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Feminism: Sex and gender discussions

Emma Watson's dig at JKR

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IamSarah · 15/03/2022 07:39

It appears she said at the BAFTAs 'I am here for all of the witches... bar one'

Disappointing but not unexpected.

twitter.com/emwatsonbestof/status/1503505167207084034?s=21

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fenulla · 17/03/2022 04:29

"....I am happy to share those spaces."
With whom? Men who say they're women?
Just use the men's if you want to share with them.

TheBeardedVulture · 17/03/2022 06:21

“ I do believe with every generation comes more tolerance and acceptance .”

Most women will not tolerate or accept strange dick in our single sex spaces.

BlindGirlMcSqueaky · 17/03/2022 06:38

[quote autienotnaughty]@BlindGirlMcSqueaky I'm amazed you are still here. 👏👏 unfortunately there is ignorance everywhere especially on anonymous forums, all we can do is hope that conversations like these have an impact on some of the people accessing this thread and makes a difference. I do believe with every generation comes more tolerance and acceptance . [/quote]
Unfortunately, threads like this have made the feminism board pretty unaccessible for anyone who doesn't share the same rhetoric.

BlindGirlMcSqueaky · 17/03/2022 06:38

@fenulla

"....I am happy to share those spaces." With whom? Men who say they're women? Just use the men's if you want to share with them.
I'm not taking questions on this. I'm entitled to my view of the matter.
Clymene · 17/03/2022 06:45

[quote autienotnaughty]**@BlindGirlMcSqueaky I'm amazed you are still here. 👏👏 unfortunately there is ignorance everywhere especially on anonymous forums, all we can do is hope that conversations like these have an impact on some of the people accessing this thread and makes a difference. I do believe with every generation comes more tolerance and acceptance . [/quote]
My elderly mum as getting changed after her swimming lesson a few weeks ago. Some of her friends were naked. And much younger man, wearing a swimsuit, stride into the room and went into the shower.

I cannot tell you how frightened and upset she was.

How fucking dare you dismiss her reaction as ignorance. And no @BlindGirlMcSqueaky yoir views don't belong on the feminism board because they're not feminist. They're regressive and misogynist.

OldCrone · 17/03/2022 06:46

[quote autienotnaughty]@BlindGirlMcSqueaky I'm amazed you are still here. 👏👏 unfortunately there is ignorance everywhere especially on anonymous forums, all we can do is hope that conversations like these have an impact on some of the people accessing this thread and makes a difference. I do believe with every generation comes more tolerance and acceptance . [/quote]
There is far too much tolerance and acceptance by some people of an ideology which is harmful to women and to children of both sexes.

This thread is a good place to start if you want to know more:

www.mumsnet.com/Talk/womens_rights/3145470-Break-it-down-for-me?pg=1

Also this thread:

www.mumsnet.com/Talk/womens_rights/3348290-It-will-never-happen-resource-thread?pg=1

BlindGirlMcSqueaky · 17/03/2022 06:48

I don't know how many times I need to say that I'm not getting into this. If you want to talk about sharing spaces, start another thread on the subject.

BlindGirlMcSqueaky · 17/03/2022 06:48

far too much tolerance and acceptance

Grin
Somanysocks · 17/03/2022 06:49

I do believe with every generation comes more tolerance and acceptance .

You say that like it's a good thing. It is not when women's rights and safety are eroded.

Waitwhat23 · 17/03/2022 06:52

Unfortunately, threads like this have made the feminism board pretty unaccessible for anyone who doesn't share the same rhetoric.

There isn't one feminism board. There are two - one is Feminism:Chat and one is Feminism:Sex and Gender. The FWR board was split last year due to some people's insistence that they didn't want to discuss sex and gender issues. The Feminism:Chat board is there specifically for those who don't want to discuss topics such as sharing spaces.

LaTisaniere · 17/03/2022 06:52

For people who talk a hell of a lot about consent on this board, you're really trying to push someone into discussing something they don't want to? No, means no.

LaTisaniere · 17/03/2022 06:53

@Waitwhat23

Unfortunately, threads like this have made the feminism board pretty unaccessible for anyone who doesn't share the same rhetoric.

There isn't one feminism board. There are two - one is Feminism:Chat and one is Feminism:Sex and Gender. The FWR board was split last year due to some people's insistence that they didn't want to discuss sex and gender issues. The Feminism:Chat board is there specifically for those who don't want to discuss topics such as sharing spaces.

Personally, it's not the topic that's pushed me away from this board and feminism in general. It's the attitude of the regular posters.
BlindGirlMcSqueaky · 17/03/2022 07:01

@Waitwhat23

Unfortunately, threads like this have made the feminism board pretty unaccessible for anyone who doesn't share the same rhetoric.

There isn't one feminism board. There are two - one is Feminism:Chat and one is Feminism:Sex and Gender. The FWR board was split last year due to some people's insistence that they didn't want to discuss sex and gender issues. The Feminism:Chat board is there specifically for those who don't want to discuss topics such as sharing spaces.

It's not that they don't want to discuss it. It's the attempts to beat people into submission if they dare to have a different view of the matter.
autienotnaughty · 17/03/2022 07:01

@Clymene I was once assaulted by a black man. I don't blame black people for this. I don't blame men for this.

How awful your mum was frightened I hope she's ok. Did the person do something specific to frighten your mum?

I find the whole changing room debate bizarre I personally wouldn't get naked in front of men or women I don't know so I use a cubicle. I would be offended by other adults getting naked in front of my children. There is no other situation where it's appropriate to randomly strip off in front of others so I'm not sure why it is for exercise. Most changing rooms I've accessed for sport/swimming etc are mixed so everyone uses cubicles. It seems a much simpler and safer system.

autienotnaughty · 17/03/2022 07:06

@Somanysocks how is being inclusive of trans women impacting on you as a women?

Hasselhoffsheadband · 17/03/2022 07:06

[quote autienotnaughty]@Clymene I was once assaulted by a black man. I don't blame black people for this. I don't blame men for this.

How awful your mum was frightened I hope she's ok. Did the person do something specific to frighten your mum?

I find the whole changing room debate bizarre I personally wouldn't get naked in front of men or women I don't know so I use a cubicle. I would be offended by other adults getting naked in front of my children. There is no other situation where it's appropriate to randomly strip off in front of others so I'm not sure why it is for exercise. Most changing rooms I've accessed for sport/swimming etc are mixed so everyone uses cubicles. It seems a much simpler and safer system. [/quote]
So you think that the fact that 98% of sexual crime is totally irrelevant and that you are just as at risk from a woman as a man?

We already segregate spaces by sex - do you not agree with this then? Do you think everywhere, prisons, refuges, hospital wards etc should just be mixed sex? Allow men and women together and it will be fine?

OldCrone · 17/03/2022 07:06

Personally, it's not the topic that's pushed me away from this board and feminism in general. It's the attitude of the regular posters.

Can you explain a bit more? I'd like to know why a few anonymous posters on here would push you away from feminism in general if you started out as a feminist. What is the 'attitude' that you dislike?

Clymene · 17/03/2022 07:06

@LaTisaniere

For people who talk a hell of a lot about consent on this board, you're really trying to push someone into discussing something they don't want to? No, means no.
Except she's the one who keeps talking about it. One person raised it as an aside at the end of a long post, @BlindGirlMcSqueaky made a couple of statements about her views and then said I'm not discussing it.

Baffling behaviour. Especially on a discussion board.

Hasselhoffsheadband · 17/03/2022 07:07

[quote autienotnaughty]@Somanysocks how is being inclusive of trans women impacting on you as a women? [/quote]
Because transwomen are male and lots of women don't want males in spaces or sports , awards etc that are labelled as 'women only'.

Hasselhoffsheadband · 17/03/2022 07:08

So you think that the fact that 98% of sexual crime is totally irrelevant and that you are just as at risk from a woman as a man?

Sorry this should say 98% of sexual crime is perpetrated by men.

autienotnaughty · 17/03/2022 07:11

@Hasselhoffsheadband of course people who perpetrate crimes should be held accountable. Are you saying those who don't commit crimes should be punished too?

Hasselhoffsheadband · 17/03/2022 07:14

[quote autienotnaughty]@Hasselhoffsheadband of course people who perpetrate crimes should be held accountable. Are you saying those who don't commit crimes should be punished too? [/quote]
My husband is a wonderful man, he has never committed a crime, he has never hurt anyone, he is not a threat to women.

Should he be allowed to go in the ladies changing room?

Somanysocks · 17/03/2022 07:14

Thanks for answering Hassel, I feel like we need to go back to abc as someone hasn't been listening in class.

Also Woman = singular
Women = plural

OldCrone · 17/03/2022 07:15

[quote autienotnaughty]@Hasselhoffsheadband of course people who perpetrate crimes should be held accountable. Are you saying those who don't commit crimes should be punished too? [/quote]
Do you view keeping men out of women's spaces as 'punishment' for those men? Confused

autienotnaughty · 17/03/2022 07:15

I do agree mn should be held accountable for these threads. There's all these calls on social media to better manage fake news and propaganda this is no different.

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