However do these people function in life.
If itbwas anything other than pronouns we'd tell them to stop being so self obsessed and demanding. We'd never in a million years think we were doing them any favours what so ever by indulging the paranoia that everyone is out to get them.
If people were confident in their life choices and decisions they'd not need the validation ajd recognition of others. How self absorbed do you have to he to think that's someone's role in life. To validate you. Did you ask? Do you have their consent for their responsibility for your health that you have planted in them without asking?
Its such a privileged position to be in. To have so little going on in your life that you even have time to invest in harassing people over pronouns.
Take the pronouns out of it. Look at the behaviour.
Is it acceptable.
No.