I'm catching up on this again today as after seeing the update last night that Sandie was going to be hauled into a disciplinary meeting on Friday, I had to step away for the sake of my blood pressure. Unfortunately, it didn't stop me ruminating on a few things which I know have been raised/discussed on here many times.
There seems to be a lot of confusion about the terms "transwoman" and "transman". I have lost count of the number of times I have explained and when the penny drops I get the "woah didn't realise that" in response. The average person just does not understand the difference and generally think a transwoman is a biological woman preferring to be "seen as male".
Complacency - if it doesn't affect someone negatively then they pay less attention. I asked my DH what he would do if a woman was using the male toilets. His response was something along the lines of he has never experienced that and why would a woman want to set foot in the men's anyway as surely they would feel embarrassed. I asked him if it did happen would he find it uncomfortable - he agreed he would but thinks most men would point out the woman was in the wrong place, wait for them to leave and carry on. I asked what he would do if the woman stayed and insisted on using the facilities - he laughed and didn't think that was a likely scenario as surely a woman would feel intimidated/threatened surrounded by men with their genitals on display (oh, the irony)! But the first answer was that it's never happened to him so not something he would worry about = complacency.
I was really concerned to read some comments from medical professionals who admit they and their colleagues are scared of stating what is biological reality (although I fully appreciate why this is). In my view, the silence leads to people thinking if the trained, medical professionals are not speaking out and stating the facts, then it must be OK. Many people are too busy and no doubt have their own personal challenges to even give it headspace.
How the hell have we got to a position where organisations are bending over backwards to appease the delusions of a tiny minority and, in doing so are completely walking over the rights of women.
I feel quite despondent today that nobody with the power to do so is actually standing up and saying WTAF is going on here.
Finally (sorry, long post) thank you for the poems and the rewriting of Uptown Funk which made did make me laugh - genius!!