my time in Girlguiding (close to 20 years as a leader)

It is the right decision to exclude trans members but I simply cannot deal with the endless whining and simpering of the handmaidens, there is an element of Girlguiding which I suspect is very small, but so agressive and captured that no one dares oppose them, or even speak cautiously from another point of view due to a fear of being labelled a bigot. It is bullying and I think I am done.

There are other reasons I am going but the handling of the trans issue has been catastrophically bad (and after the chaos in 2023 when they sold the TACs and threw out the overseas members, you would have thought they would have better planning for contraversial decisions).

Ereshkigalangcleg · 24/03/2026 17:25

Helleofabore · 24/03/2026 14:28

Let's remember Sully.

https://www.mumsnet.com/talk/womens_rights/4271810-Girlguides-is-it-a-lost-cause

and

https://www.mumsnet.com/talk/am_i_being_unreasonable/4409650-To-ask-you-to-see-who-girl-guides-support?page=1

and

www.mumsnet.com/Talk/womens_rights/4409035-A-trans-Identified-BDSM-fan-gun-nut-is-now-a-senior-leader-at-Girlguiding

The first link has some of the images posted that have no doubt disappeared of his social media.

No male people should have been given access to female children and this was a huge safeguarding failure by GG who closed ranks and even sent the police to some people's houses who complained.

It has been understood for a long time now that male people with fetishes have been in positions of influence within GG such as Sully was.

Also who could forget this advisory panel in 2018 featuring such luminaries as Aimee Challenor and Philip/Pippa Bunce? https://www.mumsnet.com/talk/womens_rights/3250175-Girl-Guides-Panel-discussion-at-Speakers-house-woman-male-woman-male-male-male?utm_campaign=thread&utm_medium=app_share

Girl Guides Panel discussion at Speakers house.... woman, male, woman, male, male, male.... | Mumsnet

A woman who is blocked from view, Phillip Bunce who is sometimes dressed as female, Maria Miller MP, Trans woman Bex or Aimee (they look the same to m...

https://www.mumsnet.com/talk/womens_rights/3250175-Girl-Guides-Panel-discussion-at-Speakers-house-woman-male-woman-male-male-male?utm_campaign=thread&utm_medium=app_share

Ereshkigalangcleg · 24/03/2026 17:28

Datun · 24/03/2026 17:03

I note there there is nowhere where it says how many boys this is affecting.

Which is why I suspect it is hardly any. And this massive fricking hoo-ha is to trying to persuade people it's really a big deal, when it's nothing of the sort.

All the listing of places they can go, how upsetting it is, what a tragedy, blah blah blah, it's smoke and mirrors.

It is, but on Reddit, not just trans Reddit but all the twatty mansplainy news and politics subreddits, that’s what they are also saying is terrible because these “little trans girls” are a minuscule proportion of the members and should be left alone.

Shmoigel · 24/03/2026 17:56

Helleofabore · 24/03/2026 14:15

The adult male people should be fully excluded with immediate effect. Even if temporary volunteers need to take on those roles until permanent replacements are found.

If those male people are not able to cope with the policy change, I question what they were doing in a position that required them to be looking after the interests of children in the first place.

Male volunteers have been part of guiding for 110 years. The husbands that help to pitch tents at camp, the boyfriends who get roped in to drive mini busses.

Their role is a unit support one only and is very much needed in a lot of units.

CompleteGinasaur · 24/03/2026 17:56

If anyone feels like it's worth their time, the BBC article does contain the usual "if you have been affected by this issue, please let us know" contact box at the end..

FinnJuhl · 24/03/2026 18:02

Shmoigel · 24/03/2026 17:56

Male volunteers have been part of guiding for 110 years. The husbands that help to pitch tents at camp, the boyfriends who get roped in to drive mini busses.

Their role is a unit support one only and is very much needed in a lot of units.

Men needed to help pitch tents and drive minibuses! Is it their job to take the bins out as well?

persephonia · 24/03/2026 18:08

FinnJuhl · 24/03/2026 18:02

Men needed to help pitch tents and drive minibuses! Is it their job to take the bins out as well?

No but there are some jobs (eg helping with period issues) for which they are inherently not suited and more geneealised jobs in which they are. Men and women can drive minibuses but most organisations are short of volunteers. Excluding men from volunteering in appropriate ways isn't necessary or practical. In my experience the "roping in" of partners to provide an extra pair of hands happens to both sexes in most situations where volunteers are needed.

InSlovakiaTheCapitalOfCourseIsBratislava · 24/03/2026 18:16

Voluntary organisations need the non-flakey and competent, ideally with no agenda beyond “let’s get this evening/event run smoothly , with appropriate ratios, minimal disaster, and YP all having fun”

Helleofabore · 24/03/2026 18:22

Shmoigel · 24/03/2026 17:56

Male volunteers have been part of guiding for 110 years. The husbands that help to pitch tents at camp, the boyfriends who get roped in to drive mini busses.

Their role is a unit support one only and is very much needed in a lot of units.

Yes. VOLUNTEERS are very much needed of both sexes. I agree.

My own husband has been a volunteer and yes, drove vans and pitched tents.

He, however, was not in a permanent leadership role and was always directly overseen by a leader.

OpheliaWitchoftheWoods · 24/03/2026 18:29

Shmoigel · 24/03/2026 17:56

Male volunteers have been part of guiding for 110 years. The husbands that help to pitch tents at camp, the boyfriends who get roped in to drive mini busses.

Their role is a unit support one only and is very much needed in a lot of units.

This isn't about men who volunteer as men in support roles, this is about men who identify as women being permitted into roles only for women, and then ignoring the realities in order to treat them as if they were actually women, with the inevitable safeguarding issues of toilets, overnight sleep arrangements etc etc. As example above of a man with a trans identity in a women's post who has an interest in providing sanitary equipment to young girls. And the one who was an area lead who liked to be photographed posing in a basque or with guns.

Datun · 24/03/2026 18:40

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Gerri1992 · 24/03/2026 18:48

I suspect a big part of the delay until after Summer is that payments will have already been made for some camping trips, especially international ones. If GG throw the kids out with no notice, then they will have to give refunds for trips already planned and that might make the trips financially unviable for everyone as these things are often on an extremely tight budget.

Shmoigel · 24/03/2026 18:48

OpheliaWitchoftheWoods · 24/03/2026 18:29

This isn't about men who volunteer as men in support roles, this is about men who identify as women being permitted into roles only for women, and then ignoring the realities in order to treat them as if they were actually women, with the inevitable safeguarding issues of toilets, overnight sleep arrangements etc etc. As example above of a man with a trans identity in a women's post who has an interest in providing sanitary equipment to young girls. And the one who was an area lead who liked to be photographed posing in a basque or with guns.

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I agree

SternJoyousBeev2 · 24/03/2026 19:24

Ereshkigalangcleg · 24/03/2026 17:28

It is, but on Reddit, not just trans Reddit but all the twatty mansplainy news and politics subreddits, that’s what they are also saying is terrible because these “little trans girls” are a minuscule proportion of the members and should be left alone.

I’m sick of that argument. The number is irrelevant.

At what age are girls deserving of their own shit? To put themselves first and not always be secondary to another group?

And the boys involved? It’s not fair on them to lie and tell them that they are and will always be accepted as girls and women? Using the example of boys in Rainbows and Brownies is disingenuous because what if those boys wanted to continue to be Guides? A 5 year old versus a 15 year old? Much better to stop lying to the 5 year old.

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