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Feminism: Sex and gender discussions

Can someone please explain this to me?

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Becca19962014 · 23/09/2021 20:12

Please don't flame me. I'm in a really bad place, mentally and physically, a huge amount to deal with and zero medical support.

I was directed to email someone at the council for urgent help which I did, and it went though (sometimes they don't). I began my email with "Dear Ms" as it was a woman and always address emails as such, like letters, and on the council website it says she's Ms firstname second name.

Anyway, I've had a long email back about discrimination, how i need to educate myself about pronouns online and how to address people properly in writing. They drew my attention to their signature which says gender pronoun her/she and directed me to council policy about gender discrimination.

Zero advice on my urgent situation Sad

I dont understand. Do I now just put "hi" in any professional emails so I don't get in trouble? Why aren't they answering my urgent question?? Was I rude? How am I supposed to know how to address people properly and why am I being accused of discrimination?! Confused

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Becca19962014 · 01/11/2021 15:13

GP and social services going to force examination on me.
Stopped meds. Not slept since Saturday and terrified.

I can’t put thread as too terrified of being abused for it.

There’s no help or understanding at all.

Going to force their way in re hoarding too, so much for impact on mental health during covid being recognised.

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Vanishun · 01/11/2021 16:17

Becca, you won't remember me and god knows what name I was using, but we talked a lot many years ago in a "I hate hot weather" thread. I'm so sorry to hear you're going through this.

Have you ever contacted your MP? Sometimes escalating things to them can help.

Becca19962014 · 01/11/2021 19:30

I have but they don’t want to know.

Anyway the mental health people chaired a massive meeting about me and told everyone just attention seeker and to ignore safeguarding procedures when it comes to me.

They’re going to hurt me.

I assume you were one of the nice ones from the thread? I stopped after awhile as some were so rude to me.

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